[quote]TheWelshWobble:
I used to be really slim and toned, I was quite sporty going to the gym 3 times a week. I had a good metabolism, but I'd always been a feeder and FA! I'd never thought about gaining weight, but then I joined Feabie (A fat fetish site) and I discovered my inner feedee! And I absolutely love it!


I think many FA's if not most eventually experience this to some degree.

Your weight gain is with you 24/7 and you are the one that controls your gaining and when you see the results you get kind of addicted to it. Eating a ton all the time to see the results and then after a while needing to each a ton because thats what you require now and you then get excited again.

Fun experience.....huh

She has has many up and downs of 10-20 Lbs. but in the last year has been slowly steadily gaining with her new desk job.
Her apetite has increased a lot and I am making sure to keep the pantry stocked and when I cook it is very fattening with heavy cream and olive oil.....she scarfs it down.

The other morning I made her a six egg omlette, with heavy cream added and a bunch of cheese and avocado she ate it increadibly fast and cleaned her plate with out any comments other than how good it was. In the past she would have complained how big it was and finished maybe half if she was lucky. Her plate must have been between 3500-4000 calories I estimated along with her 2 glasses of orange juice.

This time I really want to see her fatten up to the point of no return and keep eating and growing happily.

Don't know if I have the answers you are looking for but wanted to chime in a bit.

My wife being shorter at 5' 3" and weighing around 200 Lbs. at the time with a pear shape with a big ass and hips , big lower belly and huge breasts etc. and myself who grew a big round gut and was at about 260 Lbs. found it quite a bit more difficult to make love in several positions even at our weight and good size bellies. I could only imagine if I gained another 30-50 Lbs. and my wife gained 50-100 Lbs. how difficult it would be to make love with our huge guts getting in the way.Now....it was not only the size of our growing bellies (mainly mine) that posed a problem but how out of shape we became.

With all that said I kind of enjoyed the extra struggle of trying to penetrate her deeper with our newly fattened bellies getting in the way and it seemed to really add to the intimacy. Not to mention many times we needed to slow down and even stop for a bit while we caught our breath for a few seconds which talked and laughed about adding for me to the fattening erotism. I could only imagine it gets tougher the bigger the bellies and the heavier the weights but it certainly didn't help both of us at the time that most of the time we were making love it was in the evening following dinner and many big deserts so we were so stuffed and tired more easily....but then again during this time it seemed like we were always stuffed and fattened to the max.....especially me.

chubby nate....good job starting this thread up for her again.

This got me thinking after reading.....someone else mentioned stuffing. When I think back stuffing was for several weeks was what got me to the point that my appetite grew so much that I wasn't actually thinking about consuming more food or calories......I almost needed that much food at every meal. I ended up becoming a little different than several people here after my appetite increased so much.....at first I would get really excited about my next meal and be hungry for it......then as more time went by I was easily eating 3 times as much as I used to at each meal along with some sweet desert or snack directly following but then when it was time for my next meal.....I wasn't really craving or starving but as soon as I started eating I just kept eating and not really getting full. It was like I didn't have the same interest in the food and my taste buds were not totally excited but I just kept eating and filling my huge gut. Obviously there were times where I still was hungry and desired for tasty food but like I said many times once I started eating even though my brain didn't trigger hunger I couldn't stop eating. I think the stuffing and liquid calories really changed the capacity of my stomach in a huge way.

So, ultimately I say try stuffing and when you are stuffed to maximum capacity.....start drinking multiple fattening milkshakes...then glasses of milk.....then water. Eventually you will stretch you stomach out so much that you will need to fill yourself with so much food, calories & liquid calories to even feel full after a while that you will get very big and Fat really fast. I seriously got to a point when I tried to cut back on my food intake and fattening food that it was so difficult. Also at this stage you are now thinking like, eating like & feeling like such a Fat person that it will take a lot of will power and sacrifices to make any changes.......Happy fattening to you and your husband.

I would love to hear how you used to hate fat or any weight gain and now fat and gaining turns you on so much? I am so interested to know because I dream of my wife being programmed and changing into this feeling and thinking.

Good to know....Thanks for the input.

Agreed with oncegainer's post....I myself noticed the lost weight comes back much faster and a lot softer than the initial gain not only on myself but my wife as well.

Weighing in on this topic!

