Yea, you are probably right. When she was that heavy she either would poke fun at herself for indulging in fattening deserts just so she could order and eat more or she wouldn't say anything about weight and just keep on enjoying herself and all the food and deserts she could eat. Back then it almost seemed like every meal she would finish and get up from the table she would complain how stuffed she was which is like foreplay for us weight gain guy's hearing them say this.

Women with tight deep "innie's" .......preferably on a big soft yet taught.... slightly sagging lower belly with the navel rising slightly higher than normal toward the huge breasts!!!!

My ideal is pear shape with a pretty big lower belly and huge fluffy arms and breasts! But I have seen plenty of Beautiful apple shapes as well.

Yea Finally Fat.........

My initial weight gain was kind of ironic because I was pretty bummed out that my wife hadn't been gaining in the last couple of years.....and actually slightly losing weight. I decided to start buying all the groceries and really started buying a lot of the deserts, ice creams and snacks that she loves.....she happens to have a huge "sweet tooth". In fact she almost sacrificies eating as much during meals so she can indulge in deserts.
And it is really fun when her appetite gets big where she is having huge meals and then deserts. So I decided to start loading the freezer and pantry with some of her favorite chocolates, snacks and deserts. Long story short I ended up gaining more weight than her by indulging in many of these snacks....in which I don't normally have a sweet tooth.

My wife did start gaining weight from all the deserts and snacks but I found it pretty arousing seeing how big of a belly I developed in a relatively short time and decided to intentionally stuff to gain more.

I think for me having both of us gaining was and is the ultimate. There is such an intimate connection this way....although for me it was more a secretive gaining. She didn't know I was intentionally fattening myself up but I could tell she definitely liked her husband being the fatter one. It seemed that she was fine eating a lot with me and gaining herself if I was gaining more and the bigger of us. My wife never seems big to me compared to what I think is big but I guess all women like feeling the security of being smaller than their husbands.

Rustina:
Did your wife ever notice like you wanted her too, and if so what was her response?[/quote]


Only on two occasions when she was slightly intoxicated. One night out for a rather fattening nice dinner on vacation we both ate with huge overindulgence like we had been doing for a while now. As we finished our meals and were waiting for the two massive deserts my wife ordered a cheesecake and a mudpie as my bloated fat gut was hanging not only out the front but the sides while sitting ....I felt her hand start to gently caress my side where my gut overhung my waistband and she only focused on caressing and squeezing my fat overhang for a really long time...it felt so good but I am sure I was slightly red in the face with all the attention to my fat gut and I so wondered if anyone in the restaurant may have seen this 10+ minute display of her loving on me until the huge deserts arrived. This is something she had never done before and I have to attribute her carefree attitude to being intoxicated. After the deserts were scoffed down we left and while waiting for our car in valet I mentioned to my wife that the restaurant reminded me of another one we had been to early in our marriage. She said "Hmm....maybe but I certainly don't remember all this", as she came in close to me face to face and put her hand on my belly and softly shook and held on to my belly... just as I was in total shock she then put both of her hands on my chest and said "And I certainly don't remember these" as her hands continued to squeeze, jiggle and softy shake my once hard muscular pecs that had now become big and soft.....that I didn't even realize until she pointed this out in a devilish seductive way.

I gained 40+ Lbs. in a matter of a few months unintentionally at first and then intentionally. The intentional gaining I started because I was kind of turned on by my initial gain and had been lacking weight gain on my wife for a few years. I turned the gaining on myself and it became really arousing and as I got bigger and a Fatter gut I so wanted my wife to notice and tease me about how Fat I was getting.

