My girlfriend doesn't know she is a feeder.

Munchies:
Noticed you live in Texas. Lotta Southern women are like that. Not even as a kink. We get a man we love, and it's almost a compulsion to keep his belly full and happy.

fatrnfatr:
Food = love in many cultures. Is it about doing something nice for the family, a tradition centered around holidays, or just about making traditional southern foods which are by nature fattening?

Munchies:
All of the above. In some parts of the South, a well-loved man is a fat man. Especially if you've been together for a while. There are definitely women around here that fatten up their men to show he's taken. Strangely, it's not even a kink for most of them.

GrowingLoveHandles:
Munchies, how right you are. These women kind of “mark” their man with a belly created by their fabulous cooking.

Munchies:
And the men are more than happy to fatten for them. They dream of finding someone to grow old and fat with.


All just very accepted by many people as part of the culture.

And it’s really kinky as f.
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Can't find story

snaffle:
Thanks ! I think the author was male, and I think in the story, the woman fed the guy shrimp ?


That does sound familiar to me also. I’ll see if I can find it.
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My girlfriend doesn't know she is a feeder.

Munchies:
Noticed you live in Texas. Lotta Southern women are like that. Not even as a kink. We get a man we love, and it's almost a compulsion to keep his belly full and happy.

fatrnfatr:
Food = love in many cultures. Is it about doing something nice for the family, a tradition centered around holidays, or just about making traditional southern foods which are by nature fattening?

Munchies:
All of the above. In some parts of the South, a well-loved man is a fat man. Especially if you've been together for a while. There are definitely women around here that fatten up their men to show he's taken. Strangely, it's not even a kink for most of them.


Munchies, how right you are. These women kind of “mark” their man with a belly created by their fabulous cooking.
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Last call

BlackjackandBerries:
I go by Lynn on here. I am 24. Female. and strictly lesbian.

I am at my whits end.

I am no longer on feabie and instagram, I will leave here soon too.

I have been searching for a signifigant other for 10 years now, and I am tired.

I am looking for a girlfriend, or a wife. This is your last call/chance to tell me how you feel about me before I leave.

Goodbye.


I will email you, Lynn.

I am sad to see you leaving here and Feabie
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Underutilised story ideas

stevita:
-Polycule of feeder(s) and feedee(s)
-Feeder (willingly) turned feedee
-Platonic weight gain encouragement (maybe with friends to lovers?) Also, on that note:
-Weight gain competition between 2 or more feedees
-Weight gain as part of a healing process (either emotional or physical)

Ofc, this is just some of my personal favorite tropes. I know there are a few good stories on here that incorporate them, but I'd never say no to more!

I'll list more if I can think of any.


My mind seems too shattered these days to write much, but I enjoy this discussion.

Mutual weight gain stories are also lacking. I know there are quite a few but maybe I’d like to see newer takes on this, perhaps the emotional healing.

Also stories in which the feedee is dominant and the feeder quite the sub.

No one really talks much about the healing powers of overeating. Eating your feelings is not something that society encourages, but eating for comfort works — quite well. Maybe someone feeding another to help them with emotional/physical pains.

And is getting fat a way to heal? I would say yes, especially if this weight gain is the result of feeding and loving care from the heart of a special partner who teaches the feedee to enjoy the fattening.
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Small changes in my daily life to help me gain weight?

Bicepsual:
Drink your calories. You need to drink liquid regardless, so you can easily add on 2-3K a day just in switching up your beverage choices.


An extra 100 calories a day will add 10 pounds over a year.

Switch out two diet drinks for the sugary soda pop and you’ll gain 20 pounds within a year.
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Death feedism...what's the appeal?

ShivaSmoke:
It’s the ultimate taboo. The pleasure doesn’t come from the idea of death, but the fact that you’re so fat that even the smallest tasks are impossible. You sacrifice walking, eating, and even breathing to your insatiable gluttony

It’s about not having the power to stop. Being too weak to resist, even when you know you should


It’s where our greatest taboos all collide — death, getting fat, erotica, gluttony, lust, greed, unhealthiness.
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Help on halloween story?

Halloween musings and a plea for help:

I love writing feederism stories, many of which have horror aspects to them -- a beautiful witch slowly turning a house guest into a pig, a wife forcing her cheater husband into food addiction and morbid obesity, a woman serial fattener who feeds her boyfriends to death, a voluptuous succubus seducing a man to eat himself to death, a devilish voice in a woman's head making her eat and fatten, a girl making her boyfriend eat so much he "explodes", demons awaiting your demise as you get another slice of pie, as well as the usual psychological "erotic horrors" of male, female, straight and lesbian characters hopelessly unable to control their appetites for food or for their tempting partner.

Here is one story specifically about Halloween which I never finished. Please, if you get a chance, read it, and offer me suggestions. Thanks.

fantasyfeeder.com/stories/view
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I finally gave in, and it was great!

anon5665:
This post is for all of the feedees who have wanted to give in and gain, but have been too nervous, too health-conscious, etc.

I have spent the last five days doing nothing but eating fast food and drinking soda, and I am loving every minute of it.

I was always too afraid to stuff myself with nothing but what I wanted to eat, but after doing it now, I regret not starting sooner!

Go for it! You won't regret it.

syruptitious:
“It feels so good to binge…”
m.soundcloud.com/massively-fattening/so-you-wanna-be-fat-huh[/quote]

Woah! That is lovely, and she has others on there are well. Thanks for sharing this!
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Gender neutral stories

marakinsis:
I've just posted another gender-neutral story and been forced to not only pick one of two genders for the feedee, but to also assign a label to the orientation of the relationship. All labels are incorrect and now the description of my story is misleading. Please add the option for gender neutral stories.


This is from almost a year ago. The options have increased and evolved — somewhat. I have hope that the next change in options will be more inclusive for both characters and writers.

Maybe ff could set up a committee of writers to collect suggestions, then offer up a proposal for changes.

I’m not entirely happy with the options, and writers can still put info in the intros to indicate gender-neutral or other story ingredients.

Still, I find ff better than any other place to post these stories. I loved DeviantArt until they responded to homophobic complaints and removed one of my more romantic tales of young gay exploration. DA seems to allow explicit hetero content but not gay erotica.

Anyway, I see the ff team struggling to make things better. Let’s encourage them and keep offering suggestions. Ultimately, we all want to serve the readers here and make it easier for them to find enjoyable stories.
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