Why do people hit me up, start chatting and then ghost me right away?

Munchies kinda said it the best, manage them expectations. Keep your head up. Allow yourself to be content with yourself, It’s okay to do things on your own.

Things can fizzle out, interests might change, people get busy, they might not think of it as ghosting, there’s a lot of factors but ghosting is terrible for social spaces it adds s layer of scrutiny and resentment.
1 year

Just ordered lots of chinese food

Morbidly A Beast:
Chinese Food isn’t one of my go tos for food I’d rather smash a pizza or something but most of the time I just get a big order of shrimp fried rice a few egg rolls, pot stickers, cream cheese puffs etc unless it’s Panda Express then I go wild with a double order of coconut shrimp and teriyaki beef with all the fixins

BigBallBellyGirl:
Same! I love cream cheese, wontons and sweet and sour chicken, but other than that, I will take pizzas, burgers, or Italian anytime!


I def vibe with that. I’m a huge sucker for a big greasy cheeseburger
1 year

Optics

Muscle weighs more than Fat some guys gain just pure fat others get chunky and stay chunky tell their fat exceeds muscle
1 year

Dating women without physical attraction?

Morbidly A Beast:
It’s been demonstrated to you. You just want to argue and frankly I don’t wanna see you take anymore Ls. Just admit you were wrong and apologize, try to do better.

X_Larsson:
Haha, absolutely not. You "feel" something, but are not able to substantiate that claim. That is nothing I should apologize for. Have I hated, slandered, threatend, lied, bullied, shamed?


And you’re just being an ass, completely unprovoked because women spoke to you in a way that was dismissive to your conception of them. Just quietly take the L and apologize
1 year

Dating women without physical attraction?

It’s been demonstrated to you. You just want to argue and frankly I don’t wanna see you take anymore Ls. Just admit you were wrong and apologize, try to do better.
1 year

Dating women without physical attraction?

X_Larsson:
And EXACTLY what have I said, that is "intolerant" or "ignorant"? And against whom? Show me! Your feelings do not count as evidence.


Against women. Objectifying them. As they’ve said numerous times in this thread
1 year

What is it like…

Having to size up things is a bit surreal in a lot of sense.

1 in the sense of actually having to size up clothing it’s wild cause you feel like you had just went up a size even though it was a year or two/three and you don’t realize how much you need it until you try on new clothes bc shit stretches my 2xls elastic pants I just got do not fit like my 2xl fit from a few years ago same fit everything, then you realize you need that next size up. Shirts too

2 in the sense of needing to gauge your size I was gonna go up on a roof but ended up using my head becuase I’m 400+ I could break through in old spots possibly, also would the latter hold me? Can this equipment I need to use support my weight? Will my fat butt fit on the seat?
1 year

Dating women without physical attraction?

The expectations for me as a fat guy are pretty low so it’s a bit of a who I find attractive vs reality kind of thing, personally I think physical attractiveness has to be there but it isn’t everything
1 year

Who likes moobs?

As my belly has gotten bigger my moobs have seemed to be smaller in proportion (which I’m perfectly content with) I still have em don’t get me wrong but proportionally I think having smaller moobs looks better
1 year