Morbidly A Beast:
I’ve been in a particularly big gluttonous mood lately and I’ve spent over 500 dollars on munch this week. Something about seeing that scale up has me chowin like never before

Eleanorrigby:
when consuming feedist media (pictures, stories, videos), what are some general themes or additions you enjoy? i'm personally a fan of soft feedism and romance being a focal point in stories, but i think teasing is always a nice touch.

Pit01020:
Anybody is interested or experienced in fat vs fit?
Meaning, that one partner (for me the female part) is living a very comfortable life (going by car, having always enough food) while the other part (male, me) has to compensate all of that over indulgence by eating less, serving the feedee, running for the calories and car mileage creating a huge size contrast. If I can't make it I have to pay for not fulfilling the requests.
Anybody experienced or interested?

Cmffa:
Howdy, y’all!

I feel like I may have seen something like this posted before, but, what the hell! I’m going to make another one since it might help others.

I’m looking for a beta reader that enjoys SSBHM content to read over my romance-erotica story which features a dominant man. I’m looking for feedback and grammar suggestions. If the reader is comfortable, I can share a link to my Google Doc with editor mode on so the person can make their suggestions that way.

Note that this work will have an explicit sex scene which I’m about to write today, so I would like someone comfortable reading that and can give feedback.

I’m close to being done and this could end up being a Part 1 of a story that will be in a series called ‘Big Boss’. I just need someone in the community to give me some feedback since I definitely can’t have my usual beta readers for non-fetish work look at it 🤣

Thank you!!!

Ultracheese:
I haven't tried stuffing myself in a few years, but now I'm thinking about starting again... loved how it felt. I'm not all that big, so back in the day, a bag of chips at once would do it for me. I'd like to try other things though, so what food is your stuffing go-to?

HectorBalloon:
God my double chin really has blossomed as my pic shows. Also grown big teeth and glasses to fit the fat nerd look from all my eating at the computer while doing nerdy computer stuff.

Munchies:
TIL you can grow your teeth

HectorBalloon:
It really helps when the first lot have fallen out!!

HectorBalloon:
God my double chin really has blossomed as my pic shows. Also grown big teeth and glasses to fit the fat nerd look from all my eating at the computer while doing nerdy computer stuff.

Viktoshka:
I asked specifically for feedee. Are you feedee?

I didn't say that feedees and feeders necessarily break up. My question was addressed specifically to feedees, because I'm interested in their opinion and experience. But since you answered, tell me how you see the supportive role of the feeder in a long-term relationship?

Munchies:
I'm an FA and feeder. My partner is my feedee. Got him up to 500 lbs as of 2023. That was his limit, and he lost weight for health and comfort reasons. Currently sitting at 430 last I checked.

Only a piece of shit leaves their partner because they are no longer gaining. And on top of that, gaining and maintaining doesn't mean you have to give up being a feedist. You just have to change your approach.

My partner and I do a lot of roleplay and fantasy about how big I'd make him and how. I also stuff him from time to time. You won't gain weight from the occasional.

I also do a lot of FA stuff, but that's outside of your feeder question.

Regardless, most feedist relationships are not transactional. People don't leave the relationship just because the journey ended. And when I say relationship, I do not mean only romantic. I've seen platonic and sexual feedists relationships too.

Viktoshka:
Thank you for such a detailed answer! It would be interesting to hear how you adapted after it reached its limit. You say that the approach simply changes - can you give an example of how exactly? What does such interaction give when there is no active recruitment?

Munchies:
We switched from making the body of our desires to enjoying it. It's hard to appreciate such things properly when your main focus is growth. And it's nice to go from a manic intensity to something more sedate and cozy.

Viktoshka:
It's interesting how the perception of the process itself changes. When growth was the main focus, it gave more excitement and drive, and now it gives more comfort and pleasure? What was the most enjoyable thing for you in this new stage?

TheCakeIsAPie:
Have you ever looked back at that first moment and realized, gee that was a weird thing to get me into this?

I remember watching one particular episode of The Rugrats where Angelica eats so many cookies she walks around with a bloated belly and groans a bunch. Tiny kid me was like "oh yeah, now thats my shit." and here we are.
Looking back it is just a WTF moment for me,
I'm curious if anyone else has random moments that set them into this kink like this.

Ssbbwbellylover1010:
I can remember when my mom had a best friend who was definitely a ssbbw before I even knew what that was or meant. She had huge breast's but her belly was so soft and jiggly, she couldn't hide it in any outfit.
I used to fantasize about just laying next to her and cuddling her, but I never really understood what I was really into.
Fast forward to teenage years, and watching porn, I saw a ad in the margin of xhamster of "Mercedesbbw" and clicked.....and ever since then I've always had a place to enjoy my love for an enormous belly!
I wish that there was a site that was STRICTLY dedicated to the love and enjoyment and admiration of the bbw/ssbbw/ussbbw belly. And I mean LITERALLY just the love for large bellies and belly play.
If anyone does have one in mind, please inform!

Oogabooga10:
Hey everyone! 23m nerd here. I've never done one of these before, but I'm looking to talk those who are Christian and are into feedism. Feedism is rare in itself, but being religious AND into feedism is really rare. I'm Catholic, so it would be really nice to talk to Christians who are also into this kind of thing, but other religions are fine too. I really want to make friends in the community who are also like me, because even though I sometimes interact with feedism communities, I sometimes feel lonely because almost nobody is in my situation. Feels like I'm in a niche within a niche. I'm also really into video games, manga/anime, and motorcycles too.

I'd love to hear about your opinions and thoughts about this topic too, so feel free to share! Hopefully I'm not the only who's into this kind of situation 😅

Enas:
If i understand the point of your entier post, it is basically asking people if they have this experience where their fetish contradicts their conciousnes? (If thats through the christian faith, or perhaps any faith seems to be of less importance to me)

Munchies:
Nah, you gotta keep the religious element to it, or it doesn't work.

See, your conscience is a reflection of your ethics and morals. Religion takes that and adds supernatural consequences. So, even if you don't have an issue with it, your religion supersedes your personal beliefs on things. So you gotta navigate the two.

You won't get it if you aren't religious or have never been religious. And even then, different faiths or expressions of faith yield different complexities.

OP and I are both Christian, but we are very different flavors of Christian. My Protestant ass has an easier time navigating these feelings because, for my flavor of Christianity, I'm straight so long as I accept Jesus as my Lord and Saviour.

Meanwhile, that Catholic guilt is the stuff of legends. OP grew up experiencing things that I will never fully understand because that's how the Catholic Church rolls.

And don't do your usual "people are stupid" song and dance. That won't fly in this specific situation, and if you try it, I am not protecting you from the angry people that will come your way.

Anjou:
And then there is Jewish guilt...