I think what Tubby Marie said is definitely true...Our women are not dumb....they can pick up on our kinks. Maybe not to the extreme that we actually like though. I mean my wife know's how much I love her Fat especially when I spend attention during making love grabbing onto and slightly squeezing and shaking her big lower belly and huge fat inner thighs while making love.....but I don't think she realizes I would love for her to be over 300 Lbs.

She doesn't know what she does to me when she starts increasing her eating and her appetite gets really big and out of control....and dreaming of how much fatter she is going to get eating so much. Or, when I watch her try and squeeze into clothing that fit just a while ago and she has clearly gained and can't fit into anymore...it makes me so aroused and excited. She knows I like her bigger and when she gains weight but I don't think she knows exactly how much this drives me sexually and it would be kind of awkward to tell her.

When I gained 45+ Lbs in a fairly short period of time...less than 6 months....I am sure she never assumed I did it intentionally. I am pretty sure she noticed even the first 10-15 Lbs. I gained but she never brought it up. After I continually tried to get a reaction out of her by over emphasizing my new huge gut with tight t shirts that rode up exposing my huge belly and or showing her my uncontrollable huge appetite right in front of her as well as having 30 extra Lbs. around my waist and gut looking like I was 9 months pregnant she said nothing. All she did do was start feeding me huge portions at meal time followed by seconds without me even asking...and the meals became more fattening and fattening....it was almost as if she was trying to get me even fatter. She was eating along with me but for every 1 lb she gained I seemed to gain 3 lbs. It almost seemed like she liked me fatter and even though she was gaining weight she was fine with it because I was getting so much bigger at the same time. It actually spurred an increase in our love making...it was almost like she loved her new fattened up husband even though she didn't talk about it.

So, our situation became a little secretive on both ends which made it really sexy. I still to this day have not asked her directly if she likes me fatter....I almost want to see her reactions versus hearing them now and play along in a gaining fantasy.

Nope...we haven't talked about the encounter...and I am sure sure probably thought "wow...he just broke the chair. It has fabric all around and I think it was a splinter type crack on the back, in the frame with lots of padding around it. The crack isn't visible and structurally still if fine but it makes a bit more creaking noise now.....it might only be a matter of time before it really cracks.

When I was very young I knew I liked Fat. I happened to be very skinny and could never gain weight....even when I was in Hugh school. But the crazy thing is I liked fat on girls/women and I liked more and more of it as I got older.

Just curious how many girls & guy's were really skinny themselves and liked Fat and heavier guy's or girls?

It seems there are a bunch of really skinny or thin women on this site and others that are feeders. But also I was curious if this is a pattern that many of us were skinny and very thin when we were younger but loved the opposite in our mate.

I was actually skinny like this unitl I was 23 or 24 yrs. old....then in a blink I became bulky...and then many years later bulkier with a big gut. So my body totally changed but I don't think it was me manifesting weight gain on myself subconsciously until the last 4-5 years when I was intentionally gaining (which may be a product of such sites).

I have tightened my new desk chair at the office to the tightest recline and yet my weight when relaxing and leaning back still makes it bottom out .

A recliner that I have been sitting on for several years at the house has been making some creeks and squeeks lately and the other night sitting in it with my wife by me on the couch....I moved slightly while adjusting my weight and there was a crack...almost as if the frame has a slight break now. My wife said nothing but I am sure a few thoughts went through her mind. Not to mention mine.

Great points....I plan to try bringing it up in a playful way when she is slightly intoxicated.

I never really knew or expected my wife to be the type that would act the opposite to hide something....but you may be dead on. She may have always had a hidden desire and liked Fat, not necessarily on her but have a kink for it on others but felt ashamed so to not draw attention would act the opposite.

You know what they say when you are a member of FF....300 Lbs. is the new 200 Lbs.

I definitely hear you....I don't even view myself as that big at all. That is until I weigh myself at the gym after a few moments after another guy I saw get off the slide scale from across the Gym...as I step on I see he left the slides and just stepped off showing his weight of 174 Lbs. and I move the slides to measure my weight and it shows 253 Lbs. and I could have sworn we looked the same size. Ha Ha ha

Yea...I hear you! My wife has always said...."I don't need someone telling me that I have gained weight....I know when I am getting Fat".

She has mentioned before a friend of hers that even when my wife would gain 5-10 lbs. would make round about comments....like "What's different about you?" or "Did you do something different with your hair?" or the reverse psychology one ..."You look healthy, have you been eating real good?" My wife would always comment No, no, no... to all her questions never giving an in to the conversation. The funniest was when my wife happened to see her after delivering our last baby at least a year prior and I don't think my wife had seen this friend for a long time......now my wife was at her all time highest weight and this friend said "Wow, you certainly are taking off some of that pregnancy weight!" I think the "Wow" was a little shock for this friend when she saw her and it kind of slipped out and she didn't know what else to say after.....especially after my wife said...."well, I delivered my daughter over a year ago and actually I have gained an extra 25 Lbs. after delivery....so NO I'm just getting fatter and fatter." My wife said the so called friend was in total shock especially when my wife grabbed another plate of cake and started eating it right after she said that to her at the Birthday party.

So to your point maybe she is extending me that courtesy.....but I can't help but think with all her extra fattening cooking after she saw me gain so much already....it seemed like she was enjoying me getting fatter. It's hard to understand because I see so many things from my own eyes and most people don't have the same feelings centered around Fat, weight gain and this fetish.

Yes ....this also!

Well you are still body building....just trying to build a big Fat gut instead. It becomes pretty addictive....huh? Having turned on you will keep you horny 24/7 where as before you were horny from it watching heavier women or seeing a woman who has gained weight.

I have heard of several people who were trainers who had this same weight gain fetish.

I have always liked both! Early and still today I have always been interested and excited seeing someone weigh themselves or know someones weight. With that said.... what someone weighs can be really deceiving based on appearance.

I have always felt that I always weigh a lot more on the scale compared to how I look. Maybe I am still in my "skinny guy" mindset. My wife on the other hand always look's heavier to me than she actually weigh's on the scale....and for both instances I think most people would totally agree with this. I have even compared my wife to pictures of other women who are of same height and build where my wife look's much heavier, shaplier and fatter but weighs a good 10-20 Lbs less. I love that she look's so soft, sexy and Fat but when I find out what she weigh's (which rarely happens) after she has gained is always a shocker and kind of a let down....I guess it's the old scale weight mentality that is so intriguing. I guess al in all I would rather have my wife look way fatter than she she actually weighs anyway.