Let me start off this post with a disclaimer: I'm hardly what you'd consider fat. In fact, last I check my BMI score is 17.5, and I'm a man too. I've never weighed over 120 lbs in my life.

But, I can think of a couple things. One is winters. I would think that larger people can stand winter better. Of course, this works against them when summer rolls around. I always love summer, yet when winter comes I *always* hate it.

Another is sitting on hard surfaces. I would assume that they have an easier time with that. Me, I hate sitting on chairs without padding or cushions, because it's uncomfortable.

Has she ever tried pantyhose? Would that make a difference?

It's what I thought of, but what do I know? I'm a man, and a thinner one at that.

I'm wondering how many of you have let other people in your life know that you either like the idea of a chubby or fat significant other?

Or in the case of feedees, do they know you're you're trying to gain?


In my case I don't think people have any idea. I think I can't tell them even if I cared to do so. If you knew me in real life, it'd run counter to who and what I am. Thus, it would seem very, very odd if I "came out" with it. I could be happy with a thin woman, but if she were chubby it'd definitely be a plus.