why can’t everyone be the size they want to be and we leave it to themselves how they want to be? So often I see feedists wish for everyone to be super fat and I’m like ok enjoy your nut I guess but as a fat person in the here and now I would have to decline I enjoy the fact I am the one who will get 4 double cheeseburgers at 130 in the afternoon have a pizza by dinner and the fact I’m bigger than most people who’d most consider very fat, I don’t wish that at all I just want to be treated fairly and receive the same respect other people are given
Also 600 lbs? Its always immobility or something with these people most peoples bodies couldn’t handle that it’s pure fiction not everyone even given unlimited calories time etc could do it
1 year
Munchies:
Well, I meant concerning the food aspect of things. You can be a bbw or bhm, but that doesn't necessarily mean you engage much with the food aspect.
I didn’t think about it much I suppose that would be the difference between a plus sized person and a feedist this makes sense when you put it like that it’s really a relation to food if you think about it
1 year
Munchies:
Comes from different flavors of feedist expressions. There are gainers, feedees, and foodies.
Gainers want to get fat. This is where you see most of the min/max crowd. They've crunched the numbers and figured out the best methods for getting fat. Taste is secondary to how fat the food will make you.
Feedees want to get fed. Variety is nice, but the focus is on the act of feeding - not the food. A lot of feedees will appreciate variety and fancy food, but most are content with their favorites so long at the feeding experience is nice.
Foodies want food. They love food and eating first and foremost. Any weight gained is incidental. However, since enjoying delicious food is normal in mainstream society, a lot of them do not feel the need to join fat fetish communities. Those who do join fat fetish spaces tend to do it because it's the closest thing that fits. But a lot of foodies I've talked to express frustration because most people are fat-focused and not food-focused.
I feel like there should be a fourth criterium bhm or bbw alot of folks who are already plus size are somewhere in between all of those. It’s hard to really say.
1 year
It has been a bit bizarre seeing people willing to or wanting to eat or drink things that do not taste good to me it’s like can’t you just eat more? I’m realizing not everyone is wired the same way. It can be a struggle for some people to eat, but for me I’ll eat just about anything I’m not picky at all
it’s a time/cost thing I like the connivence of eating really good stuff now vs spend potentially hours making something that’s not all that good, on hand I have stuff to make sandwiches some frozen stuff but other than that I pretty much order.
Also I don’t agree with the whole “slop fast food” thing never did even when I was a heckin a lot smaller than I am now, fast food is probably better than what a lot of people make.
1 year
when she hears my tummy gurgling 😫
1 year
I don’t think so I’m not particularly gassy I don’t think, I mean if I’m drinking alot of sodas which I tend to drink a lot of I get burpy but flatulence not so much
1 year
RoyalRose:
Man, I wish I knew why i'm like this. Probably has to do with my kink being directly opposed to traits from my neurodivergence, like food sensitivities.
I'm into being fed, I like the feeling of being stuffed, i've always dreamed of being soft and fat (grew up chronically underweight). I hit the check mark for tons of feedism kink things. And eating can be fun for kink reasons! But motivation beyond that is difficult.
I will say I'm honestly proud of how far i've come, I used to be underweight and i'm close to 'obese' now. But if I could choose a super power, i'd go with photosynthesis in a heartbeat!
Also doesn't help that I have digestive issues, such as a major surgery coming up. I'll be having my large intestine permanently removed as I'm a cancer risk, woo! Shouldn't effect me in the long run, but recovery will be long and awful.
Now that I think about it, I feel similarly about sleep. I suppose I just dislike needing to care for the human body's basic needs.
Hey gotta do what you need to, health is more important than kink I’ve just been blessed with a body that can withstand calorie bombs and tends to store fat super easily. Not everyone will have a similar experience and it’s better to take those things into account, not worth getting sick over eat what you can, try to enjoy what you do have
1 year
Munchies:Why eat a package of cookies, when you could eat two?
I did this recently though haha. I got some of those new Oreos with pop rocks in them didn’t realize they had pop rocks in them so I got through most of the package without realizing it so I opened up the package with the white and fudge filling ended up eating both in one sitting XD
1 year
I’ll never understand what it’s like to want to be fat also finding it hard to gain but hate or dislike eating on top of that. Like I’m sorry this might not work the way you think it will, doesn’t make you any less valid as a feedist just gotta work towards a better relationship with food
also don’t @ me thins, eating an entire package of cookies is still a healthy relationship with food
1 year
Some people only feel good about themselves when they put others down like her sounds like your bf just learned to ignore it probably from a young age from other insulting things. set some boundaries with her, let her know that you think that behavior is unacceptable to you.
1 year
