Jdude200:
Just wondering what everyone likes most about gaining?
A - the feel of fat/ getting fatter
B - The weight and or getting heavier
C - Getting physically bigger
D - other
D. the food obv 🍔🍕🌮🌯🍦🍰🍩🍪🥪🌭
1 year
apart from the possible stamina issues and depending on how your weight distributes and how big 🍆 you are it could be harder, it’s gonna be tough if your buried in a fat pad, the good news is that this probably isn’t lost on women who appreciate a larger guy
1 year
most *american men are within 180 - 240 if you’re looking for 200ish.
If your looking for something bigger I could but I’m no model
1 year
Attraction comes and goes and when you are already quite fat a few pounds here and there don’t mean much in grand scheme of things. It’s not all gaining all the time some people might see it that way but the reality is it’s a lifestyle of indulgence.
Congrats on the 7 lbs XD
1 year
I get out of breath start heavily breathing doing pretty much anything at this point I think it’s from the long term effects of Covid but it certainly doesn’t help with how fat and out of shape I’ve gotten in the past year
1 year
I have never popped a button because sweatpants and “gym” shorts don’t have buttons 🙈
1 year
If you look through the threads what happens is pretty obvious, and it’s not hard to figure out what occurs. Someone goes off the goop and says something insensitive they get called on it then rather than owning up to it and saying I messed up they double down and it spirals from there.
I just like to clown people I made a sarcastic mocking statement and a dude took that to go on a little dark age tik tok edit about how the west was falling nonsense. asking people to be decent human beings is to much sometimes
1 year
Morbidly A Beast:
Nah letting bigots have free rein without consequence when they spew their nonsense is objectively worse than being direct and confrontational every time they spew their garbage. Maybe it’s not the job of people to confront abstract things but it’s definitely on the part of our community to keep hate and bigotry out of our spaces, if you let one they will think that behavior is okay others will join in, and that’s no place I or others want to be in.
Malvineous:
Ok, but you're explicitly violating TOS. What you're saying might be true for disorganized communities, but not here. This isn't society at large, and this isn't a place for internet activism. In this case, tolerance actually DOES mean tolerating the intolerant until you can get a moderator to act on your behalf. It's literally their job to do so. When you confront people, you're actually being counter-productive to what you want, because all you succeeded in doing is getting the thread closed, while they still remain a member and will continue to post. That doesn't actually scare the trolls at all. If I'm wrong in my interpretation of the rules, I'll gladly accept that correction from a moderator.
I'll edit to add an analogy. If you're part of the gaming community, and someone is acting disruptive, then yes, people should do some gatekeeping on their own. But if you're part of an after school club, and someone says something out of pocket, then by rising up and yelling at them, it only makes you look like you're just as disruptive and part of the problem. But if you turn to the club president and tell them that person is turning this into a toxic environment, then thy have an excuse to act and bar that person from future meetings.
Bro being a decent human being isn’t fucking activism. You’re making it political. I’m dropping this conversation.
1 year
It's everyone's responsibility to keep discussions civil on the internet, not just the moderators. If someone is being an asshole or bigot, it's not your job to police the discussion, confront them, or put them in their place. First, not everyone is a skilled communicator, misunderstandings can happen, so asking for clarification is a good idea. Beyond that, you should calmly state your disagreement in a non-accusatory manner, and if they're over the line, report them to the mods. It's this attitude exactly that I've seen time and time again will cause a discussion to escalate to the point where the thread needs to be locked in the first place. All of this is spelled out explicitly in the website rules.
Please be courteous and respectful at all times, showing tolerance towards our diverse membership and the broad range of fantasies and ideas they hold. Do not post anything that is rude or insulting and do not deliberately try to 'close down' discussion just because you disagree with it or find it offensive (please report it to a moderator instead).
Malvineous:
This rule still applies to you, even if you're well-intentioned, and even if somebody else breaks it first.
Nah letting bigots have free rein without consequence when they spew their nonsense is objectively worse than being direct and confrontational every time they spew their garbage. Maybe it’s not the job of people to confront abstract things but it’s definitely on the part of our community to keep hate and bigotry out of our spaces, if you let one they will think that behavior is okay others will join in, and that’s no place I or others want to be in.
1 year
Chunkyshark:
I’m a leader lmao >_> my house has 900 boxes of cookies in it right now, talk about self control!
I love a good old fashioned Trefoil, I’m not big on sweets and they’re so well balanced. Crisp and buttery and just the tiniest bit of salt at the end of the sugar 😍
Then dosidos, the peanut butter sandwich ones with the oatmeal cookie outsides.
If y’all get adventurefuls, they’re like the very crispy edge of the brownie, my hot tip is microwave em for 10 seconds!
I’d be forcing people to take the thin mints because every box would be in my freezer waiting to be eaten rn lol. That’s some good self control!
1 year
