Fat Dreams:
I'll start with one I just learned recently: "executive." I love how it connotes both power and opulence.

FAMGM:
I’ve certainly found that the fatter I’ve got the less important actual sex is. I can well imagine that at 600 lbs I won’t care about it.

Stockylove:
And more the dick is buried and disappear. Coïncidence?

I do not think so 😉

Munchies:
Eh

I take your meaning, but I want to emphasis that the size of your fat pad or how buried your dick is has nothing to do with your libido. It also doesn't mean you can't have sex. You might need to get creative, but that's it.

I bring this up because a lot of people with dicks worry that if they get really fat, even with a willing partner, that's the end of their sex lives.

And yes. This can include some ace peeps.

Enas:
There is something really interesting here! Let me start by mentioning the fact that it is impossible to have sex (reach an orgasm etc) without a fantasy. It will operate on the cognitive level, and without it nothing sexual can genuinly happen. (asexuality might have to do with that btw! To not have those fantasies) Even when someone thinks they are experiencing the real thing, the actual pleasures come from the fantasy which is realized.

Now let me get a step further. In today's world we have lots of things like, Coke but without sugar. Or coffee without coffeine. And i think that what is illustrated by FAMGM is that sex today, is sex without sex. Meaning, the actual penetration and so on. Because the essense is on the fantasy, which if for example has to do with fat, and the feedee is extremely fat, then thats it! It doesnt mean that there is a low libido, maybe even the oposite! But its not something that can be satisfied through traditional sex intercourse.

What do you think?

Munchies:
Enas, where do you even get this stuff from?

It's 100% possible to orgasm or even have sex without fantasy. It's called being in the moment. Just because you can't doesn't mean other's can't too.

Also, asexuality means you do not experience sexual attraction. Sexual attraction is different from sexual expression. Some (not all) ace people like sex, but they aren't sexually attracted to people regardless of gender.

Another thing is that you are conflating kink with sex. They are two different things, and you can have one without the other. To be clear, I am not discounting nonpenetrative forms of sex like cyber sex. However, kink, though sexual, is not in and of itself sex.

For example, if you go to a BDSM dungeon to have someone pour wax on you, you aren't having sex. Even if you cum from it, it still isn't sex.

Enas:
Maybe i should reword if (from what is possible / impossible to what trends to happen in our days, currently) but if i remember correctly, i got that one from a lecture by Slavoj Zizek here: ?si=LDe0EzPMEJZK3Wl7

Enas:
I'd love to talk about anything so long as we can allow the conversation to enter the domain of phylosophy.

(also it occurs to me, from the looks of it, that the first post might have been deleted and we see a comment as the original post? Or am i wrong?)

PhoenixChimera:
Or is it just that you don’t accept trans? After more than a decade where not a single one of you saw fit to talk to me, I wonder.

JN_TumLover56:
Very interesting point. Kinda makes sense as to why I am still very much skinny despite what I eat. 😅

But one thing I’d like to ask is what about them nutrients? Especially when you actually cook the fruits or vegetables? Just as a curiosity.

Arame:
Yes you can cook them. And even season them to taste. Just be aware that green vegetables are most nutrient dense when they are at their darkest. If you cooked them to the point where they’re light green, you’ve basically cooked the nutritional value out of them.

JN_TumLover56:
Ahh gotcha, that does make a lot of sense when it comes to keeping an eye on the colour.

Wanttobefat600:
More power to you if you like this way of gaining, but at least for me it seems to go against everything that makes me want to gain. Like fuck yeah its bad for you but I feel like the most fun of gaining is eating unhealthy fattening foods and living a life of minimal activity.

Justinboo0313:
So recently my wife and I have been snacking in bed before we go to sleep. This is new to me but she’s an old pro. For me it’s a freeing and the best part of my day now. I look forward to this every single night. Ever since we started this her snacking has had an uptick in portions and I find myself feeling the need to keep up with her. Our sex has picked up too. She’s not into the kink but has always been accepting and supportive and dabbled with it for me through the years. I feel like something has changed since I started eating with her. Anyone else have a similar experience?

LuvsChub04:
I get breathless after eating so ill lay down, thats when the tightness starts.

Burningburner:
this happens to me too it probably is from the pressure in your belly

LuvsChub04:
As ive been stuffing myself more often now, after I do my chest feels tight and breathing isn't as easy.Does anyone know why this happens?

AskDrFeeder:
For those of you whose partner was initially not interested in gaining weight and who eventually came around and started eating more and gaining:

How did you do it?


Or if you were someone initially not into gaining and was coaxed into it:

How did they do it?