Everyone has had some really great input for the original poster.....in fact brilliant information toward this complicated fetish.

The crazy thing is with so many things it has so many varying degrees in fact the biggest one I can think of is the amount of change that has occurred within this fetish for myself.

For example many years ago I like slightly chubby girls/women that gained some weight who turned chunky or a bit heavier. Now it seems like i tend to gravitate to much heavier fatter women with much bigger thighs, butt, belly, breasts....just everything. When I was dating my wife I thought that if she just got to that chunky stage that would be so hot.....now I envision her getting to 250 Lbs. or even 300 Lbs. not that I think that she would get there but if she did I know I would love her that big and Fat....and she is only 5' 3". So the size and weight has definitely changed over the years. The other thing is my fetish has also turned onto myself and now I think the most arousing thing would be for both my wife and I to be in a Mutual Gaining relationship with both of us getting fatter all the time. Also this fetish is much stronger various times throughout the year but as I get older it seems like it is stringer all the time and almost always at the fore front in my mind.

I went to Breakfast the other day at a restaurant I have not been to in more than a year. It happens to be one of those southern style breakfast places and really good with huge portions....ya know Country fried steak, biscuits and gravy, greasy thin hash browns and all the other regular stuff in very large fattening portions.

So as I was deciding what to order I looked up and thought I recognized a waitress from another restaurant I used to frequent .....although I wasn't sure it was her because this waitress was easily an extra 80-100 Lbs. bigger. As she approached my table I realized it was her.....I said hi and asked her if she used to work at the other restaurant I remembered her from. She said yes...wow that was a long time ago I haven't seen you forever. Well, a long time to her was a year...even though she made it seem like 3-4 years. She took my order and we had some small talk about how good the food was here and that the reason she switched restaurants was because her older sister worked at this restaurant. She left and I couldn't help but want to somehow encourage talk about her very distinct weight gain. She came back with the food which was overflowing off my plate and probably a good 3000 calories of a fattening meal. This restaurant used to be the place I took my wife all the time while she was pregnant and after and when my wife was at her all time heaviest. My wife no refuses to go here because she says it is unhealthy and so fattening....but she never complained when she was stuffing her face before....so anyhow I was alone this day and probably the reason I hadn't been there for a long time. As this waitress was leaving my table she asked if she could get me anything else and I said how about some tobacco...she left and hurried back and I then commented how I didn't think I would be able to finish my huge meal and she said you might surprise yourself.....I will be back in a while. Before I knew it my plate was clean and my belly felt like a big beach ball sitting out in front of me on my lap. She came over with a cute grin and said...see I knew you could finish it. She then said, when I first started working her I thought the meals were huge and never thought I could finish them but even in my first week I would have the same meal you just ordered before my shift for breakfast and finish it with no problem and after my shift have even a bigger meal....because the allow us to have a before and after shift meal.....and the food is so good. She then said oh there is my sister now coming in for her shift. As I looked over I saw a pretty light brown woman with her hair in a high pony tail very cute and around 300+ Lbs. The waitress that helped me was definitely shorter than her sister I say 5' 5" and used to be around 150-160 Lbs. and slightly chubby or thick but now has to be between 240-250 lbs. That was about it for our conversation and as I was leaving I noticed another waitress that I remembered seeing over the years who was quite short 5' 1" at most and she has steadily gained and I would say she is easily over 250 Lbs. now....and a fourth waitress who was skinny probably 115 lbs. most at 5' 6" and seemed to be the waitress that brought out all the meals to the customers accept in my case. I am sure that's how these bigger waitresses can handle their shifts by taking orders primarily and having the skinny one delivery the food and filling the waters.

I was just amazed by her transformation and how sexy it was. I was just a little bummed I couldn't get any more weight banter out of her while we had small talk.

I went to Breakfast the other day at a restaurant I have not been to in more than a year. It happens to be one of those southern style breakfast places and really good with huge portions....ya know Country fried steak, biscuits and gravy, greasy thin hash browns and all the other regular stuff in very large fattening portions.

So as I was deciding what to order I looked up and thought I recognized a waitress from another restaurant I used to frequent .....although I wasn't sure it was her because this waitress was easily an extra 80-100 Lbs. bigger. As she approached my table I realized it was her.....I said hi and asked her if she used to work at the other restaurant I remembered her from. She said yes...wow that was a long time ago I haven't seen you forever. Well, a long time to her was a year...even though she made it seem like 3-4 years. She took my order and we had some small talk about how good the food was here and that the reason she switched restaurants was because her older sister worked at this restaurant. She left and I couldn't help but want to somehow encourage talk about her very distinct weight gain. She came back with the food which was overflowing off my plate and probably a good 3000 calories of a fattening meal. This restaurant used to be the place I took my wife all the time while she was pregnant and after and when my wife was at her all time heaviest. My wife no refuses to go here because she says it is unhealthy and so fattening....but she never complained when she was stuffing her face before....so anyhow I was alone this day and probably the reason I hadn't been there for a long time. As this waitress was leaving my table she asked if she could get me anything else and I said how about some tobacco...she left and hurried back and I then commented how I didn't think I would be able to finish my huge meal and she said you might surprise yourself.....I will be back in a while. Before I knew it my plate was clean and my belly felt like a big beach ball sitting out in front of me on my lap. She came over with a cute grin and said...see I knew you could finish it. She then said, when I first started working her I thought the meals were huge and never thought I could finish them but even in my first week I would have the same meal you just ordered before my shift for breakfast and finish it with no problem and after my shift have even a bigger meal....because the allow us to have a before and after shift meal.....and the food is so good. She then said oh there is my sister now coming in for her shift. As I looked over I saw a pretty light brown woman with her hair in a high pony tail very cute and around 300+ Lbs. The waitress that helped me was definitely shorter than her sister I say 5' 5" and used to be around 150-160 Lbs. and slightly chubby or thick but now has to be between 240-250 lbs. That was about it for our conversation and as I was leaving I noticed another waitress that I remembered seeing over the years who was quite short 5' 1" at most and she has steadily gained and I would say she is easily over 250 Lbs. now....and a fourth waitress who was skinny probably 115 lbs. most at 5' 6" and seemed to be the waitress that brought out all the meals to the customers accept in my case. I am sure that's how these bigger waitresses can handle their shifts by taking orders primarily and having the skinny one delivery the food and filling the waters.

