Depends partly on how large he is now. But there's pretty much always ways to gain more. If you would like, I could share some of my experiences. Has been pretty effective, and also impressive given my previous and now current size (125 -> 150) and that was without any outside encouragement.

How long have you been together? It's been said that a wise BBW either appreciates a fat man or learns to. More often than not, he ends up gaining weight. That dating, and especially marrying a big woman is very likely to be a very fattening experience.

Although that isn't to say there aren't ways to help that along and speed up the weight gain.

The same one who claimed one of them died on you, but somehow after you quit FF and you came back, he magically came back to life?

Sorry but I think you're full of crap.

Maybe try one cup at a time, either mixed with half and half or something else to flavor it.

Or even just half and half at first (which tastes like creamy milk, since in essence that's what it is), switching to cream later. Half and half seems to be as easy to drink as milk (only it doesn't spoil anywhere near as fast, probably because it's ultra pasteurized) and a pint of that is 640 calories.

If you eventually try to have more, maybe then only increase it by a small amount, say 1/2 a cup, and try to keep that up for awhile and you'll hopefully get used to it, before then trying to increase it again?

I think consistency may be key here. One or two days where you had a pint, while it is an extra 1,600 calories that day, isn't going to do much on it's own. But an extra 800, five days a week? Then if you can do that for weeks, it starts to add up.

Another thought, if it's the taste and consistency, is to use it in recipes that call for any kind of milk and it often won't even change the taste that much. Not sure what effect that would have on Macaroni and Cheese, but I know it works well in mashed potatoes for example. I don't know if you like soup, but cream is also an apparently somewhat common constituent component of many soup recipes.

I hope it's not just you, but so far I think it might have just been too much at first.

When I went from 125 to 150, even though I'm not even fat by even non-feederism standards, I already crave slightly more food and slightly fattier food at that. So perhaps you'll get used to it in time.

How much did you drink each day?

When I've tried in the past it usually worked out better to start off with smaller amounts and slowly increase it. Although I haven't been able to have a pint or more every day for weeks on end without breaks.

Not sure if it's the only factor, but I suspect it's a good part of why I'm a good bit thicker than I was just a year ago.

I almost wonder what would happen if I could drink a pint, or even just a cup every day for weeks on end.

What would be the difference? Is there even a semi-official definition?

I suppose if the qualifier is that a "feedee" needs a feeder to force overeating. Although, I don't follow this definition.

I think a feedee could want to gain even without a feeder. Or at the very least, I see many self-identified feedees who gain even without a feeder yet hopes to find one.

I have also yet to see a self-identified gainer who would turn down feeding, but perhaps isn't looking for a feeder in particular.

Perhaps this is the distinction? The desire and vested interest in finding a feeder?

How much cream each day and about how many daily calories on average besides? 10 seems like a lot!

I have sometimes wondered at which point you won't have to try and make yourself eat more, but instead your appetite has increased to the point where you have almost got to keep eating, and extra pounds come on very easily.

Can you even anticipate it, or do you just realize it one day, after that already happens?

I've thought about this question a bit more.

While not scientific, there were cases of those who ended up gaining SO much in a short enough time, to suggest the cap or ratio may be much higher.

Although many at that extreme size may suffer from lymphedema, a fate I don't wish on anyone since it looks unsightly and causes pain, but can also make the scale go up.