Point of no return?

GrowingLoveHandles wrote:
Doctor, I think of this as falling under a common fantasy many of us having about feederism -- the fantasy of losing control. And so the notion of reaching a "point of no return" is both scary and seductive.


Quite true. There's that side of it. But this thread is also useful as a caveat to people contemplating gaining. I'm not saying they shouldn't gain, just that they should be aware of the possible consequences.
10 years

The dr. feeder challenge

doe135 wrote:
I probably can't be bothered to actually do it unless it was served to me since it would take too much preparation..


I know, that's the drawback!
10 years

The dr. feeder challenge

Can anyone eat:

One hot dog
One banana split
One cheeseburger
One chicken drumstick
One order of french fries
One milkshake
One slice of pizza
One piece of cheesecake
Two chocolate truffles

In one sitting?
10 years

Feedees: why get fat?

Mizz_Kay wrote:
1. I like fattening food.
2. I love to overeat.
3. I hate the idea of dieting and have never been interested in doing sports.
4. I've been a big girl for as long as I can remember . I feel really comfortable with being bigger and I am no longer worried if i gain more weight smiley


Oh, another re-numberer...I think you meant:
2 1 4 and extra credit: It's easy
10 years

Feedees: why get fat?

Erica9091 wrote:
2. You like fattening food.
4.You like to overeat.
5. You're tired of feeling guilty about your weight or appetite.
3. You hate dieting.
6. Your significant other wants you to gain.
1. You find it erotic.


Nice, only you shouldn't change the numbers!

I think you meant:
6 2 1 3 4 5
10 years

Help dealing with family! :(

I did help one woman with similar issues: askdrfeeder.dyndns.org/letters.html#Amanda. Her scenario is a bit different, but who knows, maybe it'll help.
10 years

Comebacks to fat-haters

Though, having said that, I now want to see a fat girl win a rap slam battle. smiley
10 years

Comebacks to fat-haters

metroidnerd wrote:
I have found that simply saying "Thank you" and interpreting the insult as a compliment helps out a lot.

"Fatty!"
"Aw, thanks!"

"You really need to lose weight."
"Am i really that big? I am so glad!"

Usually, if done correctly, you end up disarming the meanie, leaving them to drown in a sea of confusion and loss of perspective.

Of course, for the bigger offenses, you have to bring out the big guns. I am not fat myself, but i have been known to proactively defend other people's weight, and i have been known to monologue (think of it as a beatdown, one punch swiftly followed by dozens more).


Yeah, if you can spin it into a positive thing somehow that's probably better than a rap slam battle!
10 years

Gender ratio of feederism

Are men just more open about sexual preferences online than women

Yes

are men more likely to use specific internet pages to explore their fetishes

Yes

feederism truly mostly a male desire?

I don't know.


Another factor: There are "latent" feedists, who don't even know they have a feedist side. I suspect that more women fall into this category than men, but I really don't know.

And of course this latter group is not represented on the internet at all. You may have to venture out into the real world to find them!
10 years

Gain vacation

I like it. The "gaincation".
10 years