Feedees: why get fat?

Erica9091 wrote:
2. You like fattening food.
4.You like to overeat.
5. You're tired of feeling guilty about your weight or appetite.
3. You hate dieting.
6. Your significant other wants you to gain.
1. You find it erotic.


Nice, only you shouldn't change the numbers!

I think you meant:
6 2 1 3 4 5
10 years

Help dealing with family! :(

I did help one woman with similar issues: askdrfeeder.dyndns.org/letters.html#Amanda. Her scenario is a bit different, but who knows, maybe it'll help.
10 years

Comebacks to fat-haters

Though, having said that, I now want to see a fat girl win a rap slam battle. smiley
10 years

Comebacks to fat-haters

metroidnerd wrote:
I have found that simply saying "Thank you" and interpreting the insult as a compliment helps out a lot.

"Fatty!"
"Aw, thanks!"

"You really need to lose weight."
"Am i really that big? I am so glad!"

Usually, if done correctly, you end up disarming the meanie, leaving them to drown in a sea of confusion and loss of perspective.

Of course, for the bigger offenses, you have to bring out the big guns. I am not fat myself, but i have been known to proactively defend other people's weight, and i have been known to monologue (think of it as a beatdown, one punch swiftly followed by dozens more).


Yeah, if you can spin it into a positive thing somehow that's probably better than a rap slam battle!
10 years

Gender ratio of feederism

Are men just more open about sexual preferences online than women

Yes

are men more likely to use specific internet pages to explore their fetishes

Yes

feederism truly mostly a male desire?

I don't know.


Another factor: There are "latent" feedists, who don't even know they have a feedist side. I suspect that more women fall into this category than men, but I really don't know.

And of course this latter group is not represented on the internet at all. You may have to venture out into the real world to find them!
10 years

Gain vacation

I like it. The "gaincation".
10 years

It should be easier?

Usually the re-gain is faster and more intense than the initial gain.
10 years

How did you accept it ?

I don't know. I remember at one point I was worried it would cause me problems, being a feeder. And I remember at another point, maybe fifteen years later, realizing I was happy being the way I was and wouldn't want to be any different.

But I don't remember how or why I made that transition. Maybe it just take time.
10 years

Im kinda teetering here

You sound awfully tentative about it! I'd say don't gain until you make up your mind. A feeder or gaining buddy might help, but you're the one who has to live with your decision.
10 years

What have i done??

It's pretty common for people to feel different about getting fat or being fat from one day to the next. I believe that's one of the reasons people are always leaving the site and coming back again.
10 years