Ladies safety (trans welcome)

Urchie:
There's a lot of men here will just dm me about my "princess wand" and it disgusts me. If people make sexual moves on you without consent, even online, I would definitely recommend staying away from them.


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2 weeks

Weight gain help with pills

Wannabe_tubby:
hi everyone, i’ve decided i want to start taking appetite enhancer pills to help get my hunger up to eat more. anyone on here try any? and if so what do you recommend? i live in the US but can get ones from out of the country if able


Keep away from those. The side effects are not worth it.

You are better off systematically stretching out your stomach via bloats and/or stuffings.
2 weeks

Transformation fetish

Munchies:
Yo-yoing messes you up, yeah. Ironically makes you fatter in the long run.

JN_TumLover56:
So I have heard of that. But that’s also interesting of that last sentence too… wonder if Ms. Reiina knows exactly what she’s doing? 🤔


I think so. I remember when she posted to Youtube during her first weight loss, several commenters mentioned it. But those were her spicier videos and they are deleted off the site.
2 weeks

Ladies safety (trans welcome)

Bxbeans:
Feederism is skewed so that there are naturally more female feedees and male feeders/encouragers. I wanted a topic for ladies and other vulnerable groups to share their experiences and tip and tricks to staying safe in the kink.

I would like this topic to be a safe space. Men - we can't stop you from reading (and you might learn something) but it would be great if this could be a discussion for women and trans members.

For example, real-world ethical questions like: staying safe from abusive feeders. Consent in feeding, especially force feeding. Or if you had a feeder that was fattening you for sexual gratification without your knowledge, how close do you consider this to r*pe?


If a feeder fattens you up without your consent, this is abuse. I would consider it rape due to the sexual element.

As a female feeder, it disheartens me so much to see how many of my male counterparts do not seek out enthusiastic yeses from others. To them, "no" doesn't mean "no". It's a challenge to overcome.

It's all wrapped up in entitlement and shame. They feel entitled to having a feedee but are too chicken shit and impatient to go about it the right way.

And on that note, some of y'all need to be bashed with a steel chair. Specifically, the ones who are either in a relationship with a non-feedee or a feedee who's losing weight and are looking for ways to fatten them up. Knock it off. That's gross. You're gross. Be better.
2 weeks

Feederism gets a bad reputation online

Jigglephysicist:
This is the only way I ever see it portrayed. The feeder (usually a man) is just manipulating the feedee (usually a woman) and the feedee has zero agency. They're just a victim who's being controlled and the feeder is insecure and making them fat to trap them in the relationship. It breaks peoples' brains to think someone would actually want that.

Addiction To Chewing:
There's only two examples I can think of that go against the grain, but even then only one really breaks the mold. One is of a sapphic couple, but since one is a trans woman most people in the comments use transphobia to make it fit the narrative. The other one is a female feeder and male gainer, but most of the comments are exactly the same.[/quote]

Interesting.

As a female gainer with a male feedee, my girl experience is kinda praised. Like "You're such a good woman for standing by your man when he's this big. And you are such a good girlfriend for cooking for him."

They cannot wrap their heads around a woman purposefully fattening a man up for personal pleasure. Most of the intentional stories you hear about are from insecure women who want to make their man too ugly to cheat.
2 weeks

Feederism gets a bad reputation online

SquishMaster:
I hate how feedism stuff is always portrayed as a kind of BDSM-offshoot. Like "Oh, he's only feeding her so she'll be helpless! No other reason!"

It's like they can't even conceive of the notion that a woman would want to get fatter for fatness' sake, vs it just being a power-dynamic thing.


People see feedism as men making women fat as a way to extort power over them. This, of course not only erases mutual gainers, queer gainers, bhms, and ffas, but it also does not accurately express feedism.

Can power play be a part of it? Yes. But I find most feedists are not into any aspect of BDSM.
2 weeks

Feederism gets a bad reputation online

Masuli:
How about all Thinsinapiration crap that people are glorifying on internet & on these women over size 3 are considered obese whales by this movement.


Eugh, I can't stand that crowd. Had an iron grip that seems to be coming back.

I remember being 115 (underweight for my height of 5'7"smiley and being told I needed to lose 5 lbs because I was too heavy.
2 weeks

Feederism gets a bad reputation online

Addiction To Chewing:
Ya it was actually pretty fun. I was in the last episode they did before their re-brand and it was awesome to sit-down and talk about this stuff. Especially since the episode was about trans feedists who don't get as much coverage (ignoring that one video).


I'm being nosy. What's the one episode.

Unless it's a horror podcast or Sawbones, I don't really be listening to podcasts like that.
2 weeks

Transformation fetish

Munchies:
Ah, Reiinapop. There's a name I haven't heard in a minute. I didn't know she took another gaining break.

But yeah. I remember getting into a lot of bloating content because I loved seeing bellies transform from small to large. And I got into extreme weight gain for similar reasons.

There's something magical about being the reason behind the transformation too. It's like ... behold! Your body is my canvas, and I shall turn you into my masterpiece.

JN_TumLover56:
Ha ha! Yeah… good old Reiinapop eh?

From the way I heard about it I think she took another hiatus from the gaining is because she wanted to get more better upper body strength because she’d mentioned that she’d struggled with that during her peak weight. Who knows maybe she’ll get to her peak once more in the future, but I wouldn’t hold my breath. Besides isn’t yo-yo-ing not exactly good for ya if your body’s not used to it??


Yo-yoing messes you up, yeah. Ironically makes you fatter in the long run.
2 weeks

Feederism gets a bad reputation online

Addiction To Chewing:
I definitely think we need to create a more vibrant community of self-created media. I.e. podcasts, video series, and articles.

I mostly say this as someone who recently appeared on the podcast series Thicc Radio. It's a great show and I love the hosts, but we need more programs like that.
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Not familiar with Thicc Radio. Tell me more?
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