Fantasy Feeder

Anyone there talk?

PhoenixChimera:
What I don’t get is why things are going backwards so fast.
I have never known anyone like myself, we didn’t even have gays where I came from.
Evidently, either I am wrong or all of society. The majority is law.

Okay, so you have lost me, love.

Your profile says you are in Leeds, England. Idk if you are there or near there, but it seems that there is a thriving gay community:

visitleeds.co.uk/lgbtq/

Do you get out much? What are you doing to find and build a friend group?

4 months

Munchies

Anyone there talk?

PhoenixChimera:
I find the issue to be the same, regardless of who or where or how far. It is the same thing that gets me beaten in the streets and abused by NHS.
Some people are worthy of a life and others are judged to be not worthy.
The majority is law.

Not going to pretend I know what your exact situation is like since I'm cis. However, I am a dark-skinned black woman living in KKK country. I've been attacked and assaulted for both my race and my gender. At some point, you kinda get to a place where you have no more fucks to give and do what you want.

It's also really good to get your mind off of your own problems and focus outwards. Look into volunteering. Find some organizations geared towards LGBTQIA+ spaces. You can make some friends, mentor some people, and maybe event find some help with your current HRT situation. Couldn't hurt to try.

4 months

Munchies

Anyone there talk?

PhoenixChimera:
I have tried to connect many times with a great many and been bitten for my troubles.
I’ve been around here for more than a decade and seen things get worse.
Mirroring the general state I have seen far too close up IRL.
No offence, but I didn’t expect a response from anyone-going by experience.
Thanks to all of you who.

Yeah, there's a lot of shitty people on here. But it is possible to make friends. It's a game of quality over quantity.

That said, sometimes you have to be patient. I went through a period of life with no friends. Looking back, this was because of my environment and that I wasn't in a good headspace to be anyone's friend. Once I dealt with my headspace, I was able to find 1 person to befriend. This person later became my best friend. And once I got into a better environment, I found a lot more.

4 months

Munchies

Getting involved in the community

Shadowmike:
You've hardly been around and have a S.O. You try way too hard. You come off so needy and miserable.

Enas:
Eer... You say that to Munchies? Which is the most active user on forums, of the entier site for years?

This is really strange.

Munchies:
Meh. I don't care about his opinion. Still, I appreciate you saying something.

Enas:
I dont care much about what he said either, its simply false (besides totally obscene), but i really worry about how he thinks! He is totally spontanious here! No actual thought was involved to construct what he wrote down!

I appreciate the concern, Enas. That said, the guy's clearly jealous. His ire is laughable and an antithesis of having a community spirit.

That said, he provided a fine addition to this specific post. If you are wanting to find out how to be a part of this community, it's good to have an example of what not to do.

4 months

Munchies

Getting involved in the community

Bigbellylvr1:
What can I do as a skinny person to be a part of the community and meet people it kinda feels like I’m not worthy of joining in on fat talk because idk what it’s like lol I really want to gain but can’t really afford it at the moment but I want to get my foot in the door for when the time comes

Munchies:
FF has people of all shapes and sizes. Skinny people are valid and welcome. We have several gainers and feedees just starting out, so you'll be in fine company.

Shadowmike:
You've hardly been around and have a S.O. You try way too hard. You come off so needy and miserable.

Enas:
Eer... You say that to Munchies? Which is the most active user on forums, of the entier site for years?

This is really strange.

Meh. I don't care about his opinion. Still, I appreciate you saying something.

4 months

Munchies

Favorite euphemisms for fat

Shadowmike:
try hard lol

You are indeed ~

4 months

Munchies

Favorite euphemisms for fat

Munchies:
Doing a checking educate, my friend.

Fat Dreams:
Sorry, what does that mean?

It's just a funny was of saying I learned something from you.

4 months

Munchies

Becoming a feedee

SoloApollo:
Does anyone has any advice on becoming a feedee?

There's no one way to be a feedee. Some feedees gain, and some don't. Some try to stay healthy and active, while others try to move as little as possible. Some want to be as fat as possible, while others only want a little fluff. The best thing you can do is mess around, find out, and have fun.

Just try to be safe when you are messing around. A lot of people throw themselves into this lifestyle full tilt and get sick. They almost always give up because they are doing too much.

4 months

Munchies