Bellyempire:
in my opinion all feedism is death feedism. Being a FA you have to balance the reality that what you prefer your partner to look like comes with grave health implications. As much as we argue otherwise as much as try to paint a rosy romantic picture of feederism at the end of the day if successful it will shorten your partners lives.
at a point its realist feederism.
That makes not a lick of sense.
Feedism comes in many forms. And while they all come with certain levels of risk (except for non-gaining feedism), they are not death feedism.
When it comes to death feedism, death is the point. They want to gain as much as possible until their body gives out. And for some death feedists, dying of obesity related complications is erotic.
Now compare this with other forms of feedism. Non-gaining feedism, the purest form of feedism, is all about erotic eating. The feedee never gains due to the process. Vanilla feedists usually manage their risks just fine - ask the 60+ crowd. The extreme and immobility feedists engage in the riskiest behavior, but most take steps to mitigate the risks. And those who don't still do not want to die perse.
Don't lump us all together just because you are feeling weird about your kink.
