One of the most interesting things to me about feederism is the diversity of it. There are so many different ways to experience and enjoy it: worshipping or shaming, mixing it with other kinks, etc. As much as I enjoy that , I can't stand it when someone insists you share their taste/practice. Examples are folks who ask your limit then insist you want immobility, continue to call you piggy even though you've said barnyard isn't your thing and stuff like that.

People who insist all conversation revolve around fat, eating, etc rather than having actual get to know you conversations bother me. Yes, it's the main reason we're here, but I'm a person too. Also peoples whose conversations end after " hi, how are you? " Really? That's all you messaged for? Why bother?

As much as beggars (no offense to legit models and sexworkers, there is a difference and we should all learn it) are an issue, it's also annoying when people assume every woman on here is one. I have never asked anyone on this or any other feederism site for anything, but have been approached and spoken to as if I had or was about to.

There seems to be a ton of feeders, feedees and fatties in the NYC area but not so much to the north. Would anybody in the above mentioned areas be interested in getting together first for group chats and eventually in person meet up at a restaurant?

For me, snuggles with those belly rubs and praise is always nice. I have a hard time seeing my own growth, so pointing out how/where I'm getting bigger is also nice...sincerely or in a teasing manner, either way works.

I like GingerGiant's thinking and Curious Amy's interior design. It's giving me visions. Who wants in on the kickstarter?

Over the last few months I've put on another 15lbs, and my overall gain is becoming quite visible. And it seems like it makes people around me want to feed me.

A couple I know have put on some weight over the last couple of years, her a little and him a lot. They take me out to dinner or have me over and cook for an army about once a month. If I stop by they push snacks- candy? chips? I can turn on the fryer and make you mozzarella sticks? She gave me some t-shirts aand hoodies the other day that are too small on him but give me plenty of room to grow, saying they'll be good for fall.

Lately a coworker of mine has been bringing me treats, buying me lunch, suggesting I need chocolate or to try some new snack. I think he might be trying to make me fatter. He showed up the other day with 13 king-size candy bars insisting I have one and left the other 12 stacked on the desk we share in front of my seat.

Has anyone else experienced this or am I losing my mind? As you get bigger do you find people offering you more or extra helpings?

So...halfway there, how's that working out for you?

I find that I'm more conflicted now than when I started intentionally gaining. At 165lbs on my 5'10" frame people called me thin, weights less than that they asked if I was eating. I started intentionally gaining without reservation. Over the last two years I've loaded on 35lbs.
Nobody else has seemed to notice. I'm feeling a bit conscious about it as I am starting to see how it's affecting movement- change in my gait, not bending over as easily or as far before my belly gets squished, etc. I wonder if I should stop or maybe lose a little before I go too far. At the same time I want to stuffmyself and move up another size by fall.

I love to smoke and eat and smoke and eat. I like to get blazed and go to the buffet too. (Actually when I saw "420 Stuffing" I thought we were making a plan for the upcoming holiday😂)

I don't know what the most is, but I have gained 10 lbs in a week, doing the math that could be 80lbs in two months, unless you plateau?

Just keep eating. It takes a while to break your metabolism. You can increase your stomach capacity by eating a lot and often. It takes time for the brain to register feeling full so eating fast will help you get past full and expand your stomach.