This was a very interesting post and twist to the pro and cons. I totally agree with you as far as the shock from people or comments being from people that knew from thinner to Fat......but after a while as time went on you said people never remembered you being skinny and only Fat and it wasn't a big deal if you kept getting bigger. It seem's totally obvious but this is a huge thing for the mind to get around. Like you said relatives or friends that have not seen you for a long while you can almost see it on their face when you greet or meet up with them (wow....someone got so Fat....right?) Also, once you get to a certain point of Fatness also....it's kind of more difficult to recognize the gradual extra10,20 even 30 Lbs. sometimes based on height and how you carry the weight.....unless for example you are in a bathing suit that is several sizes small based on all the new weight you gained and you are flowing out everywhere.

A related incident:
My wife has recently gained 25 lbs. in the last 6 months or so. My brother has seen her several times in that time frame.....say at least once a month. But be it certain clothing or lack of his previous acknowledgement or whatever I had never seen a sobering reaction like I saw the other day when he saw her. She was wearing a pair of her designer jeans (that she still squeezes into as to say she hasn't changed sizes) the type that is lower waisted and she clearly look's like they must have taken 15 minutes to put on along with a massive muffin top not only on her huge Love handles but her belly hangs out the front and jiggles slightly with every step. She has on a silk tank top that now is really tight and form fitting (although not meant to be) and has a tuff time containing everything she has going on from her huge breasts to her ample womanly new figure all over...allowing her Beautifully Tan Fat upper arms to strain the openings allowed to fit threw. As she came out and said Hi to him and his wife I saw a look of shock on his face and he greeted her while he stood their in amazement while his wife hugged and greeted her. I want to think he was thinking "wow, she look's so sexy and incredible" which may be what he was thinking but I also think he was in shock and couldn't believe how Fat my wife got.....even though her weight gain didn't happen overnight he must have assumed this. I am sure my brother and his wife's ride home after we had dinner together must have been discussing how much weight my wife has gained and how big she is now.

So, getting back to my thought here.....this part is a struggle for a lot when choosing to gain, accidentally gaining etc. I mean not that my wife is intentionally gaining or does she rea

Wow....Thanks! You do sound like an amazing cook with a sample of those descriptions above. I think I will definitely try a few of these.
Thans again......who knows in the next month my wife will be going up a couple sizes in her tight fitting skirts and slacks. Lately her belly has been bulging out so far it look's like she is close to popping some fastens or buttons.....who knows maybe she has already and has not told me....because I have noticed her wearing a few pairs of slacks.....so damn sexy watching her inflate and become even more Beautiful.

Everything you mentioned above is so damn sexy.
Especially the part... "She had no idea I had gotten that big". Very cute belly ...by the way.

I would love to hear some other things you making or are putting it in to cook with? So 1 quart is 3200 calories and 2 makes it 6400 extra really really fattening calories per week....right.

I have been doing 1 pint - 1 quart a week for my wife. She has a new Managers desk job where she gets treated pretty great and basically over sees finances for her company the have a restaurant at her Corporate facility she works out of and get Gourmet lunches at her desk every day included in her Managers package. She typically works and gets home after myself so I prepare her meal for her so it is nice and hot when she gets home. She comes in sits down and relaxes with a beer or a glass of wine and gets served a massive meal that has way more calories than the eye can see.....she devours it sometimes unfastening her tight skirt or slacks that have grown to tight....looking so sexy and like a little greedy glutton. At least once or twice a week she has a close to 2500 calorie dinner or more. Maybe I should try for a month or so going up to 2 pints and multiple dinners per week to see how much she can put on. I was wondering some easy meals to put it in with....I guess I could manage a heavy cream pasta sauce with tomatoes. Anything else you can recommend to cook up?

All this is dead on. But as someone mentioned dairy.....I would say start on Cooking with heavy cream and olive oil....you will see yourself getting soft pudge and very jiggly fat around your lower abdomen, thighs, butt, love handles and back much more than you could ever have gained in those areas before and it will start off soft and get even softer.

I agree with this definitely....in fact in another post they mentioned high fattening things really helped them gain a lot.

This is so true in my wife's case.... Since I started cooking for my wife....I have been using extra Olive oil, Heavy cream and butter in cooking as well as adding heavy cream to her coffee....she has not only boosted her calorie intake from what she used to have daily but also she has formed a lot of soft fluffy fat in areas that is very noticeable where she didn't have as much before. Her lower belly and Fupa have blown up with soft squishy Fat as well as adding a layer to her hips, love handles, ass and thighs. A while ago she seemed to gain in her belly but not be adding any fat to her thighs, ass.....and she especially never ever had so much luscious very low belly Fat or fluffy Fupa. Now when she stuffs her lower belly in her jeans and you can see all her fluffy fat stuffed in and jutting outward along with her fat Fupa and huge inner thighs packed in looking so juicy....she is a Beautiful Fatty waiting to get Fatter and Fatter. She always snarfs down the meals I make her saying how great and tasty they are as I imagine how she just ate more than 2500 calories for that meal along with many more fattening calories with her ben n jerrys ice cream to follow. I am going to start cooking an extra day or so per week from my normal 1-2 days just to see what effects that will have on her sexy growing figure.

Also, Like I have realized with myself and Heavy cream it seems when I have not cooked for her in a given week she still seems to be inflating and getting larger and softer....with the so called delayed effect of the Heavy cream. We went away for vacation for 7 days in which I didn't cook for her and I could have sworn when we got back she was bigger and softer along with struggling to fit in a few items of clothing.

I am am pretty muscular from lifting for for may years .....and have grown a good size gut in the last three years. My pecs have certainly become softer and I can't say I love it....but the odd thing is my wife seems to grab them and squeeze them on occasion much more when they were much harder bigger pecs. So that part of it is pretty arousing seeing that she likes it.....likewise when I had a more of a six pack back a while ago ...my wife never seemed to touch my stomach (even though she seemed proud of it for me to flaunt it on the beach or around her friends) but as I grew a big gut she can't seem to stop placing her hand on it at times or touching it or holding on to it when making love.

My wife is shorter as well (5' 3" pear shaped with big thighs, fat lower belly with some nice hang and a pudgy pubic mound.....even at 180+ Lbs. when she is naked her big inner thighs squished together at the top rolling off one another with each step and her bulging lower belly hang almost seems to cover up her vagina. With panties on you can still see the small triangle but it slides or rolls down under her heavier belly and that triangle of fabric is becoming less noticeable but still there.

The naked look is where it is at right now with her and all her soft fat coming together to cover up her privates is pretty exciting and a sexy thought.

Yes....climbing the ladder of dress sizes ....very sexy!