my advice would be to get out and do stuff find a hobby learn a skill etc don’t let the internet be your only gateway to human interaction. It’s okay to be alone sometimes.
1 year
BigBallBellyGirl:
I like all kinds of pizza, but my typical order is either cheese with mushrooms and black olives, or buffalo chicken. I usually stack one slice on top of the other to eat two at a time and get more cheesy goodness. I also dip in ranch or blue cheese. I usually manage two larges in a sitting quite easily.
Nofbar:
How do you eat that much pizza without getting flavor-fatigued? I get about 3/4 through one large and then I feel a bit nauseated at more pizza, but I can eat more of something else.
I can’t speak for her but I know I just don’t get flavor fatigued I will if I eat something a lot very often but that’s not like active while eating flavor fatigue like you mean it, it does help that when I want a pizza I’m hungry for the entire thing if not two
1 year
people are going to be shocked at the meet up when it turns out I’m over 400 lbs nothing confirmed yet but it’s been talked about amongst my gaming friends lol
1 year
I sometimes pretend I’m skinny to fit in, It’s not a behavior I’m proud of at all and I feel like it’s going to bite me in the ass someday but for now I think I’ll just mask up I do slip up sometimes and talk about how much I like to eat. But people can be so vicious
1 year
All progressives: I believe in body autonomy for all!
Some of the same progressives: do fats even deserve rights?
You hate to see it!
1 year
BigOke02:
This might be off topic but related, I've wondered myself why the hostility towards fat people on the internet recently...
It's everywhere, especially Instagram. People not necessarily even body positive, feedee or whatever but just average fat people exercising, trying on clothes, talk about stuff, etc but go through the comments... The same worn out "jokes", the same "but your health" trolling, etc.
It makes me wonder why these people hate fat people so... Live and let live, right? I kinda wish scientific studies could be done to figure out why the fuck people are so hostile to fat people.
Munchies:
I've said this elsewhere, but fatphobia is considered the last condoned kind of bigotry. Since society views being fat as a moral failig and a choice, they feel validated to be as cruel as possible.
The internet is a cruel place. If you are marginalized in any way, people will leave hate comments and troll you. But there is a limit to this because if you go after the wrong one or it goes viral enough, the internet will go after you and come for all you hold dear.
With a few exceptions, the internet doesn't have the same level of rage for fatphobia as they do for other other forms of bigotry. So the bullies feel safer to be gross.
It’s amazing how even some otherwise progressive people don’t condemn fatphobia, unless the issue is brought up. obviously it’s a less important issue in some aspects but still bigotry non the less.
The ammount of videos you see deriding fat people and body positivity is insane and they all get away with it
1 year
Deadass427:
Well I just fell victim to every fat persons nightmare. I was at a friend’s cookout today and I absolutely DESTROYED one of those white plastic outdoor chair. My old me would have been completely mortified, but I was so high that it didn’t even matter. In fact, it low key kinda turned me on. I wonder what other stuff my butt can break 😈😈
those plastic outdoor chairs are dangerous when they get old they bake in the sun causing the plastic to go brittle, and they tend to shatter into really sharp fragments when sat on, I avoid em doesn’t help when you can’t fit in them in the first place haha
1 year
I don’t regularly count calories I just follow my appetite but the few times when I do, I realize just how many I regularly eat which is alot I mean most people don’t put down a large pizza by themselves let alone 2 with chicken wings :^) and to me it’s not even like I’m eating that much because I’m not a very fast eater
1 year
I get winded taking a flight of stairs, I eat more calories in 1 day than you do in a week we are not the same
1 year
Cutecoconut:
I get it, but eventually if I am just sending pictures and videos of myself eating to someone who is pretending they are "feeding" me, it makes it feel very one sided and like I am just being used.
For some of us, the submission in addition to being taken care of (buying the occasional meal) is part of the fetish of being a feedee. Encouragement just isnt it for some of us.
I think the influx of sex workers claiming they are into this, or people just demanding money for food without any chatting, have changed this community. Its a bummer because it used to be easier to find genuine people to engage with.
This is why I eat for myself and only post pics or a video when I’m feeling it, I get that it can be different for other people but I never considered that the pampering is part of it, probably I’m coming at if from my angle and my experience very few wanna see a fat guy eat or something lol
1 year
