Spouse not so much into it - experiences?
MCH:
I love curvy women. My wife gained 40 lbs over the last years (she’s 185 lbs at 5’2) I kind of expected that gain as she has not much of a self control mechanism and loves sweets and chocolate and hamburgers. Plus her metabolism stores every single calorie. So far so good.
I tell her she’s beautiful but she hasn’t yet managed to get comfortable with her weight. She tries to diet but then again buys all kinds of chocolate 🙂 Funny thing: part of her family is fat and enjoying themselves while the other part is fatphobic. So I don‘t know if she really hates being overweight because she wants to please the fatphobic part.
Anyway - I recently restarted stuffing myself a little bit and I had almost forgotten how awesome that feels. I gained 20 lbs over the last two months and absolutely love my new gut. I can’t stop admiring it.
My wife is still considerably fatter than me but she now talks about diets for the BOTH of us. While munching on chocolate…
I don’t really think she will lose weight but anyway… If I had three wishes they would be: 1) my wife gains (much) more weight but 2) is happy about it and 3) likes my extra pounds too.
I can’t really talk to anyone I know about this so I‘m happy to have found this place.
I know I can’t brainwash my wife and don’t want to either, but now I have to find a way to deal with this situation. Can anyone relate? Comments/ suggestions welcome 🙂
I love curvy women. My wife gained 40 lbs over the last years (she’s 185 lbs at 5’2) I kind of expected that gain as she has not much of a self control mechanism and loves sweets and chocolate and hamburgers. Plus her metabolism stores every single calorie. So far so good.
I tell her she’s beautiful but she hasn’t yet managed to get comfortable with her weight. She tries to diet but then again buys all kinds of chocolate 🙂 Funny thing: part of her family is fat and enjoying themselves while the other part is fatphobic. So I don‘t know if she really hates being overweight because she wants to please the fatphobic part.
Anyway - I recently restarted stuffing myself a little bit and I had almost forgotten how awesome that feels. I gained 20 lbs over the last two months and absolutely love my new gut. I can’t stop admiring it.
My wife is still considerably fatter than me but she now talks about diets for the BOTH of us. While munching on chocolate…
I don’t really think she will lose weight but anyway… If I had three wishes they would be: 1) my wife gains (much) more weight but 2) is happy about it and 3) likes my extra pounds too.
I can’t really talk to anyone I know about this so I‘m happy to have found this place.
I know I can’t brainwash my wife and don’t want to either, but now I have to find a way to deal with this situation. Can anyone relate? Comments/ suggestions welcome 🙂
Just continue to love her without reservation and tell her as much. Letting a woman know she’s loved regardless of her weight is golden :-)
3 years
