Hard 7 leaning 8 now
1 year
Ditzy:
Usually the nasty comments come from progressive people that get upset that you don't live your life the way they think you should.
At least for me its been that way.
The guys I hunt and do pew pew sports with never say anything mean or hateful about my weight.
Lots of truth about people being rude just to be rude.
I don't hold back when it comes to rude people,I can dish it right back and make them wish they hadn't opened their smart mouth.
I saw it a lot during Covid and when people were protesting the lockdowns people got away with making fun of their weights and stray mean nasty comments about their appearance. Or even when the mask stuff got brought up. Obviously that was a hot button issue and I’m not trying to debate that or anything like that it just was rude comments like that from people you wouldn’t expect.
1 year
Rrrawrgh:
For me, I think it's a jealousy issue.
Can you imagine someone has worked very hard to stay thin (constantly counting calories, planning meals to hit nutritional goals, hitting the gym, etc.) and then they find people who are both happy with themselves and other people find them attractive?
They get mad that they put in all this effort to feel that way when fat people didn't have to do any of that. The choice mentally is between "I've taken all this time and effort to be 'attractive' and it turns out I didn't have to." or "FAT people are terrible".
Which do you think is easier to accept for yourself?
Maybe for some it’s like that but I wouldn’t past people to just want a outlet for being rude for the sake of being rude
1 year
I just don’t put much stock in other people when it comes to this stuff other people are flakey skiddish maybe just in the realm of fantasy but for the real people actually getting fat or are fat it’s a completely different world we gotta exist in and it’s simply not worth basing your worth or validation on them. A feeder may or may not exist in your future and that has to be something you grapple with.
1 year
Maybe I’m just skewed because I’m a 400+ pounder that makes more sense
1 year
It seems like everyone gets to goals and they just seem to blow past em like I get it be careful don’t go to crazy… I just don’t understand from my perspective at least I will be fat and always will be fat now I don’t know how you can come to regret gaining weight did you regret eating all the food that got you to this weight?
I have no experience with gay feeders at all let alone straight female ones but to me it’s like what came first chicken or the egg situations if this post didn’t make sense sorry
1 year
Sachasays:
I wish this was me.
My crush only likes BBW and I've been trying to gain for months.
I'm currently 114lbs and the most I've ever been is 115.5lbs. I get full so easily and lose my appetite. Idk how you guys do it.
I was given a ravenous appetite that grew and grew. I’m not sure how one can over come circumstance like that, something will give eventually or your appetite will grow given enough stuffings it’s important to remember consistency and not to over do it all at once occasionally.
1 year
Be around a group of guys for long enough eventually the topic of fetishes/what you like comes up, and I’ll be honest it’s been tough to answer as of late it never used to be it was just you know sexy stuff hot women do now my answers are more like the awkward “you know” lol anyone with half a brain would probably connect the dots that I’m some sort of deviant but no one has caught on that I know of.
But otherwise no it’s just not anyone’s business imo unless it’s someone I’m really intimate with
1 year
my advice would be to get out and do stuff find a hobby learn a skill etc don’t let the internet be your only gateway to human interaction. It’s okay to be alone sometimes.
1 year
