None of the cheerleaders I knew in my high school were snobby or mean. They were all nice and down to earth.

Everyone is different. Normally large people can not lose weight and keep it off. One study shows your chance of losing weight and keeping it off is one in 177. But sometimes when the weight is purposely gained in a short time, people can lose it. For some people it might be after gaining 10 pounds, for others it may be after they gain 200 pounds.

Physical attraction is important. The politically correct thing to say is that it shouldn't matter. But it does. If you have told him you prefer his old weight, and he still wants to lose, then maybe he is not right for you.

Be careful. I know of someone who quit their job and accepted a home job. It turned out to be a scam, and she is now unemployed.

The clothing industry considers anyone who is a size 14 or above a BBW, and anyone who is a size 28W or above a SSBBW.

Sorry, but weight gain is no guarantee that you well get large boobs. I know one woman (born woman) who gained to over 400 pounds and is still an A cup.

As long as the other person is into it, it shouldn't be a problem. The problems happen when someone gets someone thin and asks them to become large, or someone who is already large and asks them to get larger.

Everyone is different. I enjoy BBWs who dress as BBWs. I like when they wear loose clothes to be comfortable and to allow room for future gains.

I personally knew two people who died from Fen/Phen when it was popular. I also know of countless people who have died from WLS. Some died on the operating table, some died 10 years after the surgery after battling the complications. I can see not trying to gain on purpose for your health, but losing only causes regain in the future.

The fantasy stories always begin with "I was a cheerleader in high school," but in reality, I think most people who gain were either chubby or fat in high school. Or were thin/average for a short time only.