I am not sure they are really adjustments that were thought out but kind of just made things easier. Not only did I have to learn to give myself space because of my bigger gut sticking out in front of me but many times I would bend over in a particular space in my home that never caused problems and my but would bump into something or knock something over. I started acknowledging subconsciously I guess and started not bending over in tighter spots and being more aware that I might bump something. Getting up off the couch began to be more of a strain and I would almost have to pull myself up or make extra effort....I even began to make some groaning noises that it took me a while to notice. I adjusted by realizing my new big belly would get in the way so I would sit on the end by an armrest when on the couch and not in the middle or sit in a chair to heave my heavy new belly on myself to my feet. When bending over in a chair to tie my shoes my new Fat gut would get in the way and I would not only struggle tying my shoes but I would also get out of breath with my air being cut off and get up feeling a bit dizzy. I started tying my shoes with my foot up on something rather then bending over where my big belly would constrict and get in the way. Probably the biggest shock was not only how quick you get out of shape when gaining so quick but understanding your own mass. When running I didn't realize with all my extra weight and especially my new huge gut not only my balance was off but it took so much longer to slow down when I started running at a pace faster than a jog. I corrected this by not running anymore. All and all a new big belly can really get in the way but is pretty exciting at the same time with it getting in the way so much....many of these things above noticing my huge new belly getting in the way so much is actually what made me keep gaining to see how much bigger it could get....not to mention once you eat so much to gain a bunch of weight it is really hard to stop eating so much not to mention eating so much fattening stuff....my appetite was huge and it was definitely a snow ball effect. My appetite kept getting bigger and so did my belly and at the same time it made me more and more aroused the bigger I got.

Interesting topic and I am surprised there are not more responses yet.

yea your right! In fact I have used that one several times to break into weight gain talk with other women acquaintances I know.

I actually broke into a conversation with a work employee last week who has gained a lot over the past two years and still wears really sexy form fitting work clothes and I mentioned that I have been trying to get my wife to gain some weight...and my wife always comments back that she is already fat enough. My work acquaintance didn't really expand on it but just said she isn't even close to being Fat...and I agreed. But now she at least knows that I appreciate weight on women to some degree.

Perception of weight is so different as women gain. My wife complains now about being Fat....but when she was 40+ Lbs heavier and eating out of control she never complained. She seemed happier and content with eating everything and all this wile she was so much bigger....crazy!

Everyone has had some really great input for the original poster.....in fact brilliant information toward this complicated fetish.

The crazy thing is with so many things it has so many varying degrees in fact the biggest one I can think of is the amount of change that has occurred within this fetish for myself.

For example many years ago I like slightly chubby girls/women that gained some weight who turned chunky or a bit heavier. Now it seems like i tend to gravitate to much heavier fatter women with much bigger thighs, butt, belly, breasts....just everything. When I was dating my wife I thought that if she just got to that chunky stage that would be so hot.....now I envision her getting to 250 Lbs. or even 300 Lbs. not that I think that she would get there but if she did I know I would love her that big and Fat....and she is only 5' 3". So the size and weight has definitely changed over the years. The other thing is my fetish has also turned onto myself and now I think the most arousing thing would be for both my wife and I to be in a Mutual Gaining relationship with both of us getting fatter all the time. Also this fetish is much stronger various times throughout the year but as I get older it seems like it is stringer all the time and almost always at the fore front in my mind.

I went to Breakfast the other day at a restaurant I have not been to in more than a year. It happens to be one of those southern style breakfast places and really good with huge portions....ya know Country fried steak, biscuits and gravy, greasy thin hash browns and all the other regular stuff in very large fattening portions.

