There are foods that soak up water and expand but I don't think they would take up more room than they do as separate ingredients.

Also you have the discomfort of eating raw food...

Its possible to enjoy the occasional binge without getting fat, just takes a little planning. Actually you could eat a ton of cabbage or something and gain nothing from it but still have a bloated full belly.

I've walked around in public with a very full stomach a few times and it got a lot of attention, pretty embarrassing but still fun.

I believe it does happen but only after repeated stuffings over a long period of time. In the shorter term (months) you'll find you can eat more but I think this has more to do with you becoming desensitized to feeling so full.

If there was a pill that would turn you into a female overnight I would take it without hesitation.

But I wouldn't want to be a guy with tits or whatever. Ask any guy with gyno how much he likes it.

Pretty much this but with a few changes
And with me as the monster...

Valentines day isn't much of a holiday if you ask me. Its another one of those corporate-type holidays where everyone suggests you blow your money on marked up plants or shiny rocks.

This is common in almost every online fetish-based culture.

The problem stems from the fact that as a whole, there are many more single men than single women. This is because as a man, you are expected to go out into the world and prove your worth to a mate. This means the internet is full of many more lonely men than lonely women. Its natural selection and women choose who breeds and who starves.

Beyond that, men are much more accommodating to a woman's particular kinks. A guy that isn't into feederism is much more willing to eat more and/or gain weight for a woman because at the end of the day he knows he's getting laid anyway. If you ask a woman that isn't into feederism to eat and get fat she is much more apprehensive to the idea (not to say it doesn't happen). Why would she bother with such a thing when she has 5 other "guy friends" lined up ready to date that have no such weirdo fantasies?

I've been around the scene for a pretty long time now and I have only spoken to one local female that shared this interest. The odds really aren't stacked in your favor, I suggest you look for a girl not into the fantasy and maybe exchange fantasies with her.

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When I was young my mother was big on dieting and fat in general. She constantly talked down about fat people and put herself on strict diets, and ensured I ate healthy as well. It was pretty much constant during my early years.
I ended up with a vore/giant fetish sometime around the age of 5 so I was already somewhat "belly-centric." Up through childhood I remember feeling a strange guilty sensation if I overate or touched my stomach so I avoided the two.

Then around the age of 12 I happened upon a vore/inflation/wg site called stuffedonline. A lot of the content involved drawn images of women with large, full bellies and I started finding it really sexy. I tried stuffing myself a little around this time but didn't take it seriously until around 16.

Yes I have thought about it. I'm into stuffing and its a big enough part of my life to mean finding a relationship where the person would be against it would probably be a dealbreaker.

Males are much more accepting of odd kinks and sexual quirks than females are. This means that they can find a boyfriend anywhere and connect on a romantic level while still playing along with her sexual needs. Finding a female that will oblige you in the same is very difficult but you have a much better chance of finding an open minded girl than you have of finding one that is actually into the same things you are.

If you're looking for a real relationship you should probably stop bothering with the fetish sites and use regular dating strategies.