Fantasy Feeder

Crippling loneliness

This is why I didn't limit my choices for people only into this kind of stuff. Restricting yourself can impact the potential chances you have with dating someone.

It feels a lot nicer to think about the person first and fetish second, but that's just me

2 years

Miachu

What to tell friends and family when they comment on your weight/gain?

Iv had the pleasant experience of no one really caring about my weight gain

The only person who has asked me about it, is the gym owner of the Gym i go to. But even then she kinda justs asks if I'm doing ok in life and such. Only really the amount of pounds I've put on when I weigh myself there etc.

I just tell her that I'm just enjoying my life haha

2 years

Miachu

Embarrassing or embracing

If that was me in that situation, I probably would have broke down laughing about it lol

2 years

Miachu

A non feedist partner

Ssbbwstella:
My partner took awhile to understand the kink. But he came around pretty easily once he understood what I desired, It’s always been my passion to get massive, as long as your partner can be supportive and kind then exploring this feedee/feeder kinks can be fun and exciting x

I'm glad it worked out for you!

My BF somewhat gets the kink. As we have spoken about it quite a few times. And considering I've gained 15-20 pounds since we've been together since November/December time from last year lol

And I've made it clear I'm wanting to reach a certain size which he is cool with, his only concern really being my fitness and health. But I've assured him I'll be fine

I am considering/tempted to ask him to at least try a feedist activity some time. Thinking something simple like a easy feeding or just belly play haha

2 years

Miachu

A non feedist partner

Thanks for the further sharings guys!

And I agree with you much

For me a relationship is built on the relationship more first, and if they into the kink also? Thats a lovely little bonus.

Just because my BF isn't into, doesn't make me like him less!

2 years

Miachu

Feederism locations in the uk?

C00kie:
There used to be a couple of club nights primarily based in London, but these were more for larger people and not associated with Feedism.

Club Indulge still run events again usually down in London but have done events in Bristol and Manchester in the past.

We have wanted to put on events, and I have tried to get small groups of people together in Manchester, but unfortunately when it comes down to meeting up in real life people tend to drop out, but I can understand that... real life is scary haha.

I would say you probably wont find anything Feedism specific, but will find events focused on body positive / BBW & BHM /safe space for large people, etc...

If you do find anything do share, would be nice to meet up with people from the scene!