So as I was deciding what to order I looked up and thought I recognized a waitress from another restaurant I used to frequent .....although I wasn't sure it was her because this waitress was easily an extra 80-100 Lbs. bigger. As she approached my table I realized it was her.....I said hi and asked her if she used to work at the other restaurant I remembered her from. She said yes...wow that was a long time ago I haven't seen you forever. Well, a long time to her was a year...even though she made it seem like 3-4 years. She took my order and we had some small talk about how good the food was here and that the reason she switched restaurants was because her older sister worked at this restaurant. She left and I couldn't help but want to somehow encourage talk about her very distinct weight gain. She came back with the food which was overflowing off my plate and probably a good 3000 calories of a fattening meal. This restaurant used to be the place I took my wife all the time while she was pregnant and after and when my wife was at her all time heaviest. My wife no refuses to go here because she says it is unhealthy and so fattening....but she never complained when she was stuffing her face before....so anyhow I was alone this day and probably the reason I hadn't been there for a long time. As this waitress was leaving my table she asked if she could get me anything else and I said how about some tobacco...she left and hurried back and I then commented how I didn't think I would be able to finish my huge meal and she said you might surprise yourself.....I will be back in a while. Before I knew it my plate was clean and my belly felt like a big beach ball sitting out in front of me on my lap. She came over with a cute grin and said...see I knew you could finish it. She then said, when I first started working her I thought the meals were huge and never thought I could finish them but even in my first week I would have the same meal you just ordered before my shift for breakfast and finish it with no problem and after my shift have even a bigger meal....because the allow us to have a before and after shift meal.....and the food is so good. She then said oh there is my sister now coming in for her shift. As I looked over I saw a pretty light brown woman with her hair in a high pony tail very cute and around 300+ Lbs. The waitress that helped me was definitely shorter than her sister I say 5' 5" and used to be around 150-160 Lbs. and slightly chubby or thick but now has to be between 240-250 lbs. That was about it for our conversation and as I was leaving I noticed another waitress that I remembered seeing over the years who was quite short 5' 1" at most and she has steadily gained and I would say she is easily over 250 Lbs. now....and a fourth waitress who was skinny probably 115 lbs. most at 5' 6" and seemed to be the waitress that brought out all the meals to the customers accept in my case. I am sure that's how these bigger waitresses can handle their shifts by taking orders primarily and having the skinny one delivery the food and filling the waters.

I was just amazed by her transformation and how sexy it was. I was just a little bummed I couldn't get any more weight banter out of her while we had small talk.

I went to Breakfast the other day at a restaurant I have not been to in more than a year. It happens to be one of those southern style breakfast places and really good with huge portions....ya know Country fried steak, biscuits and gravy, greasy thin hash browns and all the other regular stuff in very large fattening portions.

So as I was deciding what to order I looked up and thought I recognized a waitress from another restaurant I used to frequent .....although I wasn't sure it was her because this waitress was easily an extra 80-100 Lbs. bigger. As she approached my table I realized it was her.....I said hi and asked her if she used to work at the other restaurant I remembered her from. She said yes...wow that was a long time ago I haven't seen you forever. Well, a long time to her was a year...even though she made it seem like 3-4 years. She took my order and we had some small talk about how good the food was here and that the reason she switched restaurants was because her older sister worked at this restaurant. She left and I couldn't help but want to somehow encourage talk about her very distinct weight gain. She came back with the food which was overflowing off my plate and probably a good 3000 calories of a fattening meal. This restaurant used to be the place I took my wife all the time while she was pregnant and after and when my wife was at her all time heaviest. My wife no refuses to go here because she says it is unhealthy and so fattening....but she never complained when she was stuffing her face before....so anyhow I was alone this day and probably the reason I hadn't been there for a long time. As this waitress was leaving my table she asked if she could get me anything else and I said how about some tobacco...she left and hurried back and I then commented how I didn't think I would be able to finish my huge meal and she said you might surprise yourself.....I will be back in a while. Before I knew it my plate was clean and my belly felt like a big beach ball sitting out in front of me on my lap. She came over with a cute grin and said...see I knew you could finish it. She then said, when I first started working her I thought the meals were huge and never thought I could finish them but even in my first week I would have the same meal you just ordered before my shift for breakfast and finish it with no problem and after my shift have even a bigger meal....because the allow us to have a before and after shift meal.....and the food is so good. She then said oh there is my sister now coming in for her shift. As I looked over I saw a pretty light brown woman with her hair in a high pony tail very cute and around 300+ Lbs. The waitress that helped me was definitely shorter than her sister I say 5' 5" and used to be around 150-160 Lbs. and slightly chubby or thick but now has to be between 240-250 lbs. That was about it for our conversation and as I was leaving I noticed another waitress that I remembered seeing over the years who was quite short 5' 1" at most and she has steadily gained and I would say she is easily over 250 Lbs. now....and a fourth waitress who was skinny probably 115 lbs. most at 5' 6" and seemed to be the waitress that brought out all the meals to the customers accept in my case. I am sure that's how these bigger waitresses can handle their shifts by taking orders primarily and having the skinny one delivery the food and filling the waters.

I was just amazed by her transformation and how sexy it was. I was just a little bummed I couldn't get any more weight banter out of her while we had small talk.