Ditzy:
In my case having a husband that controlled everything in your life from what time you got up in the morning to the time you went to bed is enough to make spite a very strong thing.
I was his "trophy wife".
I had to dress to the nines any time I went out with him and even if I went to the grocery.
If I failed to do exactly as he ordered he would slap me around and call me horrible names.
I doubt any of you ladies here would put up with that.
My spite was not really self harm to me but to his ego.
I knew it was temporary.
Wtf!?!? Im so sorry you had to pass even a day of this! Its traumatic!
3 months
I really like adult and child, specifically i wanna be a good boy for a mommy dome feeder. This dynamic means i can be carefree and irresponsible (eat because im greedy, to the point my belly would hurt, etc, - being too dumb to realize that if i eat too much i will suffer the consequences, or that if i cum too much i will become addicted to it) and my mommy dome is the figure that takes care of me. The hotest part in that is that she also gets to define what my good is! Like, she can define it as me being too fat to roll over in bed, and because im carefree and irresponsible i wouldn't even care to resist it! And she could lovingly get me so fat that i would become totally dependent and trapped with her! 🥴
3 months
MottiF:
Sounds god! i'll try this, just to be prepare for what to expect from her, yeah.
Thanks, i'm so excited!
Its also importand to say it, in order to communicate your worry! It will be appreciated i think!
3 months
MottiF:
After days of chatting with a female feeder, I was able to arrange a date with her, so I just will appreciate any advices regarding a first date with her.
What do avoid or what is acceptable in meeting her, i mean, do u bring up a long the way out kinks, or just waiting her to bring it up?
We talked a lot about me gaining weight and all, i was eating really well this week, with her encouragement, and we really talked about our kinks, and we pretty open with each other. So i just really appreciate what to do on a first date with her, she really open to feeding me in public, and talking about how she will fatten me up and all. We will meet on an all you can eat restaurant so I don’t know if that matter. Just would be glad to hear any advice from ppl here.
First of all, big CONGRATS!!
I think you should ask her exactly that, right of the bat. Is she okay with you opening up completely even to the most "uncomfortable" parts of your fantasies, right away? Or would she prefer a more gradual opening up, etc?
Does she want a super sexy date or a romantic one?
Btw if i were in your position, i would say something like... "I have this preference for our date but i wanna know your preference about it also!"
What do you think?
3 months
Yes! I once was an extreme feeder! But roughly 3 years back i changed to being a feedee! I started pleasuring myself with feedee fantasies and now i cant help it at all!
Talking with a woman who also pushed me into engaging with my feedee side, also helped!
3 months
Enas:
(TW)
The patriarchical hierarchy and ideology, as well as strict gender roles must be abolished, for anything good to happen. You cannot hold accountable those in power who have the power to evade that, for example.
By the way i also wanna bring up something ive noticed. When news report, for example, harassment, rape, etc, ive noticed the titles are always "Woman was raped" or something like that, but never "Man raped woman". At least on my local news its like that.
Munchies:
Can we not talk about rape when it is not relevant to the topic at hand? This is not the space to talk about this.
I was talking about news titles and how theyre scewed. I mentioned that only as an example, and its one of the only two examples im aware. I think the other example is even worse, so i choosed this one. I also think that not mentioning one example would severely compromise my communication.
And yeah, nobody talked *about* rape and we can continue that way.
3 months
Beachside Farmer:I would believe it as well. Have always been curious how much men take up these sites. Surely nothing can be 100% accurate but this site alone can see that. Though I do believe there are probably less women who are open about being interested in this fetish than those who are proud of it. Could make for an interesting study. Great work!
Munchies:It has nothing to do with being proud. They get run off the platform. To be a public female FA/feeder is to deal with aggressive male feeders who try to manipulate you into being their feedee, desperate and horny male feeders that violate all of your boundaries, and scammers who think you are a man and harass you for money.
You could be a gold star lesbian and the men will try to harass you into submission. I've seen many a female FA/feeder flee in terror.
