Nitchbigger:
I once knew a waitresses who gained 60lbs in 3 months on accident. She was stuffing herself like crazy that holiday season. Lots of food and booz. She had the biggest pregnant looking belly I've ever seen irl by the end of it.

Iridescent Pearly:
Thought I had a great kindling of a relationship with another lovely individual or so I thought. I then sent of video of me speaking. Surprise IM TRANS. or it shouldn’t be considering it says I’m a trans woman on my profile. No response for 3 hours turns out I was BLOCKED. God Add another too good to be true heartache. I hate being trans it’s a curse.

TwistedBike:
A friend suggested I should aim for 500 lbs since I'm currently 490 lbs, but I'm concerned about weight and health problems even at 490 lbs. I'm also considering a weight loss journey at my current weight. What are your thoughts

SumoSized:
That's a really personal question, and one that's hard to give a solid response to without knowing the full context. Have you experienced any health concerns or do any serious health problems run in your family that obesity could make worse? And do you think the joy of gaining weight is greater than those potential risks?
I'm not saying this to dissuade you, it's just important to listen to your body in these situations. If you decide to continue gaining weight you can try to mitigate potential risks like trying to stay relatively active and taking the more difficult route of eating healthier foods in large quantities rather than mostly junk food in order to gain weight.

TwistedBike:
I've been wanting to lose weight I've just not been sure if I should. As far for health concerns none as of yet luckily but my father's side of the family has had a history of asthma but I haven't inherited it.

Mothman1953:
I have written fat fetish stories before and posted them elsewhere, but it hasn’t been for a long time. About a month ago I decided to find some good fat-related erotic text and then have it recorded by a female voice AI. Then I could listen to the recording while I was looking at images or videos of fat or gaining women and it would seem like the woman in the images was saying these things to me. I knew that doing this would turn me on. But finding good text was hard. So I decided to write my own text. That is how I ending up writing the story I have posted on this site. My story is called...”What I Have Always Wanted” But here is the thing. Just writing the story has been a real turn-on for me. Have any of you had similar experiences?

Ultimateaaron12:
I want to get fat fast but I’m very skinny. I’ve tried to keep it a fantasy but I can’t anymore, how can I increase my appetite and change my mindset to be nothing but food and gaining?

JN_TumLover56:
Well everyone it seems that my own confidence has taken a bit of a hit.

I have recently watched the “Fit vs. Fat” women edition of Middle Ground by Jubilee on YouTube.

youtu.be/u4gEBRSKi2E

While I did though that it was a pretty decent conversation and it was something that I mostly agreed with what was being discussed, not to mention it gave me that sense of delight how both sides agreed on certain topics. But the comment section though… quite the opposite.

Now this isn’t the first time nor the last that I have seen this before, especially in a Jubilee video when they talk about fat people. But this time it really ended up ruining the whole mood for me with people commenting about how “blind” and “delusional” the people on the panel were, plus the good old “obese is unhealthy” comment that everyone familiar with by now. And of course there was people saying that too many people were making up “excuses” especially for saying how they used to think like so when they were fat. Oh, and I think a lot of people know that the hardest critic of fat people are those who used to be so… or most of the time.

Now yes there were some positive comments (or at least ones with a bit of nuance) of that video. But let me tell you at least 89% of them had a bit of a negative tone to them.

Even I tried to put in a well thought comment on it. Here’s actually what I said:

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“Now I’ve said something similar to the one where they had with men… but one thing that I’ve learned from watching this (and that) video and from personal experiences, no body is ever alike nor perfect. Sure health stuff does matter, but it should only be taken for personal reasonings not for anyone else outside of the matter.

I know many people have questioned body positivity in recent times, but there’s one thing that I’ve always stayed loyal to. Is that body positivity is choosing positivity and to learn to be grateful of your own skin and flaws. And whether or not if I wanted to change… I’m still thankful that my features are what make me, myself! ❤️ Now I do acknowledge that there’s nothing wrong with losing weight, but it’s ALSO nothing wrong with being okay with yourself without changing yourself physically. After all self acceptance is just as important as self improvement! There’s a fine line between losing weight for looking after your wellbeing versus keeping up with social beauty standards.”

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As of right now it currently has about 25 likes (last time I checked). But compared with all the other comments that I have seen that had hundreds and thousands of likes, especially from the formerly fat people who have commented… I was like “How do you compete with that!” and I just completely exhausted myself mentally from seeing all of that.

Now I’m not trying to get myself feel validated, not at all. It’s more about getting my message out there hopefully to find some nuance or something like that. I do acknowledge that not every comment in that video is considered a hate comment when they are really being more critically truthful.

Either way it made me feel small and not really good about myself. Maybe it’s because I care too much, maybe it’s because of me liking bigger women I worry that one day I’ll face a reality that they won’t exist anymore or be banished from society. Or perhaps it’s a reminder that people like me belong under a rock.

Now I apologize if this was a long post. But I do have a lot to say about it. 😅 I know that it also sounds a little downbeat but I think it’s because well it is a pretty deep topic. I bet the comments of this thread is gonna be interesting! I will always like bigger women and I will try to bring some of that kind of nuance to be an ally to plus size women. But in today’s social climate, it’s getting difficult!

Anyways thanks for coming to my TED talk.

RoyalRose:
Hi! So I tried doing some force feeding kink play with my partner last night and it.. didn't go so well. We've tried a couple times in the past but it's always a mixed bag as to how it goes. Which really sucks because we're both super into the idea!

Just wondering if other people have tried, and how it went for them. Maybe even ask for advice I guess?

For us, the best we've found is having me on all fours while he pushes my head into cake. But that position gets uncomfortable so fast! And I always burn out on the cake's flavor before finishing even half, even if im not full yet

Flavor fatigue is my biggest weakness I think, but there aren't a lot of non-dessert soft foods that would be good for this, atleast that I know of anyways

Thekindestman:
I would love to know if there are any feedee moms Out there. It seems like there must be some