If you are very close to someone, you should know more about them than just their screen name. You should know their real name, several email addresses, etc. If you know very little about their real lives, you really don't know them.

First of all, no matter what, he should not be cheating. Secondly, if you purposely decided to diet and change your personality he may need to break it off. But since your personality did not change, and you could not help losing weight, he should have accepted it.

It's hard to say why people have preferences. Does anyone ask someone why they prefer blondes?

It's all genetics.

It's genetics.

According to the US clothing industry, size 14 starts plus size. Target does not have much plus size stuff, since they are rather snobby, WalMart is good for casual stuff. Torrid is good for trendy clothes in plus sizes.

Well, when men grow large breasts, they have to decide whether they want to start wearing a bra, or go braless. It depends on how sensitive your nipples are, and how much jiggle you have, and how uncomfortable it is.

Well, if she isn't going to give it up, you have 2 choices. 1)accept it. 2)dump her.

You have to remember that nothing is certain. Someone may gain a few pounds and triggers a life threatening illness, or someone gains 200 pounds and lives to 80. Or someone gains a lot of weight, and dies in something unrelated, so it does not even matter. Everything you do, from going to the grocery store to climbing Mt. Everest has risk. You have to decide how important that risk is.

You have to remember that you have to have the genes for diabetes. My wife is fat, and does not have it. I am not very fat, and I have it. Now, if you do have the genetics for it, it may make it hard to gain, since you have to avoid sugar and other things. If you just happen to be fat (not gaining on purpose), it is more important to watch what you eat than it is to try to reach a certain lower weight.