Disabling comments on photos + ability to edit captions

LoraDayton:
I don't want comments on my photos or videos. Ever. From anyone. I would like the option to disable these entirely.

Plus the ability to edit the caption would be very helpful. Some are just outdated, and I don't want to re-upload the photo.


Just speaking as a user, I like both of those ideas a lot.
5 months

Venting on weight loss

JayDee303:
I intentionally made some dietary changes that led to some unintentional weight loss. I was happy with myself bigger but needed to do it for health reasons which have been successfully mitigated.

I have been bothered by well-intentioned people commenting on my weight loss. The biggest annoyances have been people that vastly overestimate how much weight I lost and people asking probing questions about my diet and exercise habits. Some of if has made me want to fatten myself up out of spite, but instead I have decided to focus on the positives and stay the course.

The positives:

1. My wife has been mostly indifferent to my weight loss and is frustrated by my dietary restrictions. It is comforting as she is the only person outside of myself that I care how they feel about my body and loves me the same when I am smaller and bigger. My diet is mine alone and I don't ask her to go along with me, and if anything, there have been more snacks for her laying around since I am not helping her eat them, of which I am enjoying the results.

2. I have taken opportunities to explicitly state that I liked myself bigger and the weight loss was just a side effect to shut down some of the more anti-fat unsolicited comments.

3. There have been a few people that been able praise my stewardship of my health while lamenting the loss of my former frame and enjoyment of food. I am thankful for their understanding of my choices and separation of the two issues.

4. While I have no intention of purposefully regaining all of the weight I lost, I do have plans to continue to modify my diet and some slight weight gain is expected - both muscle and fat.


Congrats on your health journey. This is a great place to vent about your frustrations cause I think everyone can understand to one degree or another, but like you said, your health comes first. You wouldn’t have done the hard things otherwise.

But we just live in a world where everyone is expected to be proud of themselves when they lose weight and expected to enjoy talking about it endlessly to anyone who asks. In reality, not everyone is thrilled to lose weight for a bunch of different reasons and most people are happy to keep that stuff private even if they are happy with it. Maybe having a few good subject-changers on hand when you bump into people you haven’t seen in a while would be helpful.
5 months

Requests/suggestions/ideas

I’m going to move this to the story authors forum if you don’t mind. It probably fits there much better.

In general, though, I find when I get burned out on writing kinky stuff, it often helps to do something completely different for a little while: try a different fiction genre or poetry or something memoirish. Even just doing a few prompt exercises can be good for working out different muscles.

I have a small group with some folks from here and other friendly types, I try to do different kinds of exercises like that. If you’d like to join, let me know.
5 months

Theme of the month - december


Time for something new to write about. I figured we'd make it simple and do a holiday story for December. Doesn't have to be Christmas or Hanukkah, doesn't even have to be a winter holiday. Make it up, play with the idea, or do something about getting stuffed by the Christmas tree -- sky's the limit.

As always, under 5,000 words is a nice target, but write whatever feels good.

If you're going to participate, please post in the thread and link to the story so people can read it and give feedback. Please keep critiques constructive, but please do critique! You all write amazing stuff and it's important to be recognized.

If you feel stuck and want to brainstorm, feel free to use the thread to chat.

The rules of the event are the same as always:

1) In addition to being about weight gain or body positivity, stay on the monthly theme, which should be easy because the topics will be very wide and open to interpretation.
2) Try to stick to something under 5,000 words, but if the muse overtakes you, that's great, too!
3) Post in the thread! Let us know if you're playing, have questions, want to chat, and when you have a story to share. Post a link!
4) Just like with all the stories on this site, zero characterizations of minors are allowed. Hate and bigotry have no place in this event.
5) Feedback by authors and readers is very welcome, but keep it constructive. All different skill levels of writers are encouraged to participate, so I ask everyone to be helpful and encouraging. If you've never given (or received) constructive criticism for creative writing before, here's a short essay that could be helpful: marykole.com/constructive-criticism

Happy writing and happy holidays!
5 months

Fantasy - fattened up to avoid enlistment, as a sign of love

FattenedCookie:
Omg I thought I was the only one smiley While I totally agree with you, I would love to read a fiction about thissmiley


There is an unfinished story on here with that premise. Maybe it will be finished some day! Greener pastures over yonder by Chubboiz
5 months

Boyfriend is reason i gained weight

KatKit:
I met a man when I was seventeen and as crazy as it sounds we stayed together for four years when we met I was 250 already big and I'm not a feedee by any means but he had a habit of cooking too much food for two and pressured me into eating he also would bring trays of food to me I really didn't want to as I was planning on a diet of course I had been fir months and never did but he kept pressuring me to eat and as of now I'm 510 pounds and have broke up with him as he really didn't care about what I thought or wanted and by the end he just stopped coming around it's been a while and I've gotten over it but and I wonder if anyone else has a similar story

Munchies:
Sweetie ... how old was this man when you two met? The use of the word "man" in conjunction with the phrase "when I was seventeen" gives me pause.


I wouldn’t believe this story.
5 months

Tag spam in stories

Kryslin:
Is there a place to report tag spam in the story archive? About 2/3rds of the stories under Clothes padding are improperly tagged by their authors. Definitely in the free stories, I don't have the spare cash to check the premium stories.

While it may be a way to get extra readership, it's also deceptive.

Thank you.

FF Team:
If you press the report button on the story, and add a note saying 'all tags added' this will flag the content to the admin team who can send a message to the author asking them to review the tags and remove any unnecessary ones.

Tags are there to easily identify content readers are interested in. By tagging everything it defeats the purpose. So understand your frustration with this.

c00kie
FF Team

Kryslin:
One small problem, there is no way to report premium stories with first having a premium membership. So some authors are finding a way around getting their stories reported for tag spam.

You can always DM an admin, too.
5 months

Anguished about my colonoscopy.

Stockylove:
Hello, here is my verdict on my colonoscopy, I was of course anguished when I went to the hospital. But it went very well. When I woke up I was relieved and happy. And yes you are right, the colonoscopy is really not a problem, plus the doctor told me that I had nothing serious, just hemorrhoids. 😁

However there is something I do not understand. Despite the very positive assessment of the morning. I realize that I am "STILL" anguished when I should on the contrary be happy and relieved, I almost had an anxiety attack when I got home. It's weird I do not understand. My two days before my colonoscopy were very hard mentally and nervously (I even had an anxiety attack on Tuesday) and I was constantly stressed and anxious. Do you think this is the aftereffect of my two days of anxiety before the colonoscopy? It's really hard to bear every day, I hope it won't last too long.

I don't even understand why I'm still anxious, it should be fine.
medical anxiety is very common. If it’s bothering you and you don’t feel like you’re able to work through it on your own, think about talking to a professional. It’s very common and manifests in different ways with different people. Thinking about health and mortality is heady stuff.
5 months
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