First of all, I would not tell your family you are gaining on purpose. If they bring it up, just tell them you are happy the way you are. It's hard if you are living with them, especially if you share the food with them. You always have the option of trying to eat the most when you are not with them.

Do you really want to spend your life in one room, sitting in your feces and urine, dependent on someone cleaning you up?

I remember when my first wife was venting because she was gaining and needed a 50 inch waist pants. She hated it. I was getting so aroused, it was hard to hide it. She got very mad at me.

Unfortunately, you have to take your chances. Mobility depends on weight, age, and any conditions someone may have. You probably won't have problems at 400. But not everyone can stop gaining. You may remain strong, or you may get bad joints. No way of telling.

It's always hard to say. Years ago, we flew from the East Coast to the West Coast, and back. Same airline, same Boeing aircraft model. One way she needed an extender, the other way she didn't.

I Googled her, and in half the pictures, she's pregnant, and the other half, she's holding a baby. (OK, I exaggerated a little), but that may explain her weight.

Have you met her? If not, it could be a scam.

I am in South Jersey. I love your pictures. Obviously, I am too old for you.

I'm sorry, but when a troll comes and makes things up and then types it in all caps, they are not showing much respect for the people here.

Come on now! Size 47X???

It is rare that someone is just going to find someone who is into it. So, it is probably best to use websites and dating services and try to find someone who is already into it.