Negative, pessimistic people who can't stop complaining.

I absolutely adore traveling too. I have been very lucky that my work has brought me to quite some corners of the world. Put me on a plane, even if it is for a one day round trip, and I am happy. My favourite region is the US South West.

Cuddling
Softly wrapping my hands around your belly from behind, especially when you sit on my lap
Belly play

At my work I once got the opportunity to have a 2-day Meyers-Briggs workshop, which was extremely interesting. I came out as an ISFP then, and also in this Keirsey test (Artisan-Composer).

This is what I like about the US society. People start to talk to strangers much more easily. Where I live, society is much more closed and people don't start talking to strangers unless there is a good cause for it. You would get a "you weirdo" look. If I am in a situation where I can start up a conversation I certainly do, but unfortunately I very rarely meet a nice big women that way.

I think geekybibabe describes it really well, but I also agree with justanotherfa when he says it more than a preference. I also tend to call it an orientation, because "preference" to me means that you prefer big women, but could as well be with a skinny woman. I have a preference for women with dark hair and dark eyes, but my ex was blonde. I didn't find her any less attractive for that.

Fetish or not, for me it is just a label. What matters is how you are as a person and deal with it. No matter how sexy a person is to me, she is a person, not a big belly or a set of soft curves.

Most of the time on my belly with my face to the right. Sometimes on my right side, especially when I get my "second sleep" after I woke up in the morning. Always on the right side of the bed.

Surprised to hear that so many women with a big belly sleep on their belly, I thought that would be uncomfortable.

What I like most on this site is that most women seem to be so confident about their larger body. But the post of Velvetty has made me wonder whether there are many women on here who are only so confident online? This is after all a microcosmos that is much different from the world outside.

I do hope people can take at least part of this confidence from here into their real lives though.

The thing with online contacts is that unconsciously you tend to idealize the other person. When I was on a dating site, I have fallen head over heels for some women, but then when we actually met, all the magic was gone. For various reasons, people can be a lot different online than in real life. That is why I recommend that people actually meet each other once they have established that there is a mutual interest, rather than talking online for many more months.

Back to your post: maybe you are idealizing this man because he has some qualities that you miss in your husband? Have you tried to discuss some of these things you miss with him? Maybe he would love to touch your curves more, but is affraid to do so because he thinks you are too self conscious about your curvy parts?

Strangly enough, I didn't have any dreams as a kid or a teen, and although I love my current job, I would love to be a pilot, truck driver, weather forecaster, doctor, psychologist,...

I think I have too many interests