So I had recently watched a video from a YouTuber named “Daisha Unique” and this woman, a plus size woman talked about her personal frustrations with fat acceptance and mukbangs (or whatever it’s spelled).

youtu.be/msjsPzV8Chg

Now I didn’t watched the whole thing because I already know most of the things that was discussed and I couldn’t really stomach it after everything that I have been through having my algorithms sting me with stuff like this. But either way it had me thinking about this thread and tracked it down again.

Now I did posted a big comment about everything I thought about it in one of the earlier comments. After briefly watching it and reading the comments, it seems like how so many people have turned on against FA/BP is because some people have broken away from the “lies and delusions” and decided to be more healthier. Especially from what I have seen in the comments section. I had to post a comment for everything that I had to say, a big one with a hint of nuance. 😅

Now there is nothing wrong with losing weight if that’s what someone wants to do. It’s like I have mentioned that there’s a fine line between doing so for looking after one’s wellbeing versus pursuing beauty standards.

I’ll always do my best as an ally with the plus size space. Still though, it sucks as someone who has a preference for liking bigger women to be stung like this again. But I guess that’s what happens when you care too much about a community that you care about. Perhaps it’s just a reality I have to live with and finding that nuance and keep on racing.

She was probably pregnant more likely. Though it is kinda fun to use your imagination eh? 😜

There are many things that do make my heart race for the good and bad reasons (like anxiety).

But for the sake of this forum topic and not to mention what site I am on, I think what will make my heart race is the anticipation of being able to properly play with someone’s belly for the first time when everything is out!

Sure after a while it won’t be as bad the more the happens. But they say that nothing beats your first time, especially when it feels like your heart is about to pop out of your chest. 😅

Ha ha! Maybe I did, maybe I didn’t. But that’s something only you shall find out!

Alright then. Thanks.

Denial huh? That’s usually how it starts with most problems.

Ha ha! Well I am Canadian so it doesn’t bother me as much. 😜

All jokes aside thought, I think everyone knows when someone tells them to “touch grass” as in a way to get off the internet and devices and experience the outside world… maybe talk to someone IRL. There’s more to life outside of our devices than it is on the inside. Self-improvement people have preached about this. Heck, I have seen you tell other users to touch grass. You should know that.

Now I respect you and your advice and opinions. But recently it seems like you just haven’t been giving me a break from some of the recent forum discussions. It’s almost like you don’t want people to have a different opinion even if it’s something quite similar to yours.

To save this particular forum discussion from being chaotic, I’ll have to write you a note when I can.

Seems like I can’t win no matter how much I try to counter you, even if I may have a point. Anyways I’m going to head out to touch grass now. Highly recommend! 💯

You know I actually do agree with this in some way shape or form. Because I can relate from my own experiences.

A recent example (even if it was a few months ago) I talked to a girl who was plus size and very much my type. And she also appreciates the fact that I am into women like her, even the belly attraction thing of mine. However because she was in the process of losing weight she told me that she’s very against this fetish. I respected her decision and told her that I am not into it anymore as I used to, I want to like her for her and not her body.

It didn’t end up working out, but it’s behind me now. What I am trying to say is that many plus size women (or any women really) don’t like to be a fetish whatsoever. Especially when someone is only interested in their features and nothing else. Women are not objects and should never be so! But if someone doesn’t really need any sexual tension, they are more likely to be ahead of everyone else who do.

I have made a comment previously where I mentioned that some people do despise feedism. It’s something that someone in this should have awareness about. Of course, people do have their preferences but if it’s in a perspective of a fetish… that’s when it could get problematic.

Ahh… sure you can say that. It’s like when I am saying a “softie” I’m trying to say as to describe someone who is humble and kind or even down to earth. Instead of someone who’s very uptight to a point where they come off as a rough person.

I’m essentially saying something similar to what you said earlier but saying it in my own way y’know?