It kind of happened to me in a similar way!

I was preparing my wife fattening meals as well as buying a ton of fattening sweets (which she loves) to stock the pantry and freezer in hopes that she would really balloon and lose control. Over the course of a few months she did gain some weight but not nearly as much as I thought she would. I on the other hand suddenly realized that I really fattened up myself. I began eating deserts and snacks with her after lunches on weekends and every night after dinner. I began to crave sweet fattening things the way she always did.....and it did a number on putting one heck of a big Gut on me. I realized I liked being bigger...not to mention I really couldn't control my enormous appetite anymore and decided to intentionally gain.....to have my wife comment or tease me. Well many months went by and more than 40 extra Lbs. and she never really mentioned anything other than a couple of times when she was slightly intoxicated...and it almost seemed like she loved the "Fatter Gut me".

It stands to reason adding fattening deserts which I never ate before along with the fattening meals I prepared her really jump started and accelerated how Fat I got. After that she began preparing fattening meals and would over feed me in an obnoxious way 2nd & even 3rds at times without me asking and mention "oh just finish this up, honey"!

While dating my wife she was a workout queen at 5' 3" 120 lbs. max that later told me she had a hard time keeping weight off and was a "Fatty" in High school (Not really a Fatty in my book but definitely quite a bit overweight after seeing pictures) up until her senior year! I was Muscular and thin from playing Football in college and never really seemed to gain weight other than muscle weight, I was 6' 2" and 170 lbs.....while playing listed at 180 Lbs.

Even though my wife was a workout queen she had some incredibly muscular sexy thick thighs with her inner thighs still having some soft Fat bulges as well as very plump breasts and a nice soft lower belly roll. As time went on and I told her to lighten up on working out so much so she can enjoy more time with me she gained pretty quickly....she got into the 160 Lb. range after a while and looked unbelievable. She has a sweet tooth and while not working out as much she didn't ever stop eating her sweets. I on the other hand began lifting a lot of weight in the gym after college and eventually my metabolism changed and all of a sudden I became muscular and bulky and started developing a bigger gut. I got up to around 210 Lbs.

When we got married I estimate my wife weighed around 145 Lbs. dieting down a bit for the wedding day and I was around 200-210 Lbs.

After marriage my wife became pregnant and eventually had three babies back to back to back never really giving her time to lose much weight and she looked Beautiful and more sexy than ever weighing in at just over 200 Lbs. Years later she wuld lose weight and gain back some weight never getting back up to 200+ Lbs. but would go from a low of 165 Lbs. and a higher amount now to around 185+ Lbs. The lack of weight gain on her during her lower times spurred me to intentionally gain weight myself on turn my weight gain fetish on me. I ended up getting a pretty huge gut and weighed around 260 Lbs. I became interested in her pointing out how Fat had become. Over the years she seems to have become more accepting of weight gain on herself as well as me and even sometimes she seems like she prefers the fatter me. I am not sure if it is the home maker in her feeling the "I made him nice and Fat with all my great cooking or what" but she certainly likes seeing me fatter especially when she is much heavier herself and can't seem to lose any weight.

I like this thread and just saw it pop up again and thought I would add to it.

I may have mentioned here before but when I was at my heaviest from intentionally gaining I was at one of my wife's friends house. We were all drinking some wine and eating some cheese and etc. and along with a few of her other friends as well and my wife had to leave early. This friend of my wife's had not seen me in at least 3-4 months in which time I had put on over 40 lbs. with a very noticeable huge gut. As I mentioned I had to leave she came over to me with the biggest embrace squeezing into my huge belly and holding the embrace and even after we began to separate her arm and hand gently grabbed and held on leaving her hand resting on my big belly while we finished talking for several minutes later.
I couldn't help but think that this woman really like the big Fat belly I had put on.

I even think my wife these days likes me to have a big Fat belly. Especially when it comes to sex and she really loves to feed me huge meals.

This is a great topic...can't believe it hasn't been posted yet.

At the times I have gained a good amount especially when I am intentionally gaining I have done this many times....here are a few that I can remember off hand.

1. Like chubbydiva mentioned...I have also several times at GNC weighed myself at their scale in a mall. I was at my heaviest and just finished Lunch (By the way...I think they weigh heavy on those scales.) I put in 50 cents I believe and stepped on, punched in my height and age and a receipt printed out with my weight as well as describing how much overweight I was for my height and age. I was 257 Lbs. At this scale it didn't show the numbers off for every one else to spy in on though.

2. When I was intentionally gaining I would always go into a dept. dept. store or such after a big lunch or dinner and go down the scale aisle and step on several scales to see my big digital print out of my weight. One time I had a slightly cute younger women that came down while I was standing on the scale and ask if I needed help. I said "I am just trying to figure out an accurate scale I like". She then stayed their helping and watching me step onto multiple scales reading anywhere from 248-253 Lbs. She must have liked it because she would say try this one and stood there for 15 minutes just to keep seeing how much each scale read. It was kind of a turn on for me...I was even throwing out the old "Wow, I can't believe I have gotten this big" and even accentuating and pushing my big gut out even further.

3. Many times I will go into my gym and step on the big slide scale and just leave it showing my 250+ ***.

Honestly its as far as i expect to get her but my point is dont waste your life trying to look for the perfect prepackaged person to fit your preferences. Somethings must be allowed to develop naturally and consider yourself very lucky if you find your 80%[/quote]


This is so true....sometimes it is hard to wait but very true.

My wife has gained over the years and at times when she is her heaviest and can't resist eating lots of great food even teases me about herself getting so Fat. I really love these times but she can change her attitude at a flip of a coin so to speak and then Fat shame herself and be reluctant at these times to be sexual because she feels to Fat and even get on kicks to diet down.

So ultimately if you found someone who was into it that you loved (needle in a haystack approach) that would be the optimum. But over the years they do change slightly in the favor of gaining and not being able to lose weight as easy but it takes a while.

I agree for sure....and at certain times I would imagine with all fetishes they are much stronger than other times.

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Did you gain a considerable amount of weight with it?

I always love watching women gain. Especially my past girlfriends and especially my wife.

Over the last several years have turned the gaining on myself. I think a mutual gaining relationship is such the ultimate on so many levels.

I think eventually if you like your women to gain weight as an FA and into weight gain eventually the Lbs. will find you as well and continue the erotic evolution of weight gain being innate within you.

Always have to have some fat related vision....Usually dealing with weight gain or being fatter. Even when making love to my wife I drift off dreaming of her getting fatter while she is riding me. It just is what makes me tick sexually.