The only reason I am still here is because nothing these creeps do can top the horrors I have survived irl. If I wasn't made of sterner stuff, I'd have been run off within the first week of being on here.
Growing Rolls:I'm really sorry you’re experiencing this—it’s not okay at all. No one should have to put up with that kind of behavior. To all FFA/female feeders out there: Stay strong, and know that you’re not alone in feeling this way.
Munchies:I see where you are coming from. I appreciate the effort. But instead of asking women to endure, let's ask men to be better.
Growing Rolls:You're absolutely right. It's not about women enduring, it's about men doing better and being held accountable. Everyone deserves respect and kindness, and the responsibility lies with all of us to make that the norm. Thank you for bringing this up.
(TW)
The patriarchical hierarchy and ideology, as well as strict gender roles must be abolished, for anything good to happen. You cannot hold accountable those in power who have the power to evade that, for example.
By the way i also wanna bring up something ive noticed. When news report, for example, harassment, rape, etc, ive noticed the titles are always "Woman was raped" or something like that, but never "Man raped woman". At least on my local news its like that.
3 months
I kind of want to share more stuff about death feederism...
I know that with death feederism there always comes bad psychological stuff. Because of course youre killing yourself without necesarily wanting to die, specifically (youre not trully suicidal, in its typical sense). Im often finding myself thinking about how to deal with those! Is it possible to doge them so as to not suffer from them? So far the only idea i got about this, is basically to "burn the bridge". That is to say, to make myself so severely addicted to food and sex, that even if i really suffer, i will be completely incapable of wanting to stop! I find this hot in itself, im turned on by the idea of being addicted. Im also turned on by the idea of having an Evil feeder who refuses to stop fattening me up, even if (so addicted that i am) i do manage to communicate that i do want to stop. Id love it if she would then do a good forcefeeding and fucking session, just so i forget about it or whatever!
I know im super fucked up, but i honestly get super turned on by all that abusive stuff! 😅
3 months
First of all, lets not forget that death feederism is not a thing, its a category of fetishes, because everyone has it different! And those fetishes share a common quality, usually puting the fetish above even your life. And it can get really weird and complex.
For example, i am a death feedee. I want to be fattened up to death, but that in itself wouldn't be enough to... bribe me into going down that path. What really turns me on are other things that can only exist if im being fattened up to death. For example, i wanna be incredibly weak (as in both physical weakness, and no self control) and absolutely dependent on a feeder woman who's on one hand really sweet (like, she constantly feeds and f*cks me, etc) but on the other hand a manipulative abuser who feeds my eating and cumming addictions in order to make it impossible for me to refuse to give consent, even as she feeds me through heart attacks. Being fed to death turns me on because its proof of how extremely weak and dependent i am to someone who plans to fatten me up to that point, thats what turns me on about it, not death!
In fact i kind of wish to find such a feeder, one to which i can consent to be handled in such a way that i loose the ability to ever retrieve my consent again. Trapped for ever with her feeding and fucking me mercilessly! O.o
3 months
Enas:If im well versed on this specific matter...
The direct assosiation between estosterone and agression is an, oftentimes false, oversimplification. What it actually does is to reinforce pre-existing social patterns and behavior. That's where agression comes from in the first place, and not testosterone, by itself.
My source for believing this is this guy:
youtube.com/shorts/sbgmUvV_qpE Is this helpfull? Do you disagree with it? What do you think?
Munchies:Yes! This is correct! Social stressors like poverty, unaddressed and underaddressed mental health, and gender roles are better indicators of aggression than hormones.
Fat isn't inherently feminine. It doesn't strip you of your manhood and make you more feminine. Sure, you are more likely to have lower testosterone and higher estrogen levels. But it is not enough to make you not aggressive.
Well, it can certainly bury mens' genitals, which is something ive noticed some stories name "manhood", and many people and i certainly find this incredibly hot...
My point is that in our fantasies it often does strip male feedees of our manhoods in some sense!
Especially in my own fantasies, wanting to be weak and dependent, to an evil woman etc.
3 months