I was just amazed by her transformation and how sexy it was. I was just a little bummed I couldn't get any more weight banter out of her while we had small talk.

Does it seem that women don't mind gaining weight and getting Fat as long as their boyfriend or husbands are gaining and getting fatter also or are bigger than them.

I was just wondering, because I have experienced this and was wondering if others have noticed this or experienced this also?

I mean they are partners that always eat together and snack and eventually if they are both gaining and getting Fat or Fatter it seems they would be less insecure and kind of go on with there happy fattening life.

First off great thread.

I would imagine there are so many people that are in the exact or similar situation with their Fat attraction.
I to am married but knew my wife had it in her to really plump up even though she doesn't love it. Although over the years my love for more and more extra weight on women and my wife has increased exponentially. 15 years ago I would have considered my wife Fat.....but know I merely look at her as a little chunky and wish she would be 50-100 Lbs. heavier or more. I to find myself looking at much heavier women and envisioning what my wife would look like at 250 lbs., 300 or even bigger.

Also, people change over time not only with their weight but their overall perception towards weight.
A while ago when I was making sure my wife always had plenty of fattening treats around her in hopes for her to gain more weight I actually unintentionally gained a bunch of weight myself. I decided to intentionally keep gaining and get bigger, mostly for a lack of fattening on my wife over the last few years. I became pretty arousing and I turned the weight gain on myself and enjoyed it. My wife many many years ago mentioned she didn't ever want her man with a belly on him...and she seemed to gravitate toward a more cut up look....even mi=ore so than a really muscular build. Well, years ago I got pretty into weight lifting and became pretty muscular and she mentioned that I should cut up and not be so "bulky muscular" as she put it. Fast forward 15 years again and now I was what you would call a "muscle chub" with a huge gut looking almost nine months pregnant and my wife all of a sudden couldn't keep her hands of of the new fattened up husband. She never really commented verbally other than a couple of times when she was slightly intoxicated but physically she couldn't keep her hands off of me and my huge gut...always caressing or gently grazing a touch on it or placing her arms around me which she could barely fit anymore.

So, I think other than some women liking fat guy's or guy's with bellies it is a personal choice and also sometimes something that one can grow to really like. She also seemed to get pleasure in fattening me up even more.

If you have allergies try using an antihistamine to relieve them...I have also heard that it has appetite stimulating effects. Google periactin or something spelled similar to that which is a antihistamine ....it mentions people eating ravenous amounts and it even being used sometimes as a weight gain medication because of this effect.

Good Luck

Nope! Is she in her 20's or is she thirty+

If she is younger it may be more difficult although she doesn't sound that thin by your specifications you gave. If she is older than she should gain easier.

If she is willing have her stuff with big Fattening meals...Lasagna, pasta etc. later in the day while skipping breakfast. Her dinner should be the biggest meal and close to bedtime. Also after being full after her big meals follow it with fattening deserts that she likes. After make her some fattening milkshakes or buy some...it should be pretty easy to still down liquified calories even after being so full. She will feel huge and bloated after this which is fine. Massage and gently rub her belly. These liquid calories will do two things first they will add many fattening calories while already being full as well as stretching her stomach and eventually after doing this for several weeks to a month her stomach will be stretched out and she will not only require way more food she will actually crave all the fattening calories from deserts and sugar.

Eventually she will be heavier and fatter, look and feel that way and act like more of a Fat wife because she will be hungry all the time and sacrifice any workouts for dates out with you stuffing her face.

I don't watch it...but keep us updated! Is she fat /chunky herself or thin....just curious?

This is an easy but yet tough question.

Everyone carries their fat and weight differently so their may be certain parts of someones body that maybe fat while other parts are not. For example a woman may have really big Fat thighs and doesn't have a belly or a lot of Fat anywhere else and I think most people wouldn't call her Fat....but she just has really Fat thighs.

It seems like more people would be inclined to call a man or woman Fat if most all of the weight and size is targeted to the belly. I mean if there is a guy or girl that are relatively thinner all over but have a big pronounced belly most would call them Fat....and even more so if they are a bit thicker everywhere with a very noticeable big belly.

I mean I would describe a woman with really big thighs and not much elsewhere as ......a women with bigger legs but not Fat. And I think most would agree even though we all have our varying degrees of thickness and size.

When my wife gained weight she would always gain in her thighs, butt, breast and a little in her belly.....and I would always view her as thick or chunky...it wasn't till after several pregnancies and after that she developed a much bigger belly to the point where she was a lot bigger everywhere and had a big fat belly....and I started viewing her as Fat (which I loved).

So, final answer.... it really seems like it has to do with a big belly for me.

That's funny....I probably would have been the same as you with my mind wandering thinking only of their weight gain and fat related stuff after reading that question.