Unfortunately someone who is impressionable

Gainingdream:
I am unfortunately impressionable.. insecure.. someone who always lets others determine a part of my future!.. a pleaser … I am a Feedee.. I am addicted to food.. I love fat.. I love getting fat and playing with my fat.. 6 months ago I was very active with gaining and was really getting fat.. unfortunately I stopped because of em for others! I even went to a psychologist and now I am back to square one, how should I deal with this,, how do you do that?


Go back to the therapist. Stay away from the community until you are far enough into your journey that people won't used and abuse you.

Just making a post about you being impressionable as marked you as easy prey.
5 months

Planning a vacation… where are the good queer feedism communities?

Enas:
Edit: This could go out of topic, but rereading your post has made me curious... You say "eurocentric standards", what do you mean by that?

Munchies:
This refers to the idea that anything involving white people is the gold standard. This includes things such as beauty standards, philosophy, fashion, religion, and more. Eurocentrism is a lasting holdover from colonialism.

Enas:
I would also like one or two tangible examples. O.o


For example, I have 4C hair. 4C hair looks like this:

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White people do not have hair like this naturally. And while there is nothing wrong with my hair texture, under Eurocentrism, my hair is seen as weird or ugly. As such, I'd be encouraged to straighten my hair or hide it under wigs.
5 months

Planning a vacation… where are the good queer feedism communities?

Enas:
Edit: This could go out of topic, but rereading your post has made me curious... You say "eurocentric standards", what do you mean by that?


This refers to the idea that anything involving white people is the gold standard. This includes things such as beauty standards, philosophy, fashion, religion, and more. Eurocentrism is a lasting holdover from colonialism.
5 months

Tariff impacts on feederism

Kitsune:
I should give up internet life. It screws up my mental health and makes me want to throw away my phone. I am going to try to read more books and watch more shows. All this doom and gloom makes me suicidal.


Wishing you well.
5 months

Planning a vacation… where are the good queer feedism communities?

Bellyempire:
Honestly sounds like Atlanta to me.


Atlanta, GA? Well, I'm not from there, but I have a lot of family that does. Never heard of anything that suggests it's friendlier to any of these these than your average city.

But I am open to being wrong. Perhaps one of our ATL feedists can chime in on this.
5 months

Tariff impacts on feederism

Bellyempire:
How are the tariffs and other political issues impacting your ability to gain?

SumoSized:
I mean they were recently paused so it hasn't impacted my financial situation too much. But assuming the come back in full force eventually it'll make certain foods a lot harder to get here in the US, since a lot of fruits just can't be grown here. And even if in a later version of the tariff plan food is exempted, everything else will still increase in price so I'll have less money to spend on overeating. Across the board tariffs are a bad idea, anyone who tries to convince you otherwise is a lunatic

Munchies:
Shit like this makes me think of the Maduro diet. For those not in the know, back in 2010, Venezuelans were having severe food shortages under President Maduro due to his gross incompetence.

I'm not saying it will be that bad for us, but I foresee many feedees and gainers slimming down - no Ozempic needed.

SumoSized:
God I hope not, but who knows with this president. For all we know in a years time the tariffs will be the least of our problems


Every day since 11/06/2024, I question my decision to raw dog life sober.
5 months

Tariff impacts on feederism

Bellyempire:
How are the tariffs and other political issues impacting your ability to gain?

SumoSized:
I mean they were recently paused so it hasn't impacted my financial situation too much. But assuming the come back in full force eventually it'll make certain foods a lot harder to get here in the US, since a lot of fruits just can't be grown here. And even if in a later version of the tariff plan food is exempted, everything else will still increase in price so I'll have less money to spend on overeating. Across the board tariffs are a bad idea, anyone who tries to convince you otherwise is a lunatic


Shit like this makes me think of the Maduro diet. For those not in the know, back in 2010, Venezuelans were having severe food shortages under President Maduro due to his gross incompetence.

I'm not saying it will be that bad for us, but I foresee many feedees and gainers slimming down - no Ozempic needed.
5 months

2l of soda per day

Gorochu:
Anyone drinks 2L of soda per day? I wanna start doing that!


Depends. How attached are you to your teeth?
5 months

Question on heavy whipping cream, plateaus, and delayed gain

Zora:
I recently took a one-week break from gaining because I had hit a plateau. I have resumed drinking the heavy whipping cream and have a question.

If taking a break did resolve the plateau issue, will I resume gaining weight immediately, or will there be a two-to-three-week delay like there was when I first started the heavy whipping cream?


Yes. Your body still needs to process everything. The gains are not from the heavy cream so much as they are from what you eat while consuming heavy cream.
5 months

Daily "i'm fat" reminders

Kitsune:
I am still craving for sweets even though I had a lot of sugar today and I don't want to go overboard. This morning I drank my 24 oz caramel latte from yesterday. Since I drank a bit of it when it was fresh, I say there was 20 ounces of it left today until I finished it.

During my shopping trip, my dad bought me a venti pink drink from Starbucks. I like to add half of breve instead of "coconut" so I don't know what the calories are like compared to the original ingredients. Regardless, it's still not a healthy drink...

Now I am eager to try the Stephens hot chocolate mix that was a impulse purchase of mine. I didn't think it would hurt to treat myself during my upcoming layoff so I am glad I bought it. I never had expensive hot chocolate before and there was a ton of positive opinions on this brand. It shouldn't be as awfully sugary like Swiss Miss but for sure it's not a light dessert.

My new way to make hot chocolate is to make a hot mocha by adding the mixture to some drip coffee. Also mix in a small amount of frothy half and half. (I add sugar to it) If available I like to top the drink off with whip cream. I bet food snobs are not going to like what I just said but it's damn delicious.

Overall, sweet liquid sure expands my circumfrance. This is why I can't have cute lolita dresses.

Glitter Jelly:
Do you know brands who make nice japanese lolita dresses for larger bodies? I own many BTSSB, AATP, Angelic pretty coords but they don't fit well anymore. Skirts are even worse, they were already tight when I was 25 lbs thinner.


There are a lot of places that offer plus sized Lolita clothes. A quick google search will show you a lot of brands - including some that go up to 7XL.
5 months