Dreezy:
Is this possible? If so would it be difficult to do? I’m currently 190lbs and would like to be about 220lbs by the end of the year.

Would appreciate info! Especially from experienced gainers!

Thanks!


Munchies:
Is it possible? Yes. Is it easy to achieve? It depends.

For context, you'd have to gain 10 lbs a month or 2.5 lbs a week. While that is something you can do, the tricky part is consistent gains. It's easy for some, but hard for others.

Manage your expectations, but feel free to push yourself. Have fun and stay safe!

Dreezy:
Geez, sound challenging…..honestly not really sure what managing my expectations looks like haha. I’m pretty new at this…….what would be a realistic goal?

Jakub197:
Can feederism make me feel less fat than I actually am?

Dreezy:
Is this possible? If so would it be difficult to do? I’m currently 190lbs and would like to be about 220lbs by the end of the year.

Would appreciate info! Especially from experienced gainers!

Thanks!

MlekoWTubce:
Thanks for response.
Tbh no, i ve never talked with therapist in my life. This problem is purely sexual and i think im too embarassed to talk abt it now with therapist

MlekoWTubce:
Hi everyone, I’m really struggling and hoping to get advice from people who might understand. I’m a 24M feeder in a 7-year relationship with my partner 24F. I love her deeply – she’s beautiful, we connect emotionally, and she means the world to me. I’ve never cheated on her and never would; I’m fully committed to her and our relationship. But my feederism fetish is causing serious problems, and I feel completely lost. My partner used to have some extra weight – not morbidly obese, just overweight – and I found her body incredibly attractive. Sex was great (we both came every time)

A while ago, she started losing weight for health and personal reasons, going from overweight to a slimmer figure. I respect her choice completely, as I want her to be healthy and happy. However, her smaller body doesn’t align with my preferences, and I struggle to stay aroused during intimacy. This isn’t about her as a person. She’s still gorgeous, with a beautiful face, and I’m as in love with her as ever. But my fetish is very specific to fuller shapes, and I can’t seem to get past the changes in her body. It’s affecting our sex life, and I’m worried it’s pulling us apart.

We’ve tried talking about it, but it went badly. She got very upset, called my fetish “disgusting,” and said I’m “sick” for wanting her to be bigger. She also mentioned that other guys find her attractive, which really hurt. Her reaction left me feeling guilty and ashamed, but I still can’t change how i feel.

I’m not interested in an open relationship, and I’d never pressure her to gain weight – I respect her autonomy and want her to feel good about herself. But I’m scared that if she keeps losing weight, I’ll never feel sexually satisfied again, and I don’t want to lose her because she’s so important to me.

Has anyone else been in a similar situation? How did you handle a partner’s weight loss when it clashed with your feederism fetish? Were you able to find a compromise, or did it lead to a breakup? Any tips on how to talk to her without hurting her further? I’m desperate to make this work, but I feel stuck.Thanks for reading – I’d really appreciate any thoughts, experiences, or advice from others who’ve been through this.

TL;DR: 24M feeder in a 7-year relationship with 24F partner. Love her deeply, but her weight loss for health reasons clashes with my preferences, affecting our sex life. She reacted negatively when I tried discussing it, leaving me feeling guilty. I respect her autonomy and don’t want an open relationship, but I’m struggling with arousal and fear losing her. Seeking advice on handling this, possibly through therapy or compromise, without hurting her further.

PuppySoleil:
Somewhat of my first time posting and I’m not exactly sure if this is the correct area to put this.
I’ve been wondering if my fellow feedees/gainers actually eat straight butter to gain weight and if they are, how much? I’m plateauing with my weight and I’m trying to figure out easy and quick ways to help.

KyleFatty:
I’ve been actively gaining weight now for 2 months. I used to eat relatively normal, with the occasional stuffing on random days.

But this last week I’ve just been constantly eating everything and stuffing myself any chance I get! I just can’t stop eating!! I’ve been noticing more subtle changes in my body aswell. Next weeks weigh in I’m hoping for a jump!

Sipider74:
Hi , How are you all doing? I'm new and I need to take things off my chest And I think this is a safe heaven to say it please don't judge me before I say anything. Since I was five years old I dressed up as a fat person I always did it privately, In the beginning It was only progress over years . T shirt and pillows when I was little boy.. I was 12 I saw a lady in red Very large lady. in Queens NY. At that time I said to my friend but he wasn't interested but I was hooked ever since I always large ladies. My question Does other people do this. Now I'm 50 years old and still do it in privacy time but I ruin a lot of closets when doing it It's a sickness of mine. I don't know how to stop It's really embarrassed 50 years life. say this but I kept this to myself my whole life My mom and dad had an idea They saw me a couple time but they knew it was just a phase My parents died and they're gone and I still do it on a private time. Are there other men that does this I really want a large lady to understand about my fetish if I meet that person and I always love large ladies because of this. Please don't judge me It's really embarrassing, My friends don't know this The only person I told in my lifetime was my therapist and she understood it and she told me there are other people that does this behaviors Please don't judge me.

MyBigGut:
Since the spooky season of Halloween is now upon us, let me your thoughts on your favorite candies, and how much of it?

MaryK:
I am out here looking for someone that can feed me fat. I’m size 17 and I want to grow to size 32

FatBottomFrau102:
So I'm still super new here, it's very possible I just haven't found the right corner of the site yet.
Any who, I'm noticing very seldom home cooking and meal prep are discussed as a whole.
I'm a huge Foodie on top of being a Gainer. I love cooking and baking. I'm so excited for this time of year and making all sorts of great food and eating it of course lol.

So I guess my questions are, where are my fellow home cooks/bakers at? What are some of your go-to dishes, especially this time of year?