Pro-fat songs

I missed Whole lotta Rosie AC/DC in the list. And there is a whole bunch of docter Scott songs on daily motion and mayby on youtube. And don't forget It's raining men by The weather Girls, probably not immediately a fat girlsong, but performed by ......
Succes with your playlist.
12 years

Weight gain powder

MisteryLover wrote:
I'm looking for this too. I would like to know if these products (like Incredible Quick Weight Gain 5000) are good for fattening too, because I want to actually add fat to my girl's frame, not make her bulky or muscular lol.


I hope she knows your preference and it is you supporting her gaining... At first sight your search for products looks like secret feeding... I hope I'm wrong..
12 years

Being ashamed of your fetish

I have found myself in the same feelings, but made in highschool the 'mistake' to say to my friends which girls I found attractive, like they did... And I just was honest to them when I said a chubbier girls name...

I was bullied for 2 years after that... Just for being open and not fitting in the mainstreem... Attough no one told frankly it was because of my attraction, but related comments ect..It ended when I had to double a year... It was a relief...lol

From that it took a while to admit to myself being a feeder... I found out when I got on the internet and was sure about my feelings when I found this site and seeing my wife slightly gain, unintentionally.

I didn't dare to speak out for a long time, not wanting to loose my wife because of my preference and kept it as a fantasyworld. But after 14y marriage I told her my true fetish, now she calls it my fattish, and suprisingly, she didn't reject it at all. She's not a feedee, but a true foodee, that loves her food and likes to carry the sideeffects of it for me... Now I don't feel ashamed anymore, in a pub I'm respected for my preferences for the bigger and the regulars know me. No strange reactions at all... They see my wife and I'm proud of her. But offcourse, I don't share the sexuality of it in public, just like nobody talks about their bedstories... I'm over the shame and it feels lovely.
12 years

Say something nice ...

awesome person, a very good friend.
12 years

All my girlfriends get fat

chubbyhoney wrote:
Stefanydiwilmette wrote:
I liked the post.

I see no difference between and a woman who gains weight with a feeder and a woman who gains weight with a guy who is not a feeder, except that the feeder enjoys it. How many women in America have gotten fat without a feeder? Half the population, I would estimate.


So... your only thoughts are on whether the man enjoys it. You're not concerned whether the woman - the one you should be focussing on in a secret feeding scenario - enjoys it or not, or even if it is consensual.

Some men love secretly feeding a woman they know doesn't want to gain, they get off on it. Some men love seeing a woman gain then leave her for a thin woman so they can get off on it all over again, leaving a much fatter and unhappy ex-partner. People gain weight for all sorts of reasons and most don't want to - we're in the tiny minority here.

If you're a feeder and choose not to tell your partner and instead try to influence her to gain weight, you're a dishonest, manipulative and duplicitous person. Saying you're 'just a bad influence' is trying to justify your dishonesty to yourself so you don't have to acknowledge what you are doing is very wrong, even controlling and abusive.


I think there is a huge difference between don't like to gain and don't mind to gain... And to be honest those who don't mind to gain can be very sorry after a relationship has ended... I love the gain of a woman, but be very sure in the love of her for you and her liking to gain... only in that case it can improve your relationship.
12 years

Location shout outs part 2

Near Groningen, Netherlands
12 years