Abuse is wrong no mater which partner is doing it.

Sadly that is what would happen more than likely.
If you love someone hitting is not OK and that goes for both partners.
If you are just dating and not happy in the relationship nothing wrong with not wanting to date that person anymore.
Dating is the process of finding out if you are compatible or not.

If she hits and says she is playing but still won't stop I think if I were a guy I would break it off.
Its not being dramatic IMO because what will she be liable to do when she is really upset?

There are quite a few trans people on here and I think thats great.
Fat is the reason we are all here right?

Seems all that would be heavy and tend to fall down or not stay in place.
I remember someone on another fat site say they used cotton batting and or foam and pantyhose.
I'll bet wearing all that would be awfully hot.

Have you told him or asked him to say something to her?
I know some guys are afraid to say anything to their Moms but those kind are just wussies .
It just shows you don't mean that much to him IMO.
I walked out of a relationship with a guy like that so been there done that.

Way out you mean?

I can't knock anyone for trying to earn money or supplement their income by eating for someone willing to pay for a video of them eating.
Its just not something I ever felt like doing.

I have had people offer but I have never accepted any.

They need to come to my house and see what a slob I am. LOL
You won't find a mess at my house or dust for that matter.