1. Do you ever regret it?
So far I haven’t. I’ve been very back and forth about it in the past but now I’ve been doing it with little to no regret. I just accept that what I want isn’t to appeal to what standards or expectations others have for me.
2. Do you frequently regret it?
Same answer above
3. Do you have mixed feelings about it?
Sometimes my feelings get a little messy, but I always reassure myself I’m not trying to appeal to other peoples standards, I am my own human and can do what I want.
4. If you had it to do over, would you still do it?
Like lose the weight and gain it back? Yes! That sounds like fun! What an exciting trip that would be to see my body changing in crazy ways.
5. If you had it to do over, would you have started gaining even sooner?
If I knew my feelings about being confident for who I am, then yes, I would’ve become my own man sooner and done what makes me happy, which is gaining.
6. Do you plan to gain more in the future, stay the same or lose weight? Or are you just going to see what happens?
I’m currently still in the gaining process, I’m at 195lbs just started, but I hope to get to 250lbs, I don’t want to ruin my life with too much weight or ruin my health, I plan to gain a belly and stop there, and just have occasional fun with stuffing myself.
11 months
So TRUE!! I've seen so many feedee's get harassed and bullied publicly for enjoying their life their way (Example: Mochii Babii). Tbh everyone is that popular group of people at school that are so above everyone else and think they have any right to judge or talk down to you. You'll get judged for having too much weight, too little weight, too big or small of boobs butt tights arms, having a face that everyone doesn't think is pretty, looking too sad, happy, angry, liking certain things, having too much or too little money, being pregnant or just had been pregnant, literally anything that you might like or are born with that you can't change, everyone can judge you. It's fucking stupid. And even if these things make you happy or you're proud of them, nobody cares, all they care about is that they express their hatred and try to act like they have any change in your life.
That is why I recently said "fuck it" and started my path to be a feedee, cause I can't make every person's world perfect for them, so I might as well make mine perfect.
Sorry for the ramble, I'm so happy to see other like-minded peeps share the same opinion about this.
11 months
Hell yeah! That’s great to hear that you’re loving your new weight! It’s always awesome and exciting to see new people discovering their new love and passion for becoming a feedee!
I just started gaining recently, I thought it’d be fun to go crazy annd experience and experiment with feedism.
11 months
BBWcreator82:
Charge a dollar for every story.
It would encourage the talented writers to write more and an better stories.
Split each dollar. Half goes for the site, half for the author. If people learned that if they are talented enough they can make some cash they might come back as well!
Sure the site is great, but people do put a lot of effort into it with writing, stories, videos and pictures and they too never ask for anything in return.
The site expects everyone to pay for stuff and it generally treats people as the product. You want to talk to more people, pay more, you want to do this and that with more people, pay more.
It's not a lot of money, sure, but it's like paying for a lottery ticket. You might get lucky but more often than not its a bust.
I would think that if you had a chance to make some money for the stuff you put into the site, you'd really want a chance to try it and I imagine lots of people would come here.
Of course there would have to be a standard of quality for the stories you paid for vs the ones that would remain free.
This could be a great help to the site and the community both.
People aren't willing to pay for the big upgrades. Maybe they'll be willing to support their favorite authors instead.
Payments could be made once a month or something like that.
But quality would be extremely important. Who ever controls that would have a heck of a lot of work to do
FF needs some kind of an edge if it is to keep on living.
This could help out.
Providing we could get people to part with their dollars.
:-D
Also, Video Chat. I've never been to a website that made you pay to view other people's cams in a chat room besides this one.
I think bringing that back would make people happy.
Also, games. We literally need something to do a reason to come back so maybe we can look into making a casual E-sport FF team for Mobas and what not across all the platforms to meet once or twice a week, that could be fun to organize.
Or make our own RPG system. I used to RP in a place called Dragonsmark. I know Role playing is popular here. Maybe some organization on that front. People would show up more if they had a character to maintain.
Community projects. Not sure for ideas on this yet but I think we need to try to include as many as we can on community wide projects..maybe a movie, or releasing another book. I know we did something like that but I don't know how it went.
Maybe themed events. Different months, different things to do.
Participation is the heart of any community and if we only come on here to go into the chat room and act like robots, it's all pretty pointless.
Also, put the shouts back on the main page like it used to be.
I don't know why they were ever hidden to their own separate page but I think that was a bad idea.
Literally every word you said I completely 100% agree with! This site feels difficult sometimes to remember to return to, but with everything you’re suggesting, this site would be a community hub possible! Like a version of new grounds or something. I love the idea of paying creators for the work they do as long as its quality. I personally haven’t paid a penny to the overpriced upgrades, I’m not on here enough for them to even be worth it, but if I knew creators (of games, stories, etc) would be getting that money, I’d pay a subscription or something in a heartbeat!
I also love the idea of games! So far any feedism games are porn related, but I can’t express how obsessed I am with the idea of a regular normal fun adventure filled feedism game that was just enjoyable and not arousing.
Literally anything to bring the community together would be a huge win, and you’re talking about everything that would make it all work! That’s all I’ve ever wanted for this community too
11 months
With weight gain I know there are a lot of things that need to be taken care of, knees, back, healthy body function, etc. I don’t want to struggle and feel miserable if I gain weight and put my life at risk, so I want to keep working my body while gaining weight. Is yoga good to stay in good health or would the gym be better?
The gym environment just kind of stresses me out, I could easily do yoga at home.
11 months
I’m wanting to pack on some pounds, but I don’t want to go in blindly with raw force in eating as much as possible. Should I look to consuming as high in calories as I can, or eat just more often throughout the day, or a mixture of both? I also don’t want to fill my body with crazy unhealthy foods, occasionally I might wanna have a night to go crazy with McDonald’s, but I’m sure that can’t be an everyday thing. I also occasionally like to drink a gainer shake, though if it’s more recommended to use that to gain weight I might take it more routinely.
What are some methods of gain weight for yall?
11 months
Idk how many people know about feabie, but it's basically like twitter mixed with Instagram. I've had my share of fun on there
12 months
Gonna have to go with Minecraft
12 months
Medication does sound like it'll help skip the work to expand your appetite and help do it sooner, but (like some people have already said), that's not to say you by your self can't expand your appetite by eating a little more every day and trying to expand your capacity with specific foods.
It's good that you checked in here first, a lot of these people can give legitimate advice and alternatives.
12 months
