For the women -

When a husband, boyfriend or sex buddy has a bigger belly is it more stimulating to you physically especially in the missionary position?

This is to Damn arousing with these descriptive images in my mind....yes yes yes they are so delectable,

The words themselves are pretty nice for me ....but it is especially arousing and so sexy when my wife uses them in a context with herself.

* My lower belly is just one huge roll of fat out on my lap when I am sitting down.

* It's tough moving all this extra weight around, I am getting to be one big Fat wife now.

* (As she struggles to get up from sitting on the couch after a big fattening meal) she say's "I can barely get up with this Big Fat Gut in my way". (Then she proceeds to go to the freezer and get a pint of ice cream and clumbsily drops herself back to a seated position on the couch and starts seductively putting spoonfuls of ice cream into her mouth while she breaths heavily from her effort of getting her fattening ice cream)


Also...I almost find that her actions are almost as arousing if not more than her actual words when she has gained a lot of weight.

* Her greedily eating a lot directly followed but very fattening deserts and then still going to the pantry all night for little snacks multiple times.

* Watching her movements change with more and more weight gained.....her trying to sit up off of the couch with a slight struggle and making groans that she is not even aware of. Or when she gets her sexy growing figure into bed restling around to get comfortable and breathing more heavily for several minutes afterward because of all the extra weight on her body that she has to move around.

* watching her eat uncontrollably and stuff herself and then watching her undress to take a shower before bed and not only seeing how big, bloated and how much fatter she look's but seeing her move so much slower and watching her soap her beautiful much bigger figure like she is a fat goddess.

Early on I was totally fixated on girls I dated weighing themselves. Granted none of them were really that big or heavy but definitely chunky and plump. The fact that they gained even if it were 10 or so Lbs was pretty arousing when they would step on the scale in front of me and complain how Fat they were getting.

Over the years, and being married my wife, early on would amuse me by stepping on the scale in front of me. But for many years now we don't own a scale and my wife really doesn't weigh herself which is probably a good thing because no need for a diet.

I do think that if I had a wife that was into gaining or liked weighing herself in front of me I would still find it as arousing as ever.

Definitely got lazier! I analyzed this with both myself and my wife.

When I accidentally gained and then Intentionally kept going...it was almost like one fed off the other (no Pun intended)....while I ate so much I just to full and was very lazy. I put things off and basically gave up the gym for several 3-4 months. As i was always so stuffed after eating I did more TV watching and actually planned out my next meal. This is very obvious with my wife when she starts to gain weight she really starts allowing herself more sweets and junk food which she tries to stay away from and never would she eat fast food and many times a week after she has gained a good amount of weight she asks to go to In n out or etc. for burgers and fries and even throws in a shake once and a while.

I have witnessed first hand with both of us that gaining weight leads to eating more junk food and fatty food in general....until it gets to the point of a way bigger appetite and then we almost crave all those fattening things...Fat leads to more Fat...and more and more eating.

I have been there with my wife many times even when she was my girlfriend way back when.

It sucks....but I have come to realize that the older I have become ....even though they complain about the weight (in my wive's case) that they have gained ...that sometimes that maybe a just a frustrating moment or them venting. For example they just tried on some clothes that they can't fit into anymore or they just happened to weigh themselves and were shocked or even just had a bad day feeling extra Fat.

If there is a way to turn it into a warm moment and let them know that you care and love them more than anything....not only in a sexual way (Like I tend to do when she starts looking nice and fat and is so irresistable to me) but just soft and tender (should be easier for you). I know you don't want him to feel bad about himself but still I have learned that they seem to get over it fairly fast. In the past when my wife complained about her getting Fat I would stop our eating patterns together and try and help her in her frustrating rant of gaining weight.....she would lose weight and seem even unhappier and I certainly was unhappier and even slightly less atracted to her physically (sorry....just telling the truth). In the last several years when she complains about how Fat she has gotten.... I comfort her and assure her she is not Fat (because she isn't even close to Fat to me) and that I love her and make sure she has plenty of things she loves to eat. She generally forgets about this and after one of these episodes has actually thanked me for picking up at the store an obscene amount of all her fattening treats she loves. I mean if she were mad that I was making it hard for her if she was actually trying to diet she would say something I would think....not Thank me. So they vent for a bit and then with your love figure they will just take the easy road and enjoy themselves.

Also, it could be the initial shock for your boyfriend of how he has changed. Someday you will look back and think to yourself ....wow, he was so concerned about weighing 170/180 Lbs. and now he doesn't even complain and he is 220 Lbs with a huge Fat gut.

Let me know if this helps your thought process any....and keep us posted how it goes.

Yea...it's crazy I never thought I would be like this because I only liked my women getting fat and thought I would be embarrassed of this. In fact when I first gained weight after being skinny my whole life.....I was kind of in denial and it wasn't till I saw a couple of friends that I hadn't seen for a few years....who were in slight shock by my filling out. It made me feel kind of embarrassed with all that attention even though I just kind of filled out from being so thin and I wasn't what you would call fat....a little bulkier muscle with a slight belly.

Fast forward to just several years ago and I didn't feel weird about it...in fact whe I was intentionally gaining and put on 40+ Lbs of big Fat belly I almost got a thrill to show it off and have someone comment. I would wear dress shirts that clearly were looking obnoxious many times to get comments from some work employees not to mention my wife. A couple places I frequented such as restaurants or grocery store where I knew the workers for many years I would come in and somewhat flaunt my new huge gut. I never really got any comments but I could only imagine the minute I left and all the talk behind my back about how Fat I got. At my heaviest I met my wife for some wine at our mutual friends house when I got there it was just four women sitting around drinking some wine. Soon after I got there and settled down my wife said she had to pick up one of our kids and I decided to stay. Upon leaving our close friend and I came together for a good bye hug and she pulled me in close and squeezed in tight for a long hug with my huge gut pushing her back....it seemed like she held the embrace for many minutes fighting my huge belly pushing she back and as she let go her hand gently rubbed around the the side of my huge gut at my love handle. All I could think about was she must have been impressed with my new size and there was some definite talk about how Fat I have become.

Yea....I guess those are the moments that make you want to keep pushing to get bigger and bigger with this fetish.

I think the stereotype that fat women only have more sex because we're desperate and will abandon our standards is a load of crap. I have very high standards, thank you very much [/quote]



^^^^^^^ I totally agree with this. This is what someone says when they are either jealous or don't really know. I for one...obviously like heavier women but I believe there is a large group that don't have as strong of feeling's towards heavier women that have actually grown to like them because they had an encounter with a chubbier or heavier girl romantically or sexually. I remembered the first time I ever felt the extra softness and fat and I was unbelievable hooked....and couldn't ever imagine having a girlfriend that wasn't chubby, fat or overweight.

Has anyone gone on Hypertension/Blood pressure medication and gained a lot of weight?

Has anyone lost weight?

Something so damn sexy about ^^^^

I have noticed when my wife has gained a good amount of weight that she struggles to reach down there as well.....and it just sends me through the roof.