i own like 3 dresses ive had for 9 years i never change out of. like they have holes and are stretched. So realistically if you never take them off they WILL adjust.

You all have such nice lives though :{ I live with people who destroy my cltohes so i have nothing to purge

Danville, VA on the NC boarder. So Durham, Raleigh, and Greensboro area too.

I have pretty bad body issues because i have a B Belly and lipedema. So from age FIVE my parents called me fat, starved me, etc because I was given genetics to give me a B belly that I could not control.

As i got older I stopped skipping weeks of not eating and got on a set schedule where i eat normally and healthily and this is the weight i am supposed to be naturally. I yoyo but i dont do it on purpose.

So Yes, i feel bad a lot about my body. My roommate who gained 100lbs even worsens it with telling me im shaped like the Michelin man, Pointing out if i look extra big or bloated, etc . It is a constant struggle. Especially knowing my stomach and upper arms are not changable due to being effected by lipodema and the rest of me thinner and making me look odd. (aka i got fat in the worst parts that society hates)

Well now im curious but i am going to guess its dependent on your attention here, so if you are well known you can earn more ^_^

I am apparently in the opposing opinion. I am fat, i have always been fat, i have lipodema so maybe it is because of that.

You can be fit and fat. I am not weak, i used to walk 2-3 hours a day, 10k steps minimum. I can work and go all day. I can lift semi okay heavy things. I dont run because... no... but i like being able to do things, especially when people assume i cannot because i am fat.

So no XD I do not want to be helpless, i want to be powerful. I want people to never hurt me again.

Is it safe? I am semi local and have had a bad bad time in nc, like everyone super mean, do you run the event, is it safe and vetted? Is it well lit sort of thing, etc.

This sounds like fanfiction.
Obviously if it bothers her you should put your boner aside and do whats right. Admitting you were turned on as she was upset is mortifying. This isnt the flex you think it is.

I have a B belly. V_V

Are you kidding? There are even tiktoks of men asking women if he were skinny would they like him; all said they prefer him now.

Women like thick men, men with dad bods, men with a big belly to keep them warm at night.

Sounds like you only want skinny women, you know by the fact you specified it. And atop that you need to have a wonderful personality as that matters more to most femmes than looks.

I am not even a FEEDER and my roommate gained 100lbs living with me as he discovered flavour, we naturally love to feed people as its our culture in most ethnicities and communities. We love to nurture and feed even if NOT in the lifestyle.

So please , no offense, open your eyes and realize it is not physicality's that prevent women from wanting you ;P

Mine is modeling pics
I just made one ^_^
www.deviantart.com/spikeisazombie