Stockylove:
I'm writing this topic because, maybe I'm wrong but....
I feel like there are a lot of asexual people in the gainer community, and people who have kinks on their bellies and fat. Think maybe I'm a little asexual myself or on a spectrum that's close to it. Finally, if my observations are accurate and not biased, do you think you know what would explain this?
Munchies:
First thing you gotta remember is that the term "gainer" came from the LGBTQIA+ community. So, naturally, some people people from that community may prefer to use that term over feedee.
Also, these days gainer means "someone who wants to be fat". There are a lot.of ace people that engage in kink but do not want to be sexual with someome else. Being a gainer allows people to do that. Unlike feedees that prefer to be fed, most gainers prefer to do it solo or are ambivilent to being fed.
Ha i see.
5 months
I'm writing this topic because, maybe I'm wrong but....
I feel like there are a lot of asexual people in the gainer community, and people who have kinks on their bellies and fat. Think maybe I'm a little asexual myself or on a spectrum that's close to it. Finally, if my observations are accurate and not biased, do you think you know what would explain this?
5 months
I've never really had a psychological attraction to overweight characters, because unfortunately they are rarely presented as cool characters in truth. But I just realized when I was a kid, watching The Incredibles I saw one reason why I might have an attraction to Stocky Daddies. It was Bob,
the father of the family. Plus there were lots of scenes where you could see her belly in 3D moving in all directions.
And he really had a hot daddy voice in the French version (because yes I am French) Otherwise I don't know his original version.
I also wrote this topic because I realized that in a lot of people, fetishes and future attractions in others are triggered by seeing certain scenes in films or cartoons from our childhood. (I'm thinking for example of the blueberry from Charlie and the Chocolate Factory)
I apologize for the message I wrote above. I tried to delete it but I can't
5 months
I've never really had a psychological attraction to overweight characters, because unfortunately they are rarely presented as cool characters in truth. But I just realized when I was a kid, watching The Incredibles I saw one reason why I might have an attraction to Stocky Daddies. It was Bob,
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the father of the family. Plus there were lots of scenes where you could see her belly in 3D moving in all directions.
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And he really had a hot daddy voice in the French version (because yes I am French) Otherwise I don't know his original English voice.
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5 months
Newenglander:
Recently saw a movie starring Sarah LeJeune. First time seeing her, definitely a hottie in my book. Hope she does more movies. I can't stop thinking about her.
effectively.
5 months
Stockylove:Have you ever had a psychological, physical attraction, or both, to an overweight character in a film, series, anime, cartoon, or video game? How did it go for you? and what did this awaken in you?
Munchies:Only as a child. I remember being attracted to Clay from Xiaolin Showdown.
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Outside of that, I've always preferred real people. Ya can't smooch a cartoon after all.
Of cours yep.
5 months
Have you ever had a psychological, physical attraction, or both, to an overweight character in a film, series, anime, cartoon, or video game? How did it go for you? and what did this awaken in you?
5 months
I'm writing this topic because one of my biggest dreams is to be crushed under the big hairy belly of a huge gaybear 🐻 and that's why I made belly crushing videos (where I play the role of a giant who crushes a plastic figurine of a human being with my stomach), and I had the idea to see on the internet if some people did the same thing as me. And I was disappointed not to find anything. I can't find videos of people crushing people with their bellies, or even figurines etc... Otherwise I found facesitting but that's not what I was looking for. Do you know of videos similar to those I posted in the videos on my profile ?
5 months
BigBallBellyGirl:
I have some very good friends who know there is a sexual component to my size and eating habits; with some, I've spoken of it, although not in great detail to non-feedists.
My parents know I'm happy with my size and do not aspire to be thin. They're not thrilled, but they also love me enough not to alienate me for it. There is a zero percent chance I'd ever discuss feedism with them
With work, my size and sexual preferences are absolutely no one's business.
All that said, my fiance probably has more friends who know about his lifestyle. He's tall, lean, and fit, and he is marrying a 500 lb.+ woman. While he has been in past relationships with some average-sized or thin women, two of his past girlfriends have been over 300 pounds. At the very least, most people who are close to him know his preferences.
Lucky man.
7 months
Stockylove:
I was just wondering if there were a lot of people who admitted to having these fetishes or kinks to their parents, families, friends, or work colleagues. How they reacted. Did they discover it or did you tell them? How do you live this experience?
For my part, no one knows. I simply don't assume it, especially since I have a lot of kinks around gaybears and bellies in general. If I told them all about my weird big weirdo's kinks, they'd be sent to the psychiatric asylum.
PurpleJade:
I told my partner, and a friend who I don't talk to much. But I haven’t told my therapist.
I’m quiet around fetishes and really don’t talk about it. My partner recently has asked me if I would love them after they lost weight with their new injection they were approved for. The question was vague and not really as direct as I worded it. But we clearly both don't want to talk about it. That was the first time they suggested my fetish since maybe a year ago when I first brought it up.
Good luck. This is not a situation I would want to be in. But I don't think that will happen to me.
7 months
