Men who are fat tend to have more estrogen in their system (manboobs with real nipples, not just fat deposits) So, I would think that might have something to do with it.

A lot of large women are small busted. I knew one lady who was over 400 pounds, and still an A cup. Back pain is the number one complaint that doctors get, and many of the complaints are from guys and small busted women. So don't assume that your boobs are the major cause of back pain.

You've got a long way to go before you are even close to fat. So, gain some weight, and see if you like it.

Every time someone sets up a web site for gaining and feedees/feeders, the non gaining BBWs and BHM come in and join, but then post that they are not into gaining.

Everyone here is free to block anyone they want and reject anyone they want. You can't make someone like you.

Unfortunately, when I was dating, I never found anyone more than around 360. I would have loved to have been with someone 500, even if it was for a short time.

You can't keep weighing yourself. If you eat 2 pounds of food, you gain 2 pounds. If you poop out 2 pounds of poop, you lose 2 pounds. It's the long term effect that counts.

Breasts are part of being a fat man. Enjoy them, don't hide them.

Tell him she should gain so much weight that he needs a bra.