Natatat:
So this is in relation to what inspired my story “how Jack got fat”:
Sorry im not great with punctuation. I had a neighbor named Jack he’s not my neighbor anymore. But while he was I went through a breakup. I had told him that if he wanted to get girls in this area he needed to hit the gym more and get rid of all this (then I had patted his middle). He was much softer than he was when I first met him. And he had argued that the dad bod was in. I had said that he should deal with it now cause he was only 23 plus it would take so little effort to get back in shape. He said he was simply sick of working out after being an athlete for so long. And yeah so I honestly was very turned on catching glimpses of his softness. I started paying more attention to his habits once I patted his middle. I told him that some girls actually like big guys. I kinda went into a weird mode of explaining that I liked guys typically for their smell and their voice over body. And at one point after getting weirdly close with him we ended up cuddling a lot. And I noticed he had started eating more. He clothes seemed a bit tighter. I knew he had already eaten when I came over or when he came over. But still I hadn’t and if I ordered food I would ask if he wanted something because it made it cheaper when deals were going on. He always said yes. He would Venmo for the food. If I made food or tried out recipes he always ate some or ate the stuff I didn’t like. He kept commenting on how he had gained weight. He would randomly tug up his shirt and rub his stomach. I would pretend to not be interested. But I honestly couldn’t look away. And we eventually ended up making out when we got high together. And I of course couldn’t help but grab his middle. I think he started eating more to try to get my attention. It worked. I even noticed that his ass was overflowing his boxers a bit more. He still kept his broad shoulders and strong back and nice chest albeit a bit softer. But it was just he was more substantial and softer. There was more to hold onto and more that rolled over his waistband. We ended up sleeping together on a regular basis. He would get weird about his belly but still wouldn’t stop eating like shit. It was hot to feel him grow but yeah I still felt guilty. I’m pretty sure he just got carried away or maybe it was just getting comfortable. It drove me crazy when he would over do it. He would go change into sweatpants or those shorts guys always have. I loved feeling his fat beneath my fingers. He got mad at one point because he said he stopped trying to workout cause he already knew he was going to get laid so why should he try. He said he got complacent. I had told him that he shouldn’t have done that because it wasn’t a serious relationship. So it didn’t end well. But it was fun to see his clothes getting tighter. I still feel guilty. But just I don’t know now it kinda drives me crazy when someone talks about their clothes getting tighter. I just think of their belly rolling over their waistbands. Or I think about that time at the beach where I came up behind him and grabbed at his waist and how soft and doughy he was. I would have loved to see him gain more and enjoy it fully but sadly that didn’t happen. But I’m not the one who made him gain weight. He did that on his own. I feel bad though cause I didn’t realize how much he liked me. But still though that dude put weight on fast. It was fun to play with.

SmolBee:
Hi folks, I just wanted to make a quick post about something I've been struggling with and I'd like some advice/encouragement or just shared experiences

I've always been a fat kid ever since I can remember, all the way to my earliest memories of school. It's honestly made life really difficult and I've tried multiple times to lose the weight only to still be unhappy.

That all being said I love how it looks on others and I still fantasise about gaining more myself, yet I still catch myself in the mirror and feel disappointed, frustrated or just generally tempted to go back to trying to lose the weight

Hoping some of yall have had similar feelings or good advice for dealing with these thoughts.

Much love ❤️

MottiF:
Maybe it’s because there’s way too much male feedees, and not many female feeders are into mutual gaining

Getobese:
Title: MAKING ME FAT! 

 Jun 20, 2023 at 4:35 PM 

“Ok. when I met my wife 2 years ago I was a very fit 150 I'm 5’8, six pac starting to show, since we’ve been married I have gained 35 lbs my wife openly admits she is trying to make me fat! Now she barters for things like, if I eat 3 cookies I get a 2 minute Blowjob or 5 cookies & 2 scoops of ice cream I get a 10 min back rub and a long BJ. I don't get it I want to look good for her. She said she wants me to be fat so that she looks better by comparison. I’m finding it harder and harder to resist her now and afraid I will get huge because of her using sex to entice me to gain weight.

 “ MY QUESTION IS…Is she a feeder or just seriously vain? Perhaps she can’t admit to being attracted to fat.?

MottiF:
Might be one thing or the other, either way just enjoy it hehe

Fruet:
In my opinion, the worst part of this fetish is the fact that is difficult to found someone who likes it too in irl. Like, are you going to ask every person you meet if he/she/them are into feederism.

