It's never easy to find someone, no matter what you are looking for. Trying to find a feeder makes it so much harder. Obviously it takes time to find someone who not only wants to feed you, but loves you as a person, has the same goals, etc. And both of you have to be attracted to each other, etc. Just try all of the websites, and even try other places. I think most FA's have at least a little feeder in them, so don't rule anyone out. A lot of websites will remove posts with people who mention feedees/feeders, but you can get around that by casually mentioning you just gained a little weight. That will help find those who are either obvious feeders, or those who have feeder tendencies.

Most side effects do not apply to every person. For example, Asian people eat a lot of soy, but you don't see a lot of Asian men with boobies.

Just ask how he would treat a condition in his thin patients, then ask for that treatment. There are no ailments that only fat people get.

I hear all the time women saying that they don't want a man with bigger breasts than them. I really don't see any connection. Like a woman with DD breasts can like a man with C cups, but a woman with A cup breasts can't like a man with C cups? What you have and what you prefer should be two separate things.

It seems like it would be more fun to gain the old fashioned way. By enjoying fattening foods.

Some of us have the opposite problems. Our spouses hate themselves for being fat. That is not easy to deal with either.

There are too many things going on to say you can stop at a specific point. Once you get into the habit of eating what you want, it's hard to stop. Your body gets into a routine, and expects the same thing every day. Once you stop, your body thinks there is a famine, and will start to store more of your food as fat. Your brain will tell you to eat more.

I know of a woman who gained several hundred pounds, and she still had A cup breasts. It is all genetic.