Jhale wrote:I see around this website that there are a lot of guys who are quite specific about feeding women only or having a female feeder. There are also some who are into male or female feeding them or being fed by them, mutually gaining, et. cetera.
But I feel that I have seen no one on this website who is restricting their search to a guy who is male themselves. I have seen it for women, but not men. Anyone care to prove me wrong?
I think men-for-men feedists go to grommr.
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Good tips! I have done that thing of contacting people directly and getting them to come, but haven't had much luck getting the others to do that.
kaptn03 wrote:
Hope I can make one of your events to meet everyone one of the next Cali trips.
Yeah, I hope so too! I've been thinking we should have a couple of two dates graven in stone so people can plan trips around them more easily. Like maybe first Sunday in November and first Sunday in May.
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I don't think anyone has addressed the OP's post--the problem is not his gf's feelings about her weight gain; the problem is she thinks there's something wrong with HIM for liking it.
OP: I don't really have an answer, except that you might show her the on-line wg and fat-admiration sites and show her that your preferences are quite common.
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"And you should go someplace where they want your opinion."
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curvesgalore wrote:
This is how I would rank these..
1. You like fattening food.
2. You like to overeat and enjoy the feeling of being completely stuffed.
3. You love the way it looks
4. You find it erotic. (especially when you are being fed)
4. You're tired of feeling guilty about your weight or appetite.
6. You hate dieting.
7. Your significant other wants you to gain.
Very nice! Though you re-numbered everything...for the sake of consistency, your rankings are:
1 2 7 6 3 4 5
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browniebelly wrote:Got the office job guys....it's also located right by a ton of fast food places
Yay!
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Yeah, I saw that too! So messed up.
This Abby is not the original Abby but rather her granddaughter. She definitely is not as good as granny was.
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I'm no expert on throwing FF events but I've helped organize a few in San Francisco and figured I'd share what I've learned. Please add any ideas you might have!
Mailing List The FF events forum is great, but people don't check it enough. You need to form a local mailing list (with google groups or whatever) so people will get timely updates.
Planning You can toss around ideas for awhile, but note that someone needs to actually propose something concrete. If no one else does, it's up to you!
Venue The first successful meet-up we did was at Cheesecake Factory in San Francisco. I chose it because:
a. It's close to public transit;
b. Parking available;
c. Not too expensive;
d. It's a familiar enough place that people would feel comfortable going there. People are going to be shy about attending, especially in the beginning;
e. There's food;
f. There's alcohol;
I'm not saying all events should be at Cheesecake factory; just that the above factors are good ones to consider.
Time and date So far we've always met Sunday's at 4pm. I'm starting to think a little later might be better. Though too late and we could run into the dinner crowd rush.
Recruiting I not only posted in Events but would often encourage local people I saw in chat or elsewhere on ff to get on the mailing list. At this point I have 34 people on the list.
Two-banger Events On our last meet-up we went bar-hopping afterwards. We had to walk several blocks to find a good place, which of course can be hard on bigger people, especially after a large meal! It occurred to me it would be nice to plan that in advance and figure out a second place that would be easy to get to from the first place.
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