Seems like I can’t win no matter how much I try to counter you, even if I may have a point. Anyways I’m going to head out to touch grass now. Highly recommend! 💯

You know I actually do agree with this in some way shape or form. Because I can relate from my own experiences.

A recent example (even if it was a few months ago) I talked to a girl who was plus size and very much my type. And she also appreciates the fact that I am into women like her, even the belly attraction thing of mine. However because she was in the process of losing weight she told me that she’s very against this fetish. I respected her decision and told her that I am not into it anymore as I used to, I want to like her for her and not her body.

It didn’t end up working out, but it’s behind me now. What I am trying to say is that many plus size women (or any women really) don’t like to be a fetish whatsoever. Especially when someone is only interested in their features and nothing else. Women are not objects and should never be so! But if someone doesn’t really need any sexual tension, they are more likely to be ahead of everyone else who do.

I have made a comment previously where I mentioned that some people do despise feedism. It’s something that someone in this should have awareness about. Of course, people do have their preferences but if it’s in a perspective of a fetish… that’s when it could get problematic.

Ahh… sure you can say that. It’s like when I am saying a “softie” I’m trying to say as to describe someone who is humble and kind or even down to earth. Instead of someone who’s very uptight to a point where they come off as a rough person.

I’m essentially saying something similar to what you said earlier but saying it in my own way y’know?

That wasn’t what I was referring to. I was talking about more of a personality type way. As in that you have to be tough and boss-like in a world where people want to bring you down. Or perhaps being such a technical strictly person that always has some sort of edge to them.

Strange metaphor but yeah.

Woah, why did almost everything you said intrigued me a bit?

I think I have heard that it’s a long the lines of being a softie compared to someone who has a strong face and sturdy. If that’s one way to say it?

If this means critical thinking then yes. I’ve done plenty of that and try to acknowledge opinions from both sides to gain some awareness. The responsibility ain’t easy, but it’s for the better to carve out your own path for what you want to believe in.

Well I’m all for doing better for learning from my whoopsie daisies. However I also have heard that when it comes to hate comments some people would rather consider them as “critically truthful” comments. Not like that has anything to do with this conversation, but it’s an interesting thought.

Ahh I see. I always seem to get that confused when it comes the term of “Ebony”.

At this rate, maybe saying “confidence” wasn’t the right thing to say. Perhaps mental state or something along the lines of being slapped in the face for realizing that everything I thought that I believed in was a lie and delusion. Or something like that.

Either way you can’t keep beating the horse that’s already dead.

Oh by the way, did you mean “BBW Ebony” as in African American BBW? Or is it THE Ebony herself?

Happy to oblige. 👍