I’m pretty sure my exbf was into this also… we never had an explicit conversation about it tho…

But one thing I love was the way he touched and responded to my body. It wasn’t overboard just authentic.

His encouragement, from appreciating the dresses I wore or reassuring me when I doubted I should wear certain clothing, to the physical touching, the way he overall treated me as a partner he respected and loved, enthusiastically wanting to fix me something to eat if I said I was hungry, bringing me my favorite snacks… all of that played a roll is helping me feel happy and secure.

I think if you have a secure relationship with her that a conversation won’t hurt either…

If she does mention losing weight against I’d ask point blank if she is saying that because that is what she thinks she’s supposed to say or if she genuinely feels that way and let her know you’re only asking because you support her no matter what and you have positive feelings about her gaining and that you’d be happy to have a more in depth conversation about that IF she ever wants to know more…

And then listen to how she’s genuinely feeling about it. Ask clarifying questions that encourage her to reflect on if it’s societies feelings or HER feelings.

Mostly just continue to love her.

I love contrast in a lot of different forms.

I will say when I was skinny I really didn’t vibe with skinny/thin men. It was like cuddling with a pile of remote controls…

Now that I’m fat I have enough fluff for the both of us and I like the ways our bodies tend to fit together.

I’m much more attracted to a person’s personality and character tho and so body type isn’t a deal breaker for me.

I’m too shy to do this where I live but when I was in NYC visiting it was nice to wear more revealing tight things I’ve outgrown!

Doja Cat, she makes me want to eat!

I definitely have moods like this. It’s something I like to visit more than live in tho.

From a regular partner that I’m around a lot I want compliments and praise for being fat and getting fatter… and prefer compliments for being a dumb pretty toy. Where they love having me on their arm and showing me off…

But from occasional play partners I like the harsher humiliation. Where they would be embarrassed to be seen with me. That they find me disgusting and unworthy and just get off on being abusive and I deserve it for being so fat and ugly.

I don’t exactly like mixing the two with the same person.

Maybe if they said something like other people think I’m a fat filthy cow but they think I’m beautiful and irresistible… that’d be hot.

Sorry I got so caught up thinking about it… I forgot my point about doing it to oneself… Oops! Dummy!

But why stop at just the belly button?! Why not use any and all creases of fat the same way.😉

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I feel like this.

I think it’s one reason I like taking pictures!

Like I often don’t feel like I look fat but seeing myself I’m like woah!

Belly rubs and a sexy distraction!

But as soon as it went away he just stuffed me with another donut so it didn’t work for long. 🤔😉😍

These are some of my favorite ideas too!

Ugh, not having to think too hard and just be obedient and eat and be pretty and fun... the dream!