Submissive bi guy here, too.

Love big, strong, fit men who like to dominate fatties.

I am bigger than you and have used lots of different anal toys. Anything with a flared base will can be left in.

I have a neat set of anal vibrating balls on a string coated in silicone - they have those weighted balls inside them, like ben wa balls. They are fun to put in and leave there. As you move around they move, especially while walking (or in my case waddling) and are very stimulating!

Absolutely... love to be teased, called names, and humiliated. It's very erotic to me.

Not sure what you consider long-term? I have spent an entire weekend bound in bed as part of kinky play, with only breaks for the washroom, but nothing longer than that.

Years ago, when I was still thin (but still a lil' kinky) I wore a chastity belt for 3, maybe 4 days... That was an interesting experience, too.

What kind of tips or advice are you looking for?

oh my gosh, that is so sad...

No, I always loved fat and thought fat people were sexy, but I was skinny into my 30s.



My desire was inspired by my partner, who became my feeder. If she hadn't thought my getting fat was sexy, I don't know if it ever would have occurred to me? But she definitely was the motivator, and then I discovered how pleasurable it could be.



Sort of - I initially gained a small amount slowly over a period of time.



I gained unintentionally - just getting older, slower metabolism, getting more sedentary, not exercising, and all that. I wouldn't say that I hated it, but my knee-jerk reaction was that I should lose it - just because, even as a FA, I think that societal "norm" was burned into my brain. It was my partner who said, "Why? It's sexy, keep going!"

If you stuff yourself regularly - really stuff yourself past the point of feeling full, almost to the point of pain - and do that regularly over a period of time, you will find your stomach capacity will grow. You will stretch out your stomach.

At this point, my capacity is such that I become hungry very easily, stimulants aren't necessary.

I would caution anyone at consuming any kind of drug or chemical if you don't have a good understanding of the long term effects of it.

My feeder has, year ago, made some herbal appetite stimulants (teas and things), which at the time I may have thought were working, but very well could have been just the suggestion (psychosomatic)? But stretching out your stomach really does work.

We've done this role play in the bedroom before... lots of fun! Big turn on, with arms bound behind and an apple acting as a gag.

I think my wife has a scale fetish... Whereas I get into the numbers as a kind of sport score, back when I was actively gaining, she really, really got excited when we would do regular weigh ins and she would see the numbers go up! To the point that bedroom recreation usually followed.

To me it was more, "I met my goal! I win! Yay!" I think she got more of a sexual buzz from it.

Part of the appeal of Hansel & Gretel (which I adore) is that, although they've managed to trick the witch by making her think he's not fattened up, in reality he is still unable to resist, loses control as it were, and does in fact grow fat. Something about the inevitability and unavoidability of it is so enticing.