I'm a master. I love to go Dom on ladies , have my way with them, and of course fatten them up a good bit.

All that warm soft fat on top of me and large breasts in my face. I certainly don't mind a BBQ or ssbbw on top. It is quite wonderful.

I'd say that like all things it depends on the person;in this instance the feedee. Some are driven to gain weight for various reasons. Some do it to feel comfortable with their body, others to give the perverbial F-U to the medical field or someone who is really cracking down on them, and still others for the erotic feelings from either from being a stuffed glutton, others noticing how fat they've gotten, feeling all soft, squashing or wrestling with someone etc. The list could go on.

Enter the feeder. This person like the feedee inhabits a number of different characters depending on the person from the gentle and passive encourager/enabler to the aggressive and dominanting force feeder to the diabolical secret feeder etc. The point is the feedee wants to get fat and a feeder is more than happy oblige as they want the same thing as well.

To answer your question, we can. We aren't necessary for a person to gain weight but we sure can help make it fun and speed up the results. And who doesn't like doing fun things, especially intimate and erotic fun things. Also there is the Dom/sub aspect of feederism and fat fetishes. Some people who what feeders what us because they what a forceful Fattener to stuff them til they can't walk or an adoring slave feeder to fatten them.

I'll take class myself. Portrays a certain amount confidence, care mystery, charm and a hint of arrogance or dominance. Hence the reason why I dress so classy. LOL

BEST IDEA EVER!

For me, it's when my girl says, "I need a tummy rub," all cute and innocently. And then when I lower her pants to let her belly out, say goes, "No, I'm gonna look huge." To which I reply, "But babe, you are huge. Now do you want that belly rub or not?" She always relents and lets me massage away her food babies.

Speaking of which, another one she always gets me with is, "I hope you plan on marrying me, cause I'm pregnant with your food baby." Sure sign of a good time.

I think I found a new favorite song. Thanks Doc Feeder.

Some that have stuck with me recently these:
"It is surprising what a man can do when he has to, and how little most men will do when they don't have to."
-Walter Linn

"No man ever wetted clay, as if there would be bricks by chance and fortune."
-Plutarch

"Be as scrupulous in performing a minor commandment as a major one...for you know not the reward it will bring."
-Talmud

"Endurance is patience, concentrated."
-Thomas Carlyle

One that I like the best right now is this one:
"The reasonable man adapts himself to the world; the unreasonable one persists in trying to adapt the world to himself. Therefore all progress depends on the unreasonable man."
-George Bernard Shaw

The A Team covered by Birdy

I've gotten better with my fear of heights, you still won't find me on high-rises though. A good 15ft up on a ladder is great for me, or however tall most climbing walls are.

As for others, I'd have to say:
-Fear of rejection
-Somewhat fear of failure
-Fear of suffocation (painful way to die)
-A tiny fear of death