Talking to not talking.

Wow, some good points made on this thread and I agree entirely. I have pretty much let the one who added and deleted me on FB go by now and it hasn't been long at all. Though the question in my mind was why she added me in the first place. Of course, she told me that she thought that I was cute and that I seemed nice. I guess she only deleted me for reasons only she knows.

All I can say is that she probably wasn't worth it to begin with.
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Where will you be...

Hopefully having a full time job and maybe married or something. Need to work on where my life is right now, though. Anything can happen.
13 years

Talking to not talking.

Well, I am not particularly bothered by it now. All I can say is that the weird thing about the most recent one added me and deleted me after a week seemed like she was interested in getting to know me and I think I might have said something that wasn't remotely offensive that might have killed her interest in me. Then after only a week she decided to delete me. The weird part is that she added me and then she was the one who deleted me.

I said forget her. Besides, she lived a little too far from me, anyway.
13 years

Talking to not talking.

If the subject line allowed me to put more words, I would be more clear on the subject.

Have you ever talked to someone, like say if you start off as friends or seeing if there is potential in dating/relationship and then the person just decides not to talk to you, like if he/she ignores you?

I have some examples of this. Last year, I met this girl on POF and we talked a lot and then came when we finally met up. After that, she stopped returning my calls and texts. After that, I just said forget her. I know I could have handled our meeting better, but at least she could have said something about not wanting to talk to me.

It would hurt A LOT less if I knew what I did to deserve such treatment rather than be ignored. Girls think they're sparing a guy's feelings, but they are wrong about that.

Also, recently, though I am not too hurt by this, but it still baffles me. I met this girl on Facebook because she was a mutual friend of someone. She added me and thought that I was cute and that I seemed nice. She gave me her number and I texted her for a little bit. I was just trying to see where this might go. I texted her a few times, so it's not like I went full on stalker/desperate mode where I sent texts or made calls every five minutes. Just made a few a day and that was it.

And then today, she deleted me off of Facebook. I am not angry or sad about it but I am a little confused about it. I sent her a last text saying that if she wanted me to delete her off of my contacts and stop texting her, I will. She told me yes and then responded with "Okay, I understand." Like I said, it's one thing to make calls and/or texts after every hour, but mine weren't that much and it wasn't borderline annoying (I don't know about her perspective) and I was a very understanding person and said that I would leave her alone if she wanted me to. A difference a week makes.

Okay, has any of you ever talked to anybody to flatout not talking to that person ever again?
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How do you deal when someone..

Well, I don't know about friendships, but there have been girls who I have talked to who just flat out stop texting or calling without telling me why. They just choose to ignore me until I give up.

I have a few examples of this and one of them is very recent. This girl added me on Facebook about a week ago. She was mutual friends with some other girl and she added me because she thought that I seemed nice and she thought that I was cute. We texted each other for a little bit and then today, she deleted me. That is kind of a record in talking to someone and to just not wanting to talk to someone. It's not like I blew up her phone or anything. I texted a few times but I didn't go overboard. Well, considering that it was only for a week, I'm like "whatever." It's her loss. I can totally understand if I blew up her phone or gave her 10 texts in one day to no avail, but that wasn't the case. Again, it's her loss.
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Currently listening to?

I have been thinking of songs from Joe lately. Here is another one from him. It's called "All The Things (That's Your Man Won't Do)."

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Currently listening to?

"Faded Pictures"- Case and Joe

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Say something nice ...

She has a very cute belly.
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