Might be different for men, but I’ll share I was stuck hovering at 190 for about five years up until just recently. It’s different for everyone, I’m sure. Sometimes it’s just a matter of having enough of a food budget.
3 years
Louiefat:
I think the flab you're seeing is the result of years of weight loss and weight gain cycles. New fatties are at their biggest and have never had their skin stretched farther than it currently is. Like a water balloon inflated to its limits. A mature SSBBW/SSBHM though will likely have lost weight several times over the years, which significantly changes the texture, shape, and consistency of fatness and overall the body shape of a person.
Etiola:
🤔 this make a lot of sense! The bellies are not only protruding, it's true that they seem taunt. Like a leather skin on a drum.
That’s how mine is — a tight bowling ball belly, though it’s getting rounder and heavier :-) My wife’s belly has some hang and some excess skin from a few cycles of weight loss mixed in with the overall gain the past 15 or so years. Still nearly 200 pounds heavier than she was in high school :-)
3 years
Can’t go wrong with pasta and ice cream
4 years
Compliment her figure as often as possible. Make her feel wanted and desired at her heavier weight :-)
4 years
I’ll have to mention Wacoal to my other half. I see her 46 DDD’s are the biggest size available there.
4 years
pizzafoodie:
Husband asked me tonight to go to a buffet this weekend for a stuffing! I’m so excited!
HappyBigBoy:
Awesome sauce! *sigh* I miss going to buffets. Wife and I like to stuff ourselves silly. Where else can you get fried chicken, fried fish and barbecue all in one sitting :-)
pizzafoodie:
It’s honestly going to be fantastic! I know he’s going to stuff himself until he can’t move! He’s very excited about all this. I also can’t wait to stuff myself!
You’ll have to post new pics afterward — we’re getting excited just reading about it!
4 years
pizzafoodie:
Is anybody here into being pregnant/pregnancy? I love big bellies whatever form they come in so I definitely love pregnancy! I also very much enjoy being pregnant myself, I’m pregnant with number 3 right now!
I sure was when my wife was pregnant with our first together, just last year. She’s been over 300 pounds for a long time, so she didn’t have to gain that much for it :-)
4 years
pizzafoodie:
Husband asked me tonight to go to a buffet this weekend for a stuffing! I’m so excited!
Awesome sauce! *sigh* I miss going to buffets. Wife and I like to stuff ourselves silly. Where else can you get fried chicken, fried fish and barbecue all in one sitting :-)
4 years
EIIe:
I’m the fat one in the relationship... we both knew coming to the table that we were both kinky but hadn’t discussed a lot of specifics besides being open to bdsm, and general sex positive really open attitudes.
I think the first time I took off my shit he immediately touched my belly and said, I love bellies! I enthusiastically said, me too and we proceeded to make out like crazy.
It’s been almost a year and we’ve never had a blunt discussion about a fat/feeder fetish but he never hesitates to buy me snacks I like and spoil me (in all the ways) and cook for me!
I am the dominant one in the relationship and I have stroked him off using my fat rolls and he loves it... but still no specific conversation... we have gone into deep conversations about our D/s Mommy/boy dynamics tho!
Someday we may have it but honestly just enjoying each other and having a genuine loving connection is a bigger priority for me.
I would start with getting a feel for how sex positive and kink friendly they are... that goes a long way in understanding and building trust. I need to know I’m not going to be shamed for being me.
“That’s hot!” :-)
4 years
27.89, officially the overweight zone :-) Wife is super-sexy, at 54.91!
4 years
