BBWcreator82:
As long as your not thirsty and clingy they tend to be pretty easy to find. But if you get weird about things, yeah they disappear pretty fast sometimes.

Its all about presentation.

fatadmirer2021:
I been on here over a year, and I am not really impressed with the site. Tried Feabie and even worse. I try to be myself and its like people just about themselves and not take an interest in just having a conversation with me. Thinking of deleting my profile and go away again for a few months or even a couple of years and then maybe come back and see if its improved. Can't believe in this day and age people do not want to have one on one conversations anymore and kill some time in a positive way. I even paid for one month the full month price for premium membership and not much of an improvement. Too bad I cannot find some like minded people out there that like to just sit and conversate for a simple couple of hours on whatever is on their mind or open about their fantasies. I guess I become too old fashioned.

EIIe:
Maybe your sense of entitlement is what is driving people away?

I get bombarded with messages. I rarely ever respond to them because there are just toooo many.

But I do observe the forums and see how people navigate on them and when someone catches my attention with interesting perspectives that they share I tend to reach out to them…

Without any expectation that they respond!

Sometimes people do and sometimes they don’t!

@Canuck would be a perfect example! He shares his experiences in really authentic ways and contributes his own interesting perspectives! We don’t interact a lot but when we do I always enjoy it!

There’s a book called The Four Agreements, I’d highly recommend it.