My biggest problem with my big fat belly

Ditzy:
Mine is soft and flabby and its hard to keep my hands off it.

MRFATS53:
Yes, I'm the same.
Does yours make you wet and want to masturbate?

Munchies:
Damn

You went straight for it huh?

MRFATS53:
Hopefully we're all grown-ups on here!

Munchies:
Out here typing with your left hand.

You know she's in a relationship, right?

MRFATS53:
???

Munchies:
Where did I lose you?

Bro probably thinks that just because this is a kink site that every woman on here is fair game
3 months

Does anyone have to lose or maintain weight for jobs?

Casual Gainer:
Implicit or explicit?

At say my retail job, I would say there's an implicit limit subject to individual capability, due to the physical nature of the job.

Retail is definitely a pain while gaining, I work in retail on the weekends and my ankles are killing me by the end of the day. And bending down to stock shelves is becoming more and more difficult
3 months

Notification history gone?

I can second mine are gone as well
3 months

Become morbidly obese? live a normal life?

TheUltimate323:
I'm 22, and I'm on my way to gaining weight. I only weigh 66kg now, but my goal is to reach 82kg, which would certify me as obese. I'm 165cm tall. My goal would be to weigh between 109 and 120kg, which would make me morbidly obese.

My question is, can you live a relatively normal life at that weight? Obviously there will be some mobility limitations, not fitting into some seats, having to buy large sizes, but that turns me on.
You know, living a relatively normal life?

SumoSized:
Honestly 109 kg isn't much, that's around where I am now and it doesn't really impair my mobility as much as you seem to think it will. I mean sure my endurance has been reduced from what it was 100 lbs ago and bending down requires a bit more energy than it used to but it's negligible. And I only rarely encounter seats that are too small for me (mostly old furniture from 100 years ago at my grandparents house). As for clothes I'm between a large and XXL depending on the brand so finding clothes isn't that difficult. Except for jeans but that's only because I have muscular legs so finding jeans that fit my thighs can be a pain.
Honestly I think you're working yourself up too much. The changes are slow and I'm afraid at the pace you're posting these forum posts you'll get burnt out from the lack of progress. Just take your time and enjoy the changes as they come. You'll reach your goals and hell if you find you don't like them then you can always lose the weight. There's no such thing irreversibly fat, it does get harder to lose weight as you get bigger sure, but it's not irreversible.

TheUltimate323:
Yes, I understand everything you say. I am aware of that. But if I am 165cm tall, what do you think would be the maximum weight I could reach and still have a relatively normal life? I know this is a long term goal, but i want to have a finish goal btw.

Honestly I don't think it's a good idea to a set in stone long term goal. For me I prefer checkpoints where I take time to reevaluate how my gain is going and decide if I want to continue. When I first started gaining 200 lbs seemed like this massive accomplishment since I had gained like 75 lbs in 3 years and I honestly thought I wouldnt go much further than that. Now I'm doing check points every 50 lbs. I'm already decided I want to go past 250 but I'm still going to celebrate once I reach it. But once I get to 300 lbs I'm going to decide if I want to keep gaining to 350 stay at 300, or hell I may decide to drop some weight and hover around somewhere lower.
I just think you set yourself up for failure when you set a goal too far away into the future because you'll forget the little victories along the way and you'll burn yourself out when you don't reach that goal as quickly as you'd like
3 months

Question for vagina owners

MickRidem:
I have a female friend who is too embarrassed to ask herself, so on her behalf I'll paraphrase her question:

"I hit my highest weight and wanted to bring it down a little. I started keto this summer. I've been finding my crotch having more burning sensations. I talked to my doctor and it's not a yeast infection. I did some research and I'm wondering if it's rubbing from being heavier and more sweat down there, or if the keto diet is changing my vaginal PH balance. Or both? Using Penaten to help, but this is awful. Does anyone else experience this?"

Any experience you might have had would be appreciated.

LuvsChub04:
Um... why are you asking for a 'friend' shouldn't the friend be asking...yet ya chub rub six

Munchies:
Hun, the situation has been resolved months ago. Calm your tits.

Also he literally answered that in the first sentence, his friend was too embarrassed to ask themselves. Not everyone feels comfortable talking about their bodies online, so it was nice of OP to ask for her and it sounds like things ended up working out for her and she was appreciative. that's the sign of a good friendship, idk what luvschub is trying to imply.
3 months

Question for vagina owners

True this is a pretty chill corner of the Internet. But my god the other social media sites are a warzone right now
3 months

Necroposting question

I feel like if you're just continuing the conversation it's fine. Even if half the accounts previously in the conversation are now dormant, it lets the conversation carry on and maybe new people will add their opinions to the mix.
Necroposting gets problematic when people just do it just to horny post. The relationship forum regularly gets bombarded with guys (and it's always guys) spamming a post created by a woman months ago. Hell I saw one the other day where the original post was long deleted but guys were still commenting on it thirsting after getting a F feeder.
3 months

Question for vagina owners

Dabrow1991:
What an odd way to describe women

SumoSized:
Not all women have vaginas and not every person who has a vagina is a woman. Op may have been referring to a woman in his post but he was seeking advice and a trans man or a nonbinary person who has that particular body part may have first hand experience that could help the situation. There's no point in excluding them from the conversation.
Besides it seems like the issue was resolved, I don't know why you're digging it back up

Munchies:
Facts. Plus, seeing that Mick is gay, it makes sense for him to use more inclusive language.

It's always weird when people necropost to stir up shit.

Sadly after the last US presidential election people have been a lot more emboldened to stir shit when it comes to gender and sexuality. Obviously this has always been an issue online, but it seems like there's been an uptick in it since he's back in the Whitehouse
3 months

Question for vagina owners

Dabrow1991:
What an odd way to describe women

Not all women have vaginas and not every person who has a vagina is a woman. Op may have been referring to a woman in his post but he was seeking advice and a trans man or a nonbinary person who has that particular body part may have first hand experience that could help the situation. There's no point in excluding them from the conversation.
Besides it seems like the issue was resolved, I don't know why you're digging it back up
3 months

Become morbidly obese? live a normal life?

TheUltimate323:
I'm 22, and I'm on my way to gaining weight. I only weigh 66kg now, but my goal is to reach 82kg, which would certify me as obese. I'm 165cm tall. My goal would be to weigh between 109 and 120kg, which would make me morbidly obese.

My question is, can you live a relatively normal life at that weight? Obviously there will be some mobility limitations, not fitting into some seats, having to buy large sizes, but that turns me on.
You know, living a relatively normal life?

Honestly 109 kg isn't much, that's around where I am now and it doesn't really impair my mobility as much as you seem to think it will. I mean sure my endurance has been reduced from what it was 100 lbs ago and bending down requires a bit more energy than it used to but it's negligible. And I only rarely encounter seats that are too small for me (mostly old furniture from 100 years ago at my grandparents house). As for clothes I'm between a large and XXL depending on the brand so finding clothes isn't that difficult. Except for jeans but that's only because I have muscular legs so finding jeans that fit my thighs can be a pain.
Honestly I think you're working yourself up too much. The changes are slow and I'm afraid at the pace you're posting these forum posts you'll get burnt out from the lack of progress. Just take your time and enjoy the changes as they come. You'll reach your goals and hell if you find you don't like them then you can always lose the weight. There's no such thing irreversibly fat, it does get harder to lose weight as you get bigger sure, but it's not irreversible.
3 months
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