Perhaps something like "...I guess maybe you're looking for someone a little slimmer or more athletic?" and "...guess I do like to eat, probably why I've put on a few pounds". Listen carefully to her response, you'll probably be able to tell whether she's just being polite or whether she's genuinely ok with it.

Just remember, you've only got 3 minutes and you'll probably never meet them again so don't worry about being too shy about it all.

Thanks for reporting this. The bug should now be fixed.

at least you had a go which was very much appreciated

The video competition has now closed and the number of likes for each video recorded. The winners are:

First prize - $50 AMazon voucher goes to Volumina, who's most popular video scores 53 likes.

Second prize - $40 Amazon voucher goes to Lilycupcakes who scored 42 likes with her most popular video.

Third prize - $30 Amazon voucher goes to CurvesGalore who scored 41 with her video. Only one like between second and third prize.

I was also offering one month Combined upgrades for the next three runners up but have decided to offer this to all the runners up in appreciation of their efforts.

Thank you all those that entered, I hope you found it as much fun as I did. Thank you also to all those that registered their likes.

I'm tied up for the next couple of days but will send out the prizes as early as possible next week.

I think this is a usability issue rather than a technical one, since I've not yet been able to user test this part of the website.

The way it's supposed to work is this - if JavaScript is enable, the big green button displays the reply form when clicked. You type your message into the form then click the White reply button to send the message. However I can see how this is confusing, with two buttons both labeled 'reply', especially with certain screen resolutions when the buttons appear one below the other. Recommendations for the best way to improve this would be great.

I'm going to make it 12 midnight GMT on 31st July 2015. This way I can set my calender and I'll remember to check all the entries.

Yup. You can vote for whichever videos you think deserve it most. This may be just one, or several. be quick though, the competition ends in just one days time.

Thanks Saph. This has now been fixed.

I'm hoping to have more regular competitions for different things and with a variety of prizes. I have several ideas already, I want to create an artwork section so we could have a competition to kick start that when it's ready. Perhaps also competitions for stories and pics. Any ideas are welcome.

There's been a bug in the pear drops on the profiles page, it's been displaying the number of likes you've given instead of the number of likes you've received (duh!). This has now been corrected and please accept my apologies for the error.

I've also increased the number of likes needed to get a pear drop to 50 likes each. This better takes into account the number of likes members have achieved, so the top most liked will get 5 drops with everyone else somewhere below.

Just out of interest, the top most liked members currently are:

taytay21 - 1354 likes
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Imogenieze - 1200 likes
fantasyfeeder.com/profiles/member

liveinlove94 - 729 lilkes
fantasyfeeder.com/profiles/member