Embarrassing intimate (fat related) situations

Munchies:
Why didn't you change positions? If the ass is too fat, then flip her over, turn her to the side, lift a leg, or something.

Falcor:
We did other positions, we just wanted to try something different, which didn’t work well for us as a couple.
She did ofer to return to that position for my pleasure knowingly she will have to or after she was satisfied in other ways...[/quote]

It be like that sometimes. But did you at least spread the cheeks?
4 months

Stuffing feedee friends or strangers?

Strayguard:
Just a random thought that came to me. When you do an online feeding session are you typically friends with the feedee (or at least talk occasionally) or are you just throwing money at strangers? To me it feels like you should know the feedee a little bit before doing that but seems like that's not what happens.


I've done both. Although since I never paid for any stranger, some would consider that online encouragement. I'd say they are equally fun. Mind you, I am only talking about casual feedings and not having a dedicated feedee. Nothing tops having a dedicated feedee.

I'm a domme feeder. Although I prefer sadism, it's fun to do other things. I'd always tailor the experience to each person. Praise kinks, soft feedism, mild teasing, full on sadomadochism - all the fun things.

One of my favorite things to do is brat taming and dom breaking. I like putting bratty subs and doms who try to turn me submissive in their place. However, once I break them in, they stay like that. So if I want to do it again, I'd have to find someone else.
4 months

Male pear

Pluto:
I'm one of those people. I now weigh 96 kilos and most of the weight is in my thighs, hips and buttocks but I honestly don't know if that is really appreciated in this community for a man. Many feeders especially like big bellies


I love big bellies, but I prefered them paired with big asses and thick thighs.
4 months

I just got zyprexa

Igotfatter:
Hey everyone- first time posting in here but long time looker. I’ve yo-yo dieted in the past and I have been without my medications for over a year. I’m now in a place where I am going back on zyprexa.

First and formost this is all from my doctor and what I actually need. However I wanted to know if anyone knows how I could use going back on my medication to the best of my gainer abilities? Aka what to eat when to take it ect. All advice welcome


Congrats on getting back on your meds! A year without them is wild. I'm sure you're glad to be back on them.

Make sure you stay hydrated and get enough fiber in your diet. Constipation is a common side effect. It's hard to want to eat when you are feeling backed up.
4 months

Hot weather

SSBBWRoberta:
I feel you really 🥲 been wearing wet clothes all day long, trying to cool myself down but didn't work really 😩

Munchies:
Careful with wearing wet clothes for too long. You can end up with mold or yeast on your skin.

SSBBWRoberta:
My boyfriend do skin scrubs once a day roughly


Love that for you, darling. However, overexfolliating is a thing.

us.comfortzoneskin.com/blogs/blog/how-often-should-you-exfoliate

At most you shouldn't exfolliate more than maybe 3 times a week. Doing it too much can damage your skin. This is especially true at higher weights where your skin is stretched and delicate.
4 months

Hot weather

SSBBWRoberta:
I feel you really 🥲 been wearing wet clothes all day long, trying to cool myself down but didn't work really 😩


Careful with wearing wet clothes for too long. You can end up with mold or yeast on your skin.
4 months

Happy 4th of july

I hope everyone had a great day and no one had any unintending weight loss via a firework accident.

4 months

Mental health and appetite

SkinnyD:
I can't deal with salty stuff like the packaged ramen, or a lot of prepackaged/processed food. Remember that diet can affect depression tremendously too, gut health and nutrition play a major role in brain chemistry. If you put together a better diet with exercise, you may find that it helps alleviate the depression more. I think that's part of the reason gaining helps me as well, I realized that before I just wasn't eating enough and not getting enough nutrition. I thought I was, until I started tracking my food to help with gaining and saw what a difference it was.

I definitely recommend those Orgain protein shakes. I've been looking through the freezer at each supermarket I go to looking for frozen meals I can leave in the freezer at work for a quick economical lunch. Some of the things I've found on the healthier side still have a decent number of calories and taste pretty good, and don't leave me feeling sick from artificial crap and salt. You would be surprised how good and high in calories some of the vegan frozen dishes or meals are.


This is a slight tangent because it doesn't involve OP specifically but rather the feedist community as a whole.

A lot of feedists will eat like absolute shit to get fat and wonder why they feel horrible. There's a fear that if they eat healthy, they'll lose weight. I've run into people who avoid veggies or only eat fast food because of this.

These people are some of the most miserable, mentally unstable people I've seen. There's a reason why we were told growing up that junk food is a sometimes food - it's not just about staying slim.

I'm not going to say that a good diet fixes depression, but it certainly can help.

Back on topic. To OP, SkinnyD is right. It's good to get something nutritious you won't struggle to eat. At the same time, however, sometimes eating something is better than eating nothing. Sometimes life is hard, and the best you can do is bologna and a bag of chips. It's not the best, but it is better than nothing.
4 months

Subliminals

Etonias:
I'm wondering if anyone else has had much luck with using subliminals, I've been using them for about 4 days now and they actually seem to be working.


It's one of those "your mileage may vary" kinds of things. Subliminals and other forms of hypnosis work if you want them to work. You have to be open to that suggestion.

In other words, if you put on a subliminal for someone who isn't into that kink or doesn't believe in subliminal in general, it's not going to work. But if you are the sort of person seeking it out as a weight gain tool, it will probably work
4 months