Lillyraesmith49:
This is so true. also finding people my age on here and the total lack of like female feeder representation.

Munchies:
The under 20 crowd tends to be flaky af. They sign only to delete and rejoin later.

And there are several female feeders on here. It's just that most of us keep to ourselves. Too man men run them off - even if they are lesbians.

Espcially if they are lesbians.

The male feeders try to turn us into feedees, and the male feedees are waaaaaaaaaay too desperate.

MottiF:
That was a great description of what is going on here hahaha

Getobese:
4% of Americans have a fat fetish – making it one of the most common fetishes in the US.

*** 1 in 14 men has a fat fetish Thats (7%) ***

MottiF:
I wish it could be more common in other countries

Munchies:
It might be. They just may not be aware of the community.

MottiF:
😞

Canuck:
wow, this thread has a long history! my previous response is apparently 4 years ago - so time for some new perspective, i think.

i gained a bunch of weight since my last post and over that time i've experienced some new limitations, and i am also with a new partner, which has changed my perspective, too. i gained up to a top weight of about 475, although i've lost some weight since then (about 450 now).

there are a lot of limitations that have been hot. little things, like being to wide to get close enough to the kitchen counters to reach the upper shelves. i get teased about that regularly, which is kind of hot.

my partner is pretty fit, and the contrast between us is really nice, and her ability to easily dominate me, just by being more flexible and limber than me, is very hot. the limitations it has created in our sex play has actually been very hot, too.

the limitations in standing, walking, not fitting in chairs, and just getting through the day are the nuisance problems which i can live with by i don't enjoy them at all. i've had to lose some weight for health concerns recently, and i am definitely not enjoying the food limitations (mostly missing beer!).

Ceepert:
Almost noone adds the country they are from in the title of posts in the Personal ads section, especially dating and meetups.
There already is the "current status" circle on everyone showing if they are "online" "afk" or "offline" in the bottom right of their profile picture.
Would it be possible to add the country flag of the user to the bottom left?
I assume this isnt a problem for people form the US as most users are from there, but especially for pretty much everyone else its quite anoying cause you have to open each post to see where the user is from.

Munchies:
I'm confused. Your country flag is next to your username whenever you make a post. Right now, I see the German flag next to your username.

Ceepert:
Yes in the post itself its visible next to the name. But not in the list of posts itself. There you can only see the activity status. And when you wanna know where the user is from who posted it to see if for example if the person is in your area you have to open the post first.
Which is very anoying when you wanna check out multiple potential posts

MottiF:
I’m with Munchies, I really don’t see what the problem is, every profile posting there is a Country Flag below the profile’s name, even if user posted on several places you can see the flag

Ceepert:
Here! This is what I mean, the post list. You cant see the country flag here, but it would be super usefull if you could so you can quickly check if anyone made a post on "Dating" or "Events" or similar in your area.

Almost noone ever adds the country they are looking for people in the posts title, so when you wanna check like once a week what has been posted you need to open like 15 tabs and look into each post individualy just to see that 90% of them are USA based.


Munchies:
I get where you are coming from, but it complicates things for the feedists that travel a lot. And we have a sizeable chunk of those.

I've seen posts where people ask about meet-ups in a country far from them because they plan on going there. I've seen people who regularly travel between two or more countries make posts wanting to meet up in those and surrounding countries.

Ceepert:
Sure, but those are the minority of posts and they could still just add the country they are looking for people in the title if they want

Getobese:
Title: MAKING ME FAT! 

 Jun 20, 2023 at 4:35 PM 

“Ok. when I met my wife 2 years ago I was a very fit 150 I'm 5’8, six pac starting to show, since we’ve been married I have gained 35 lbs my wife openly admits she is trying to make me fat! Now she barters for things like, if I eat 3 cookies I get a 2 minute Blowjob or 5 cookies & 2 scoops of ice cream I get a 10 min back rub and a long BJ. I don't get it I want to look good for her. She said she wants me to be fat so that she looks better by comparison. I’m finding it harder and harder to resist her now and afraid I will get huge because of her using sex to entice me to gain weight.

 “ MY QUESTION IS…Is she a feeder or just seriously vain? Perhaps she can’t admit to being attracted to fat.?

HectorBalloon:
My skin is quite elasctic so that's it then. It's also extremely smooth which is also a sign of elastic skin so I've heard it said by other people with such skin.