The art of bondage and feeding

ShadowMike:
Why are you like this?

Nerdyplumper:
your post history sounds like an incels please don't look at my profile Mike


Oh, he is most certainly an incel. And he takes particular ire at me because I refuse to take him seriously.

If you think this is bad, you should have seen the things he posted on his previously deleted accounts.
2 months

My perspective. feabie vs. fantasy feeder

PrincessOmelette:
First of all - ''cis'' is no insult. It is a completely normal and neutral term to closer describe someone's relation to their gender. It is the counterpart of ''trans'' and just like ''trans'' it is an adjective. ''cis'' stands for people where the gender assigned at birth aligns with their actual gender. ''trans'' stands for people where it doesn't align with their actual gender.

And ''biological male/woman'', although it may have its place in science - in social context it is a wrong and invalidating term. Because at the same time you call yourself biological, you tell the world that trans people are not biological. Which they are. This term is usually used by transphobes and right winged humans.

So, in your case, if you want to describe your gender, just say "man", or if you want to convey the additional information "cis man".

Also I recommend you to read up on the topic and usage of language regarding it. To not hurt or dehumanize others in the future.

Munchies:
Never met a person who thought "cis" was an insult that wasn't also transphobic.

Edddde:
I did not say it is an insult. Ler me make myself clear. I was just reflecting my experience on Feabie as compared to Fantasy Feeder. ---A "cis male" or "cisgender male" is a person who was assigned male at birth and identifies with the male gender, aligning their gender identity with their biological sex.


My guy, I have what you originally wrote. Like, kudos on you for realizing you were being out of pocket, but let's not pretend you weren't being out of pocket.

I'm sorry that you dealt with being picked on by trans people on Feabie; the way you're going about expressing this grievance is making it seem that their behavior is endemic to trans people. And that's what PrincessOmelette was getting at.

Also, what beef do you have with labels? Do you not see that the same talking points you have about queer identities are the same talking points people have against kinksters like yourself? I'm so serious. You could take your average anti-trans or other queer identity talking point, compare it to how the vanilla crowd talks about us, and it's the same conversation.
2 months

My perspective. feabie vs. fantasy feeder

Edddde:
Trans people on Feabie tend not to be tolerant of people who identify as biological males and refer to them as "CIS":males. If it doesn't matter what you identify as why do the trans people get so offended. Here's what CIS means---A "cis male" or "cisgender male" is a person who was assigned male at birth and identifies with the male gender, aligning their gender identity with their biological sex.

PrincessOmelette:
First of all - ''cis'' is no insult. It is a completely normal and neutral term to closer describe someone's relation to their gender. It is the counterpart of ''trans'' and just like ''trans'' it is an adjective. ''cis'' stands for people where the gender assigned at birth aligns with their actual gender. ''trans'' stands for people where it doesn't align with their actual gender.

And ''biological male/woman'', although it may have its place in science - in social context it is a wrong and invalidating term. Because at the same time you call yourself biological, you tell the world that trans people are not biological. Which they are. This term is usually used by transphobes and right winged humans.

So, in your case, if you want to describe your gender, just say "man", or if you want to convey the additional information "cis man".

Also I recommend you to read up on the topic and usage of language regarding it. To not hurt or dehumanize others in the future.

Munchies:
Never met a person who thought "cis" was an insult that wasn't also transphobic.

Edddde:
We have freedom of speech and often what people identify as influences their understanding of what a person considers themself to be. The problem is people are prone to labels, From a social work perspective labels shouldn't be important. Everyone is entitled to an opinion so I will keep it at that.


2 months

My perspective. feabie vs. fantasy feeder

Edddde:
Trans people on Feabie tend not to be tolerant of people who identify as biological males and refer to them as "CIS":males. If it doesn't matter what you identify as why do the trans people get so offended. Here's what CIS means---A "cis male" or "cisgender male" is a person who was assigned male at birth and identifies with the male gender, aligning their gender identity with their biological sex.

PrincessOmelette:
First of all - ''cis'' is no insult. It is a completely normal and neutral term to closer describe someone's relation to their gender. It is the counterpart of ''trans'' and just like ''trans'' it is an adjective. ''cis'' stands for people where the gender assigned at birth aligns with their actual gender. ''trans'' stands for people where it doesn't align with their actual gender.

And ''biological male/woman'', although it may have its place in science - in social context it is a wrong and invalidating term. Because at the same time you call yourself biological, you tell the world that trans people are not biological. Which they are. This term is usually used by transphobes and right winged humans.

So, in your case, if you want to describe your gender, just say "man", or if you want to convey the additional information "cis man".

Also I recommend you to read up on the topic and usage of language regarding it. To not hurt or dehumanize others in the future.


Never met a person who thought "cis" was an insult that wasn't also transphobic.
2 months

Have you ever been fed or fed anyone in public ?

BigBallBellyGirl:
I've both stuffed myself in public and been fed many many times. When I was gaining, my now-husband and I would frequently go out to eat after I had already stuffed either at home or on fast food on the way. We'd order multiple appetizers, entrees, and dessert, and I'd eat 90 percent of it. We'd be reasonably discreet, and he'd only hand-feed me a few bites here and there. It was most fun back when I was 300-325 pounds, because I was already fat enough to draw attention, but still small enough to see my belly visibly bulge out. Once, we caught a server's attention when he poked my gut, which had grown hard and tight from my indulgence. Good times.


Sounds like fun!
2 months

Have you ever been fed or fed anyone in public ?

Thatguywhofedme:
Just wanted to know how many of you have experienced being fed / feeding someone in public

Whether it's in full view of anyone or in a more sneaky way

For me most of the times were in the back of a car, in a mostly busy parking lot and the thrill of knowing we could get caught was so exciting

Especially while my feedees belly was out, sauce around their cheeks while stuffing them until they can't get up from the back seat was such a turn on


My partner and I keep it more low-key out in public, but I do feed him. I hand-feed him and sometimes rub his belly. It's nice.
2 months