MlekoWTubce:
Thx for all the replies, we had very strong argument today about all of this. She is really into her weight loss and I dont want to stop her. There is a big chance that its all gonna end tbh, she thinks im fucked up and she told me i need to get "rid of it" or we done ://// not gonna lie that sucks hard i really love her but she says it means nothing because she doesnt "feel it". She threatens me with cheating if i "dont get this straight".
I think we close to done, I would never let a cheat slide and if she continues her weigh loss journey im afraid its gonna missalign with me further.
Sorry for english not my native language
Chubbyfoxgirl:
Sexual intimacy issues aside - your girlfriend has reacted very hurtful to a relatively harmless preference, has insulted and belittled you for finding heavier women attractive and confiding in her, and she has now threatened to cheat on you? If you don't "get rid of" a preference?
My dear, maybe a breakup might be for the best. She sounds immature, rude, slightly dumb (how exactly does she think one could get rid of sexual preferences) and overall like not the best partner
Gonna push back on how you characterized her.
Not defending the cheating. That's fucked. But you have to keep in mind that, from her perspective, OP is basically calling her ugly. That she isn't his type and he isn't happy with her body.
Not saying that's what OP is saying. But when your body goals don't align with your SO's wishes for you, there's only so many ways to take it that isn't negative. This is why I pushed for OP to talk to his therapist. He's got shit to sort out, and talking to his gf without sorting his shit out would only end in explosions.
