Don't be sorry, just an observation.

A lot of posters that come out about being into the fetish has a significant other to back them. Is it because they already have love that they're not afraid to come out?

Not saying its a bad thing by any means, just very curious.

anyone notice that most every newbie post starts with "my boyfriend" this and "my boyfriend" that.

Has there been a new poster that's into feeding/gaining/etc and the genre that hasn't been inspired by a significant other?

Anyone else notice this or have I just woken up thinking too much?