Morbidly A Beast:
Be around a group of guys for long enough eventually the topic of fetishes/what you like comes up, and I’ll be honest it’s been tough to answer as of late it never used to be it was just you know sexy stuff hot women do now my answers are more like the awkward “you know” lol anyone with half a brain would probably connect the dots that I’m some sort of deviant but no one has caught on that I know of.
But otherwise no it’s just not anyone’s business imo unless it’s someone I’m really intimate with
I see.
7 months
I was just wondering if there were a lot of people who admitted to having these fetishes or kinks to their parents, families, friends, or work colleagues. How they reacted. Did they discover it or did you tell them? How do you live this experience?
For my part, no one knows. I simply don't assume it, especially since I have a lot of kinks around gaybears and bellies in general. If I told them all about my weird big weirdo's kinks, they'd be sent to the psychiatric asylum.
7 months
I know that there are dating sites (feedee/feeder, chubby chaser) and many others related to weight for heterosexual men and women, and for gay men. But I wonder if the same thing exists for lesbians or LGBT people in general. It would be unfair and annoying if it didn't exist for this part of the population who have these fetishes and kinks.
8 months
HappyBigBelly:
The best of us here on the site always treat folks with the utmost respect. A few bad actors over time here and there, but it’s quite supportive. No one should be treated as though they’re “less than.”
Hoooo yes, I can only agree with you.
8 months
Horror Doll:
Try being an ex feabie member
It could be nice as a social network, but I have the impression that it's full of straight people. And I'm gay, that's why I'm on Grommr. BiggerCity is also a social network for gays apparently. And I plan to sign up for it one day. But first I'm taking a break from social media.
In any case, thank you for this advice.
8 months
Ditzy:
I'm supportive and think everybody deserves to be happy and content.
👍
8 months
Ditzy:I think 90% of us feel frustration when it comes to dating at some time.
I had been on dating sites but usually when guys learned I was fat and didn't mind being fat they lost interest and thats OK .
I'm old school when it comes to dating so pretty much blah for most people with a kink.
Not being gay myself I know lots of gay men but those guys are really fussy about who they date.
Far more than a woman honestly.
I do hope you find someone because you deserve to be happy
It makes me happy to read. Thanks Ditzy 😉👍
8 months
Ditzy:
It can't be that hard to find people to date in your area.
You just have to put yourself out there and meet people.
Be open about what you are into.
That may scare some off but you just might find someone real not a profile on some kink website.
Your match isn't going to come to you so you will have to find them.
FatFalcon:
You may be right. Part of the problem is though is there isn’t very many gay men in my area. Plus it’s not easy trying to find someone who shares the kink/fetish. So it’s complicated. If I was in a larger city maybe but small towns. The chances of finding one who is into gaining and single is hard to find.
Stockylove:
Isn't there a big city near Manchester? A big city maybe an hour or two away.
FatFalcon:
There’s Lexington. But I have yet to find anyone there. Plus I have to deal with a brother who is always in a rush act.
Ha OK.
8 months
Ditzy:
It can't be that hard to find people to date in your area.
You just have to put yourself out there and meet people.
Be open about what you are into.
That may scare some off but you just might find someone real not a profile on some kink website.
Your match isn't going to come to you so you will have to find them.
FatFalcon:
You may be right. Part of the problem is though is there isn’t very many gay men in my area. Plus it’s not easy trying to find someone who shares the kink/fetish. So it’s complicated. If I was in a larger city maybe but small towns. The chances of finding one who is into gaining and single is hard to find.
Stockylove:
Isn't there a big city near Manchester? A big city maybe an hour or two away.
FatFalcon:
There’s Lexington. But I have yet to find anyone there. Plus I have to deal with a brother who is always in a rush act.
Ha OK.
8 months
Ditzy:
It can't be that hard to find people to date in your area.
You just have to put yourself out there and meet people.
Be open about what you are into.
That may scare some off but you just might find someone real not a profile on some kink website.
Your match isn't going to come to you so you will have to find them.
FatFalcon:
You may be right. Part of the problem is though is there isn’t very many gay men in my area. Plus it’s not easy trying to find someone who shares the kink/fetish. So it’s complicated. If I was in a larger city maybe but small towns. The chances of finding one who is into gaining and single is hard to find.
Isn't there a big city near Manchester? A big city maybe an hour or two away.
8 months