I don't know if it is just me or the difference that I felt gaining so much fairly quickly... But for me when I grew a pretty good size belly a while back by intentionally gaining (put on 45 pounds in a short time bringing me to around 260+ lbs.) and my wife who is 5' 3" very pear shaped with a real good size lower belly, hips and thighs and huge breasts wasn't even at her heaviest probably 195 Lbs. at the time. We struggled a lot in missionary with our bellies getting in the way and had to move and re-situate them quite a bit during the deed....but it was also sexy to me especially feeling the softness of her belly as a bumper and my big gut getting in the way and kind of added to the arousal. Also having her bent over the bed doing doggy I had to rest my new big gut on top of her back which she seemed to like but my stamina wore out quicker being out of shape and elected to change positions much quicker than before. My favorite became her riding cowgirl style....in which our bellies still got in the way she would just maneuver them around a bit and go to work and it was her that was the one doing most of the work and breathing heavy because she so much more out of shape endurance wise as well.

So...it's not that we absolutely physically could not do missionary but it definitely became much more difficult and I certainly got tired pretty quick moving around all my extra weight. I am not sure it was because of the relatively quick increase in my size, weight and unfamiliarity but it was way difficult. It definitely had more to do with my new big gut because when I didn't have nearly as big of a belly and my wife used to be heavier with a bigger belly it didn't pose near the problem. Myself being the one into weight gain and not my wife....although I sensed she loved my new big gut for some reason....must have been thinking "wow, we can barely make love missionary anymore because of my husbands huge gut". What I do know is she couldn't get enough sex with my new huge gut!

So....I am not sure how people who are much heavier than my wife and I act like it is no problem at all for missionary sex. Maybe I just was able to see the glaring contrast of just a year before when I didn't have 45 extra Lbs. of big belly sticking out in front of me?

Great post joliat

I kind of do the same thing.....but the main thing I tend to do is visualize this things with my wife in as the focus. Remembering things she has said in the past after she has gained that turned me on. Then thinking of her getting way fatter than she has ever been.

Or visualizing her as if she were to keep gaining out of control and getting fatter to much heavier weights ...how not only the obvious sexy parts like her belly, ass, hips, thighs and tits would look getting so much bigger and fatter but even how her wrists & fingers would get so Fat with really heavy weights achieved. She tends to have fairly slim wrists and fingers for her current size but it is so sexy when women gain a lot of weight and you can see that glaring difference from thin to Fat on on wrists and fingers.

And finally seeing and playing in my head how much food she would consume now that she is so Fat not to mention her struggling to cross her legs and any movements with all the extra weight.

This was great to hear your story. I have kind of tried the same in my relationship....I stopped discussing or trying to encourage her to gain weight and simp kept her favorite sweets around and let her take her own course. My wife has a huge sweet tooth and actually sacrifices eating so much of her meal to actually stuff herself afterwards with decadent rich deserts. She mostly maintains her soft chunkier figure that has continually rised in weight over the many years but there are many times where her eating gets a bit more out of control for several months and it is such a turn on for me to watch her eat as much as me at lunch and dinner and for her following with some huge fattening deserts. During these times she gains weight pretty quickly until she puts on 30-40 pounds and aggressively tries to slow down and control her appetite. She struggles for a while and her figure look's so Hot going from chunky to Fat and during these times I could swear she get's even more look's from guy's "rubber necking" all the time when we are out. I think there are a lot more FA's out there that are in the closet. But eventually she will lose most of what she gained in around 6 months to a year but she always hold's onto a little bit of the weight and over the years it has brought her low weight up a good 40+ pounds total.

Bringing back an older thread:

When I was intentionally gaining and at my heaviest from stuffing I never had any issues at all. In fact it was the complete opposite I seemed to be walking around with a "chub" and slightly erect most of the time because I was intensely turned on from my own weight gain and surprised by how big my belly got so fast......all of my weight gain kinks and fascination was centered around me and not just my wife and I was the one who could keep eating and stuffing and seeing how much fatter I was making myself. One thing I did notice was that my member did seem smaller partly because my belly and I were so much bigger in relation ....and also I guess some of my fat pad or belly was engulfing it.

Granted I and we are completely turned on by Fat so this may be a skewed opinion because if someone was not turned on by Fat they may likely have some ED issues.