Morbidly A Beast:
my point is just that it’s wrong and creepy to fetishize the girl just trying to enjoy her day at the beach when there’s hundreds of women online here who enjoy it. Any kind of hyperbole aside it seemed to upset the right kind of freak who just thought consent is just the worst and people noticed, I had to take a few days because it was making me so angry people didn’t understand basic consent.

Letters And Numbers:
You might want to take a few more days because this feels unhealthy. Or you’re trolling. Either way, give it a rest.

Morbidly A Beast:
idk its weird to me that there’s dudes taking creep shots of women and posting them online “look at her pants don’t fit” and this whole noticing shit is in the same wheelhouse of non-consensual creepy stuff, all I’ve said is that it’s weird that this type of stuff is so pervasive when there’s WILLING and ABLE people who WANT to engage with these fantasies on these sites

Morbidly A Beast:
is fantasizing about raping a woman not sick freak behavior?

RegularGhost15:
Yeah so you're just here to be mad about things that explicitly aren't happening in this topic. Please take a breath and move on.

Morbidly A Beast:
fucking sick freaks.

Nok:
That's absolutely unacceptable. Why are you here? Why would you post something like that? Are you incapable of thinking before you speak? You must understand, behavior like this colors everything you will ever comment again - it makes it impossible to take you seriously, to see you as anything other than a fool or a troll. Please learn to act like an adult if you want to participate in civil adult discussions.

RegularGhost15:
I think either side has generally good points, but at the end of the day, unless someone is crossing a line like posting pictures or being specific enough to identify someone on here, I think the issue of consent on posting about it is moot because there is nothing personal about a description of seeing someone wearing tight clothes. Almost every other topic in this entire forum has posts talking about other people in general terms so it's bizarre to see people drawing an arbitrary line at this specific topic.

If you think a topic is cringy, I have some bad news about how people view this fetish in general. Maybe just don't post if you aren't interested in a topic. It will get buried faster that way. 🤷

AskDrFeeder:
I know, let's put everyone in burkas so we can't fantasize about them even if we want to!

Greentrees8733:
Similarly, Morbidly A Beast, you’re also addressing a morality angle, right? Like it’s morally okay to feel attraction, but not fetishize? I think that’s what I’m reading, but I just want to double check.

Morbidly A Beast:
Of course it’s ok to feel attraction. Attractions aren’t fetishes. No one says straight men have a fetish for women lol. But yes. However it is more about it just being kinda cringe I see it all the time in these spaces and it’s just kinda meh to me.

Liamvberserk:
Make your own thread. Don't derail other people's.