Hey everyone I wanted to make a fun little thread about what made you decide on your username? Especially if there’s a little story/lore behind it? I look forward to reading everyone’s stories.
Here’s mine:
So the “JN” part is my first two legal initials. I’m not gonna reveal them unless someone is actually interested in getting to know me more than just a casual user on FF.
The “TumLover” is pretty obvious because I love love bellies… maybe just too much! 😅 It’s been something that I’ve always liked them for a long while now probably since I was a kid. Can it also be a reason why I’m not married by now? I guess we’ll find out.
As for the “56” part is really random. It was just a number that came up in my brain. Plus my basketball character in a game I was playing had a number 56 on his jersey at the time so that might have something to do with that.
9 months
I think from my experience, yeah I think I do like contrast. Even for me being a skinny-jimmy my whole life I always enjoy the company while dating a BBW, especially if it’s happens to be my partner. I especially like when their belly smothers all over mine when cuddling, kissing or a mix of both. 😅
I have also fantasize about a pretend couple in my head when the man is smaller while the woman is larger. Hell, sometimes even I do something similar when playing The Sims!
So yeah I guess I can confirm that I like a good contrast. 👍
9 months
I try not to get involved with drama. But if you really want to lose weight for yourself, that’s fine. But it also sounds like you might want to seek out some sort of therapy to help you feel better. It’s not really a good idea to start treating others like garbage, if you are fatphobic you are pathetic. F.A.C.T.S
9 months
BurningSquare:
I've been wondering this myself because I am straight, I've never had a crush on a guy or been attracted to skinny guys but there are some fat guys that have turned me on before.
Seemingly I'm sexually attracted to women and fat; any male specific features (e.g. a hairy belly) tend to turn me off, but that's not the case for female specific features.
Thinking about this does make me wonder where do you draw the line between fetish and sexuality... or is this just because the body shapes of fat guys and girls tend to share more similarities than if they were skinny
I like that answer! It seems pretty thought out in a way.
10 months
AskDrFeeder:
One of the downsides of getting fat is the social stigma.
I've always thought the best way to deal with that is to make fat friends, and possibly to dump thin friends.
Has anyone done this?
Has it helped?
Is it easier to make fat friends than thin ones?
BigBallBellyGirl:
Ehhh, I've always been fat, and I was outgoing in school, so I seemed to find my crew pretty easily. I also had friends among the thin popular group. I think because I was so unabashedly myself, I wasn't too much of a target for teasing. It's hard to tease someone who either doesn't care or enjoys it
As an adult, I'm by far the fattest of our social group. One friend was probably 160-175 and got into fitness. She is now super lean. Another blew up when he got a desk job and now sports a big pot belly. They're still the same people they've always been though, and my weight doesn't really come up unless we are going somewhere as a group, and they want to make sure I would be okay in the physical setting.
Sounds like you are lucky to have such great and loyal friends!
10 months
Personally, having just ONE is good enough in my experience/opinion. 👍
10 months
JN_TumLover56:
So this might be sounding like a weird question. But let me see if I can explain more clearly:
Now I am still very much into women especially when it comes towards the belly stuff with Feederism as a side effect. However I have had moments where I’ve seen a chunkier guy who does have some flair. Or sometimes I see bellies from men where I’m like “Mhm! Nice!”.
Though at this rate it seems like everyone is fair game. Especially when we’re talking about the queer side of things. And who knows, maybe I’m actually bi-curious but haven’t confirmed it. 😅
So yeah hopefully people can understand what I am trying to say and look forward to hearing from what others would say!
FAMGM:
I’m attracted to fat - whether it’s on male, female, or some other gender.
Having said that, I’m aware of some slight differences in how that attraction works.
When I look at a fat male body, there’s a high degree of imagined “transference” - I imagine myself in their body, experiencing what it would be like to carry their fat.
When I look at a fat female body, “transference” is very limited, and I’m more attracted to interacting with their fat externally from experiencing *being* them.
Ahh very interesting way to think about that. But I can see where you are coming from! 👍
10 months
For me it’s the subtle stuff. Like when they stretch out to a point where their belly button shows. Or if they even walk around with their belly button showing. That would be something that would me me going sometimes.
10 months
Well perhaps not the most random of strangers has asked me. But there was one person I went on a date with someone who did offered me to touch their stomach. Which is a first from my experience. 😅
But they knew about the fact that I liked bellies before the date and they seemed to like that. So I guess that’s always a great start!
10 months
My favourite position is pretty much being on the bottom. I like a nice view of one’s belly, especially when they play with it and I get to watch!
I’m normally open to trying out others, but being the the bottom is what I seem to enjoy the most. 👍
10 months
