Interesting read so far! It seems like based on what you wrote there and your research, it seems like yes we all do know that obesity to an extent does have its risks. But also what exactly is health if you only look at someone based on looks alone? It’s kinda like you are using critical thinking in hand. I like that!
I also like the last paragraph that you had written there. It’s almost kinda similar to what you said on the forum post about why so many people are mad about the BP/FA movements. Heck you can base some of the stuff you have read there to help you out (especially with the few early comments I made on that)!
The only critique that I can say is that I don’t think that it’s just only women who are tired of being bullied. Though they are the majority, I think some men have had their fair share of it. Or really anyone else who doesn’t fit the “beauty standard” is all fair game.
Otherwise I hope this assignment of yours goes well for you!
1 year
In all honesty lately I have been enjoying the offline mode of gaming a lot more now. Don’t get me wrong the online multiplayer is fine every once in a while. But offline mode gives you that zen when trying to relax.
And since that I play a lot of car racing games… I like to have the freedom of choose whatever car I want, whenever I want without anyone mocking me for how bad I am at racing!
1 year
JN_TumLover56:
Honestly I don’t think that feedism shouldn’t be part of body positivity. Yes both have their similarities but I don’t think that they should coexist. Especially since it will be bad representation and reputation.
Other than that, I would actually go to a convention like this! Just to see what it would be like attending something like this. 😅
Arame:
Oh I would too. lol
I’m going to the next one for sure. lol
I’m curious as to why you think the two coexisting would be a bad representation and reputation
Alright so you’re not entirely wrong that there’s SOME sort of body positivity within the community of feedism. Especially when getting a little boost of confidence from people admiring.
But with the two trying to coexist with each other is one of the main reasons why that the movement itself became a bit perverted. Especially thanks to stuff like the mukbang (the hell you spell that) culture going to far. Plus someone who just flaunts their obesity issues is going to be quite criticized a lot.
Take BBW Layla for an example (no offence off chance you actually see this). She’s been in the game for a respectable long time. But the way how she constantly flaunts her stuffings and complications of being bigger while tagging stuff like “body positivity” on to her content on the socials… it’s gonna get a shit ton of criticism! But I at least I admire Layla’s unapologetic confidence though.
Now look I’m all for those people within the feedist community who want to support any fat positive stuff, that’s cool because I’m one of them. But at the same time they should AT LEAST keep their business away/aside from it. Especially when it comes to feeling good about one’s own skin while not trying to encourage something extreme.
[my apologies for the necro-post I’ve been wanting to respond for some time]
1 year
Thiccbell:
So I have seen and spoke with a few asexual fat admirers here and in other social media. I don't know why but it made me feel a bit more confident. I don't know, maybe it's something about the validation or someone else that shares the same thoughts as I do.
On this subject though, I will say this. Since there's nothing else that I can identify myself sexually, I just veer harshly towards feedism and maybe because I am so socially anxious that making new connections online is complicated for me, that trying to open myself to other people about this and sharing it has been difficult.
So my "horny" spikes just consist of desire to eat and to rub my curves. I don't desire to pin/be pinned or nothing of the sort.
My tastes are just different. I just have to come to terms with that to eventually accept it as normal. Sure wish all the therapists I had gone trough, sexologists as well, would have also accepted what I feel and not treated it as a condition. Looking back, I bet they were just doing that to get to sell me pills.
I’m glad to hear that you are doing much better than how you were feeling beforehand! ☺️ Sometimes we need to take a moment to figure stuff out.
1 year
SumoSized:
They also dangerously dehydrate themselves in order to squeeze any water weight out of their body. Huge Jacked-man almost irreparably damaged his voice when filming the prison scene in Les Miserables. And in an interview he was bragging about it because he looks like an entirety different person in that scene. Which I mean yeah it's true he did, but that's not something to celebrate
Really? He was in that movie? I didn’t even notice. But I guess that’s why from your point there.
1 year
Munchies:
Oh, it's talked about a lot. They mention it in interviews, behind-the-scenes clips, comic book spaces, fitness spaces on what not to do, and ED spaces on how EDs can manifest in men.
It might be that you aren't in spaces that talk about this.
Yeah I’m probably not. Perhaps it’s because it’s something I don’t look upon enough in my algorithms. 😅
1 year
Munchies:
Yes. They starve themselves, dehydrate themselves, hell they can't even season their food so it will taste good.
And then after all that, they mess up their metabolisms after all the stress and shock they put on their bodies. This is why live action superheros look more impressive in movies than on TV shows. It's not sustainable.
Really? Well I’ve heard of actors who do that method acting stuff and go on such fad diets to better suit the role. But for a superhero movie? That’s interesting to say the least. Probably something that nobody talks about.
1 year
Plumplumplump:
Anyone see the Minecraft movie? My eyes were glued to Jason Momoa’s belly! It looked so nice and round! The whole time I was hoping his shirt would lift up a little or when he would huntch over you could really see its roundness hang. Mmmmm I was hoping it would have been rubbed and patted at some point
Munchies:
After his stint as Aquaman, Jason is taking a break from superhero movies. Not sure if you know, but those actors train like crazy and starve themselves to get those bodies.
They all hate it.
So Jason's been taking a break from all that by rocking a dad bod.
They starve themselves?? Sheesh no wonder why they end up looking so lean and mean! But hey I guess it’s for the sake of the role that they need to act and whatnot.
1 year
Chillguyontheeastside:
I was wondering if anyone else has given up on finding a feedee partner? It's either everytime it's too good to be true or nothing ever leads anywhere. I feel like I just reached the point that if it happens it happens, but it's been to the point that I might just start to pull away from the community/kink
I certainly have myself. I had to force my retirement because it got so bad of some people trying to take advantage of me when they lead me on to so much promise when I felt like I finally got that “special kind of acceptance”.
While I may accept that I may never be able to get the feedist belly queen of my dreams, I still hang around the community and admire all of the pictures and videos. As far as dating IRL I’ve dated plenty of bigger girls who I was lucky enough to play with their bellies without anything to do with the weight gain kink (but sometimes I tease about it).
You can still enjoy yourself with this kink and whatnot, there’s nothing wrong with having a preference to this thing. Just don’t always let it be the most important thing in your life, especially when it’s affecting your dating life. But I am sorry that you are going through a tough time right now, but with time and courage you’ll be able to get back up! And maybe have someone in your life who can be able to find that nuance with your kink.
1 year
I think that there was a similar topic earlier. While it’s very tempting. I hope to one day try it out and see what it’s like to interact with some people in the community, once it becomes fully functional.
1 year
